We hear your concern and understand the distress that false wellness checks can bring, especially when they are used as a means to reestablish unwanted contact. The wisdom and direction you seek come from the Lord, who is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Let us first rebuke any spirit of deception or manipulation that may be at work in this situation. We declare in the name of Jesus Christ that no weapon formed against you shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against you in judgment, you shall condemn (Isaiah 54:17).
The Lord calls us to be wise as serpents and harmless as doves (Matthew 10:16). If these wellness checks are not genuine but are instead a tactic to breach the boundaries you have set, it is important to respond with discernment. Scripture tells us, "Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces" (Matthew 7:6). This verse reminds us that not everyone who approaches us does so with pure intentions, and we must guard our hearts and minds accordingly.
We also encourage you to seek counsel from trusted believers or legal authorities if necessary, as Romans 13:1-4 reminds us that governing authorities are established by God to maintain order and justice. If these wellness checks are being used deceptively, it may be appropriate to involve those who can help ensure your safety and peace.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, seeking Your wisdom and direction for our brother/sister in this situation. Lord, You are the God of all peace, and we ask that You would surround them with Your protection and grant them discernment to know how to proceed. Father, we rebuke any spirit of deception or manipulation that seeks to disrupt their peace, and we declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper. Give them the strength to stand firm in the boundaries they have set and the courage to seek help if needed. Lord, we ask that You would guide their steps and lead them into all truth, that they may walk in the freedom and safety You have promised. We pray this in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord in prayer and to remain steadfast in your resolve to maintain healthy boundaries. The enemy may try to use others to create chaos or confusion, but we serve a God who is greater than any scheme of man. Stand firm in your faith, knowing that the Lord is your defender and your shield (Psalm 3:3). If you have not already, consider reaching out to a pastor, counselor, or legal advisor who can provide additional guidance tailored to your specific circumstances. May the Lord continue to guide and protect you as you walk in His will.
