We join you in lifting up your ex before the Lord and we are grateful for your compassionate heart that desires to pray for health and salvation for someone from your past. It reflects the love Christ calls us to, as we are reminded in Matthew 5:44, But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you. Choosing to pray for an ex with forgiveness and goodwill is pleasing to God.
We also want to gently encourage you in biblical truth concerning relationships. We do not know the nature of your former relationship, whether it was a courtship or a marriage, but we hold to the sanctity of marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman as God designed from the beginning, Genesis 2:24 and Matthew 19:6. We view dating as courtship with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer, as taught in 2 Corinthians 6:14, and we encourage pursuing godly marriage that honors God. If that past relationship involved intimacy outside of marriage, we lovingly remind you that scripture calls this fornication and calls us to flee from it, 1 Corinthians 6:18, and that marriage is to be held in honor and the marriage bed kept undefiled, Hebrews 13:4. If there is any need for repentance, we encourage you to bring it to the Lord and receive His forgiveness and grace to walk in purity going forward.
We notice your request did not mention the name of Jesus, and we want to lovingly share that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God and receive salvation. Jesus said in John 14:6, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. And scripture declares in Acts 4:12, There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved. We are saved by confessing Jesus as Lord and believing God raised Him from the dead, Romans 10:9, that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. It is by grace through faith, Ephesians 2:8-9, and God desires all people to be saved and come to full knowledge of the truth, 1 Timothy 2:3-4.
We pray together for your ex and for you.
Father, we come before You together in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking Your will. We lift up this dear ex to You. You know the need for health and the deeper need for salvation. We ask for Your healing hand upon this person, for You are the One who forgives all our sins and heals all our diseases, Psalm 103:2-3, and You have said, But I will restore health to you, and I will heal you of your wounds, says Yahweh, Jeremiah 30:17. We pray that the prayer of faith will help bring restoration, James 5:15, according to Your perfect will. Most of all, we pray for salvation. Draw this person to Yourself, open eyes to see the truth of the gospel, grant repentance and faith in Jesus Christ, that sins may be forgiven and new life received. Lord, we also lift up the one who is praying, grant peace, healing from any hurt of the past, a heart of forgiveness, and guidance for the future. Lead toward relationships and a future marriage that honors You, if it is Your will, and help both to walk in holiness and hope. We ask all this in the precious and only saving name of Jesus, amen.
We encourage you to continue to pray faithfully for your ex, entrusting both health and salvation to the Lord's sovereign care, and to keep your own heart rooted in Christ, seeking His will and His Word daily.