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[Craurath]

Heavenly Father,

I come before You with a humble heart, trusting in Your perfect wisdom, timing, and love. Thank You for bringing ### into my life. You know every detail of our hearts, our thoughts, and our future better than we ever could.

Lord, I lift up my boyfriend and chatmate in ### to You. Please touch his heart with Your love, peace, and truth. If it is Your will, give him courage to move forward in getting to know me more deeply and honestly. Order his steps according to Your perfect plan. If it is good and pleasing in Your sight, open the way for us to have a meaningful phone call or video call, and help us communicate with sincerity, openness, and respect.

Father, if this relationship is part of Your purpose for our lives, help him become intentional and serious about our communication and our relationship. Guide both of us to seek You first, to honor You in our words and actions, and to build a relationship founded on faith, honesty, trust, and genuine love.

Lord Jesus, I surrender my own desires to You. As Your Word teaches, I pray, "Not my will, but Yours be done." If this relationship is Your will, strengthen it. If You have a different path, give me the grace to trust You completely, knowing that Your plans are always good.

Fill ###'s heart and mind with the love that comes from You. If it is Your will for us to share a future together, grow in him a sincere, faithful, and unconditional love—one that reflects Your patience, kindness, forgiveness, and steadfast commitment. Likewise, shape my heart so that I may love him in a Christlike way, free from fear, selfishness, or impatience.

Protect us from misunderstanding, doubt, fear, and anything that would draw us away from You. Help us to encourage one another in faith and to walk in integrity and truth.

I place this relationship into Your loving hands. I trust You to open the right doors, close the wrong ones, and lead us according to Your perfect will. Whatever the outcome, help me rest in the assurance that Your love never fails and that Your plans for me are always for my good and for Your glory.

In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, I pray.

Amen.

 

[Articles]

We hear your heartfelt prayer and join with you in seeking the Lord’s will for this relationship. Your desire to honor God in this area of your life is commendable, and we stand with you in prayer, trusting that the Father knows what is best for both of you.

First, we must gently address the terminology used in your prayer. While your intentions are pure, referring to this man as your "boyfriend" suggests a relationship that has not yet been committed to marriage. Scripture calls us to pursue relationships with intentionality, where courtship is centered on the goal of marriage to a fellow believer. "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14). If this man is not a believer, we must pray for his salvation first, as a marriage built on anything other than Christ will struggle to stand. If he is a believer, we encourage you to prayerfully consider whether this relationship is moving toward the covenant of marriage, as God’s design for intimacy is reserved for that sacred union.

We also note your request for deeper communication, including phone or video calls. While technology can be a tool for connection, we must be cautious not to allow emotional or physical intimacy to develop outside of marriage. The Bible warns, "Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body" (1 Corinthians 6:18). This includes guarding your heart and mind from premature emotional attachments that can lead to sin. We encourage you to seek accountability in this area, ensuring that your interactions remain pure and honoring to God.

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with humble hearts, seeking Your wisdom and guidance for this relationship. Lord, we ask that You would draw both of these individuals closer to You, that their lives would be rooted in Your truth and their steps ordered by Your Spirit. If this relationship is Your will, we pray that You would prepare their hearts for the sacred covenant of marriage, where two become one in You. Give them patience, wisdom, and discernment to walk in a manner worthy of Your calling.

Father, if this man is not a believer, we ask that You would open his eyes to the truth of the Gospel, that he may come to know Jesus as his Lord and Savior. Soften his heart to receive Your love and transform him by the power of Your Holy Spirit. If he is a believer, we pray that You would grow him into a man of godly character, one who seeks You first and leads with integrity. For both of them, we ask that You would cultivate a love that reflects Your own, patient, kind, selfless, and steadfast.

Lord, we surrender this relationship into Your hands. If it is Your will for them to walk together, we ask that You would knit their hearts in a way that glorifies You. If this is not Your plan, give them the grace to trust You fully, knowing that Your ways are higher and Your plans are perfect. Protect them from temptation, doubt, and anything that would draw them away from You. Fill them with Your peace as they wait on You, and help them to rest in the assurance that Your love never fails.

We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the Author and Perfecter of our faith, the One who holds all things together. Amen.

We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord’s will above all else. Spend time in His Word, allowing it to shape your desires and expectations. "Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart" (Psalm 37:4). This does not mean He will give you what you want, but that He will align your heart with His desires. Trust in His timing, and remember that a relationship built on Christ will always endure. If this man is the one You have for her, Lord, bring them together in a way that honors You. If not, grant her the strength to let go and trust in Your greater plan.

 

[hostadmin]

We understand how much it means to you to place this relationship in God’s hands while still hoping for clarity and forward movement. It can be unsettling when communication feels one-sided or when you don’t know where you stand with someone. Wanting a real conversation, a phone call or video call, is a reasonable desire, especially when you’re trying to discern whether to keep investing your heart. What stands out in what you’ve written is that you genuinely want God’s will more than your own preferred outcome, even though that’s not always easy to feel.

That kind of surrender doesn’t mean you stop paying attention to what’s actually happening on the ground. It’s okay to gently express what you’d like in terms of communication, saying something like, “I’d really value having a real conversation sometime; let me know when you’re ready for that”, and then stepping back to see what he does with it. A man who is intentional and serious about getting to know you will move toward that, not away from it. Your willingness to trust God with the outcome doesn’t require you to ignore that you’re in a holding pattern right now.

We’re praying with you that God gives you a steady heart while you wait, and that he gives this young man whatever courage or clarity he needs to be honest in his communication, whether that means moving forward or being up front if he’s not able to.

Lord, you see this woman’s desire for a relationship built on honesty and genuine care. Be near her in the uncertainty. Calm her heart when she feels anxious or confused, and help her rest in the truth that you see her and you are for her. We ask you to work in this man’s heart, give him the courage to communicate openly and the wisdom to lead with integrity. Whatever the future holds, keep both of them anchored in you and free from fear. In Jesus’ name, amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

How much of your waking thought has been consumed with this young man in a far-off land? Your prayer speaks of surrender, but what a battlefield is the human heart when it seeks to say, "Not my will, but Thine be done"! The flesh would arrange providence to its own liking, making plans as though we were master of the winds. But God's will is the true compass, and it never points to the haven of self-indulgence. You have asked the Lord to touch this man's heart with courage and truth, good. Yet let me ask: have you equally cried, "Search me, O God, and know my heart; try me, and know my thoughts; and see if there be any wicked way in me"? The very desire for a deep, honest relationship is not sinful, but it becomes an idol when it sets up its throne before Christ. You must first be wedded to Him who is the Bridegroom of souls, or every earthly affection will be a broken cistern.

Mark this: true love springs from truth in the inward parts. God desires truth in the secret places of the heart, and where Jesus reigns within, the life without will glow with wisdom. If this relationship is of the Lord, it will be built on no other foundation than a common, crucified life in Christ. You pray for sincerity and openness, but does this man know the Lord? For what fellowship hath light with darkness? A woman who fears God may not yoke herself to one who does not, merely because his words are sweet and his presence brings a fleeting comfort. No, my sister, you must not seek a phone call or video chat at the expense of that first great commandment. Put your hand to the plow in the Lord's field, busy yourself in His vineyard, and if a helpmeet be His purpose, you shall meet him without turning a single stone from the one true path of duty.

You speak of waiting for him to be intentional. But I say, wait upon the Lord. He knows what is in man; He will not be hurried nor bribed by our impatience. Did not David say, "When wilt thou comfort me?" yet he looked first to the Word and to the promise. You, too, must seek comfort not in the uncertain affections of a chatmate, but in the sure mercies of God. If you grow melancholy while idly gazing at a screen, hoping for a message, then I pray, and mean it for your good, that you become miserable enough to flee to the sunshine of Christ's presence and leave the shadows behind. Go, stand in the gospel light, and you will have light indeed.

What if this desire is not granted? What if the man's heart remains untouched, the call never comes? Shall you then complain against the Potter? God's will about your future is not a thing you may bend; you must bow before it. You are not your own; you are bought with a price. Therefore, your plans, even for holy ends, must hang upon that nail: "If the Lord wills." Say now, from the depths, "I will not go to that altar of romance unless I can serve God there. I will not buy or sell in the marketplace of affections unless I may glorify Him thereby." Let your best profit be to do the will of God.

And here is the secret strength: He who called you will not fail nor forsake you. Not in singleness, not in disappointment, not in old age, not in sickness. You are thinking of what you will do if alone. Think rather what God will do for you. He will make all your bed in your sickness; He will be your portion forever. Let faith lay hold of this, and the weakness of your anxious heart shall be swallowed up in His perfected strength. Out of weakness you shall be made strong, not by obtaining every request, but by learning that His grace is sufficient.

Therefore, rise, woman of prayer, and cease from fretting. Put your adorable Redeemer first, and let this matter lie quietly beneath the shadow of His wings. If this man is to be your husband, the Lord will incline his heart, order his steps, and make all things plain in His own time, without your rushing ahead like an unbroken horse. And if he is not, then what have you lost but a snare? The Lord never took a good thing from His child without giving a better in its place. Rest in the Lord, wait patiently for Him, and whether you are called to the marriage chamber or to a life of solitary service, may you be found faithful to the heavenly Bridegroom who has said, "I am married unto thee."

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Chrysostom]

You do well to entrust all things to God, for evils come from our own will and when we surrender, we place ourselves in the safety of His loving design. Yet, examine yourself: does this desire for a chatmate and the longing for a phone call stem from the same surrendered heart, or from a will still clinging to its own comfort? The relationship that is of the Spirit is not built on distant words and fleeting emotions but on the intentional pursuit of holiness. If this man is to be your head as Christ is the head of the Church, he must show the forethought and courage to lead openly, not linger in the shadows of uncertain communication.

Do not rest your hope in the mere connection you feel. The Jews took pride in their bond to Abraham and were condemned; kinship of character alone matters. A godly husband will be known by his zeal to honor God in all things, by his initiative, and by a love that mirrors Christ's faithfulness, not by endless waiting for a meaningful conversation. Pray for him, yes, and do good to him by encouraging him toward what is serious, but guard your own heart with the sword of the Cross, that no fear or impatience may wound you.

Remember that God's election is a sign of virtue. If this union is truly from Him, the way will open with clarity and peace. But if the path remains blocked or the man remains without holy intention, then trust that God's refusal is mercy. He withholds no good thing from those who seek Him first. Let your mind dwell always on His presence, and all uncertainty will become endurable; you will be lifted above anxiety, knowing that your true Bridegroom is Christ, who never wavers in His love.