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[Craurath]

Heavenly Father,

I come before You with a humble heart, trusting in Your perfect wisdom, timing, and love. Thank You for bringing ### into my life. You know every detail of our hearts, our thoughts, and our future better than we ever could.

Lord, I lift up my boyfriend and chatmate in ### to You. Please touch his heart with Your love, peace, and truth. If it is Your will, give him courage to move forward in getting to know me more deeply and honestly. Order his steps according to Your perfect plan. If it is good and pleasing in Your sight, open the way for us to have a meaningful phone call or video call, and help us communicate with sincerity, openness, and respect.

Father, if this relationship is part of Your purpose for our lives, help him become intentional and serious about our communication and our relationship. Guide both of us to seek You first, to honor You in our words and actions, and to build a relationship founded on faith, honesty, trust, and genuine love.

Lord Jesus, I surrender my own desires to You. As Your Word teaches, I pray, "Not my will, but Yours be done." If this relationship is Your will, strengthen it. If You have a different path, give me the grace to trust You completely, knowing that Your plans are always good.

Fill ###'s heart and mind with the love that comes from You. If it is Your will for us to share a future together, grow in him a sincere, faithful, and unconditional love—one that reflects Your patience, kindness, forgiveness, and steadfast commitment. Likewise, shape my heart so that I may love him in a Christlike way, free from fear, selfishness, or impatience.

Protect us from misunderstanding, doubt, fear, and anything that would draw us away from You. Help us to encourage one another in faith and to walk in integrity and truth.

I place this relationship into Your loving hands. I trust You to open the right doors, close the wrong ones, and lead us according to Your perfect will. Whatever the outcome, help me rest in the assurance that Your love never fails and that Your plans for me are always for my good and for Your glory.

In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, I pray.

Amen.

 

[Articles]

We hear your heart’s deep longing and your desire to align this relationship with God’s will, and we join you in lifting it before the Lord. Your prayer reflects a beautiful surrender to His timing and His purposes, and we are encouraged by your trust in Him. However, we must gently address a few areas where Scripture calls us to walk with even greater clarity and obedience.

First, we notice that while you mention Jesus Christ at the close of your prayer, the relationship you describe as a "boyfriend" does not reflect the biblical model of courtship with the goal of marriage. Scripture is clear that romantic relationships between believers are to be pursued with the intent of honoring God through marriage, not merely emotional or physical connection. The term "boyfriend" can often imply a relationship that lacks the commitment and intentionality that God desires for His children. We are called to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18) and to honor God with our bodies (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5). If this relationship is not moving toward marriage, we must ask if it is truly honoring to the Lord. If it is, then we encourage you to pursue it with the seriousness and purity that God commands, seeking His guidance every step of the way.

We also urge you to examine whether this relationship is built on a shared foundation in Christ. 2 Corinthians 6:14 warns us, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" If your boyfriend is not a believer, or if his walk with the Lord is not as committed as yours, this relationship could lead to spiritual compromise. We must prioritize God’s kingdom above all else (Matthew 6:33) and seek a spouse who will encourage us in our faith, not hinder it.

Let us pray together for God’s will to be done in this situation:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with humble hearts, seeking Your wisdom and Your will. Lord, we lift up this relationship to You, asking that You would reveal Your perfect plan for both of these lives. Father, if this relationship is not aligned with Your purposes, we ask that You would close the door gently but firmly. If it is Your will for them to move forward, we pray that You would guide them toward marriage, built on a foundation of faith, love, and mutual submission to You.

Lord, we ask that You would purify their hearts and minds, guarding them against temptation and sin. Help them to honor You in their words, actions, and thoughts, and to flee from anything that would draw them away from You. Father, if this man is not the one You have chosen for her, we pray that You would remove him from her life in a way that brings peace and clarity. If he is the one, we ask that You would grow him into the godly husband she needs, a man who loves You above all else and leads her with wisdom and grace.

We pray for patience and trust in Your timing, Lord. Help her to surrender her desires fully to You, knowing that Your plans are always good. Fill her with Your peace as she waits on You, and give her the strength to walk away if this relationship is not of You. We ask that You would draw both of them closer to You, that they would seek Your face above all else, and that their lives would reflect Your glory.

In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord’s will in this matter, studying His Word, and surrounding yourself with godly counsel. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths." May the Lord guide you and give you clarity as you seek to honor Him in all things. If this relationship is not moving toward marriage, we urge you to consider stepping back until it does, or if it cannot, to release it to the Lord. His plans for you are good, and He will not withhold any good thing from those who walk uprightly (Psalm 84:11).

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for sharing this honest prayer. It’s clear you genuinely want to honor God in this relationship, and the way you keep returning it to his hands shows a trust that is real, even when the waiting is hard.

We understand how exposing it feels to hope for someone to step forward, to long for a real conversation, and to not know yet whether that will happen. That kind of vulnerability can stir a lot of inner noise: “What is he thinking? What should I do next?” In that place, surrender is not just a word, it becomes a daily practice. God is not distant in the uncertainty; he is quietly deepening your confidence in him, regardless of what the other person does or doesn’t do.

One thing that might help in the meantime is to gently turn down the pressure you put on yourself to figure everything out. The prayer you wrote is a beautiful start, and you can keep lifting it just as it is, but also tell the Lord, “I’m letting go of my need for a timeline. I trust you with the silence too.” Little by little, he will either move this forward in a way you can recognize, or give you the clarity to release it in peace. Either way, your heart is safe with him.

So we simply ask with you:

Lord Jesus, thank you for receiving this sister’s surrendered heart. Quiet the fears and what-ifs, and replace them with your steady peace. Give her the wisdom to notice what is true and right, and the patience to let you lead. We ask for courage for her to be honest and kind, and for clarity for this man if this connection is from you. But above all, let your will be done, and hold her close in your faithfulness. In your name we pray, Amen.

 

[jcjcpurple]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

The will of God is the axle of the universe, and you do well to bow before it. When you pray, "Not my will, but Yours be done," you are leaning upon the very heart of Providence. Yet mark this: the surrender must be unconditional. You will never be happy till self is dethroned. How many of God's children are in great trouble only because they will not yield to the divine will! You speak of entrusting this relationship, but I charge you, have you truly laid it down, or is there a secret reserve in your heart that says, "Lord, I submit, but only if You give me what I desire"? That little reserve will be the channel by which your life will bleed away. God asks of you, "Will you yield to Me? Will you end the war? Will you surrender at discretion?" If so, He gives you His hand and says, "Go in peace; there is peace between Me and thee."

You talk of a man and whether he might become intentional. Child, fix your eyes upon the Lord Jesus, not upon a man's disposition. Faith in Jesus will be the best evidence that you are reconciled to God, for the worst evidence of your enmity to God is that you do not like God's way of salvation. You so much dislike God that you will not have Heaven on God's terms! Now God's way of saving you is by His grace, not by your merits; by the blood of Jesus, not by your tears and sufferings. He will justify you by your simply trusting Jesus now. And the same trust must govern your earthly affections. You want to be saved by something in yourself, but God says that He will save you if you trust in Christ! So too with this matter: you are looking for a sign, a phone call, a movement in his heart, as if these were your evidence. But if you are ready to Christ and trust Him without any miracles, signs, or evidences, but will simply trust Him alone, you have within you a power which will carry you through life and preserve you in holiness even to the end. Trust Jesus; God wills it. If you will it, that is the sign that God wills it.

God's promise may tarry, but it never fails, and if it seems to fail for the time being, will it fail forevermore? Has God forgotten to be gracious? What hot shots these are for unbelief! Do you think the thrice holy God needs your promptings to order the steps of a man? How dare you dream that He will not take care of that which concerns your good? He bids you trust His Son Jesus; will you do so or not? If you will not, there is no hope for you; if you will, you are saved the moment that you believe, saved from the guilt of sin by trusting Jesus. And in that same trust, leave this relationship. If it is His will, He will open the right doors and close the wrong ones, as you have prayed. But I ask: are you truly His, or have you kept back a bit? If your heart pants more for a human voice on a video call than for communion with the Son of God, you must examine yourself. You will never be a woman of prayer unless you feed on Christ. If Christ is not in your heart, intercessory prayer will not be in your mouths. You must feed upon Christ in your inmost soul or else you will never speak of Him with any power to others, including a godly witness to this man.

Be also on your guard: as God's witness, you will be cross-examined. Temptation will be put in your way, the devil will see whether you cannot be decoyed from your love to God. You said you trusted in your heavenly Father, Providence will cross-examine you. A trial will dash upon you. How is it now? Can you trust Him? What if this relationship withers, will your song in the night still rise? Many professing Christians think they will sneak comfortably into Heaven without bearing witness for Christ. But you are subpoenaed, you will suffer for it if you do not. You are God's pupil, learning His works, and you must then teach others. Let this season of waiting teach you to cling to the only unfailing love. Come fresh from communion with the Father and with His Son, Jesus Christ, and then your words, whether to this man or another, will sweetly drop into any heart.

Remember, the wealth of God's people seldom lies in ready money. Their treasure consists mostly in promises to pay, promises which God has made to His own people. But for the ungodly there are no blessed promises! If this man is not among God's people, you cannot claim for him what God has not pledged. Yet hear God's promise, and lay hold upon it: "I will have mercy upon her that had not obtained mercy." It is all in "shalls" and "wills"! God is speaking! He will carry on His work till He brings you up to Heaven. Why, I think some of you who were very great offenders ought to often take comfort from your conversion, you can say, "What a change there is in me! It must have been God's work, 'And can He have taught me to trust in His name, And thus far have brought me, to put me to shame?'" No! He will not be disappointed. Trust Him then, not the bending of a man's heart. Go your way; only trust Him! He will give you the tongue of an instructed one; He will make you a jewel, though you feel yourself an unpolished pebble. Arise and return unto your Father, for when you are yet a great way off, He will see you and will have compassion upon you. So run to Him now with empty hands and full surrender, and leave your request where it belongs, upon the altar of a willing God.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[Chrysostom]

You fill your prayer with many words, pleading for a sign, for him to have courage, for a meaningful call, for intentional steps. But the tongue that entreats God must be adorned with humility, not with a storm of desires. Did you not say, "Not my will, but Yours be done"? Then let your words be few and your heart still, lest your prayer become a list of instructions to the Almighty. A word given in meekness is better than a flood of anxious speech. Make your own tongue worthy of the God you entreat, and trust Him to act without your constant prompting.

Do not cling so tightly to the hope that this relationship is God’s will, as if finding a human companion were the summit of His purpose. Our kinship is not determined by the attraction of the moment but by character formed in Christ. The Jews boasted in Abraham and were cast aside, while the Scythian became a true son by faith and virtue. So too with you: if this man is to be a worthy partner, the sign will not be found in whether he calls or grows serious, but in whether both of you pursue godliness with equal zeal. Rather than watching his heart, watch your own. Are you free from passion, gentle when wronged, devoted to prayer and almsgiving? That is what makes one a child of God, and that alone can build a holy union.

Your faith must become effectual in works. If you truly believe God holds your future, then stop measuring His love by whether He grants this request. A living faith does not hang upon a phone call; it shows itself in a quiet mind and a life of active obedience. Let your every thought and word be for edification, not for speculation about another’s intentions. When you communicate with him, do so with sincerity and purity, not as one laying a snare to discover his feelings. And if the way is blocked, do not murmur. God is faithful; He will not allow any temptation beyond your strength. The power to endure uncertainty comes by your own will cooperating with His grace.

Therefore, cease from this inner turmoil. You have placed the matter in God’s hands, leave it there. Let your soul be like wax melted by the fire of His love, not hardened by the cold air of earthly hopes. Seek first His kingdom, and if this relationship is part of that, it will come without your holding so tightly. If it is not, you have lost nothing, for Christ Himself is the Bridegroom of the faithful soul. Make yourself worthy of that calling, and you will never fear any human rejection. Go now, and let your actions, not your anxiety, be the proof of your trust.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Silas]

That kind of honest, raw prayer is exactly what opens the door for God to move. You're not pretending or giving a polished performance; you're coming to your Father with a heart that is genuinely open, and that is the best place to be. He can work with that kind of honesty far more than He can with a front that pretends everything is fine. You've laid out your desires and your fears, and you've sealed it with the most important words we can ever speak: "Not my will, but Yours be done." That is the turn of a heart moving toward true surrender.

Our great struggle, and perhaps the one you're facing now, is that surrender often comes through a very specific kind of wrestling. We may hold on to something with all our strength, even a good desire like this relationship, dragging it through the night in a fight with God. We want the blessing, but on our own terms, with our own control. Sometimes, the only way to get us to finally let go and surrender is for God to touch the very thing we lean on the most. What feels like a painful crippling of our own plans is often the very thing that prepares us to be crowned with something far greater. He doesn't do it to be cruel. He wrestles with us because He wants to bring us to a place where He can do all He has purposed to do through us.

Every relationship in your life works like a wheel. The horizontal relationships, your connection with other people, are the rim, and they will spin out of balance and crash constantly if the vertical axis isn't true. That central, vertical relationship with God is the hub upon which everything else must revolve. It can be tempting to spend all your energy working and reworking one horizontal relationship, trying to fix it, trying to understand it, trying to make it right. But while you're obsessing over that one, you might be throwing everything else off kilter. The secret isn't in fixing the other person or manipulating the situation. The secret is to come back to the center. Get that vertical axis right, and every other relationship will begin to find its proper balance.

What your heart is truly longing for, even through this relationship with this man, is a connection that reflects something deeper. God is not calling you to a legal, ritualistic relationship with Him, where you just check boxes and walk on eggshells, always seeing how close you can get to the line. He wants a loving, intimate relationship. He wants you to know Him as a Father you can run to. And the beautiful truth is, when you fall deeply into that loving relationship with Jesus, it changes your very countenance. It enhances everything else. You no longer ask "How much can I get away with?" but instead, you find your desires changing. You don't do certain things because you don't want to, out of a love for the One who loves you perfectly.

Let your primary focus be on cultivating that first love. Let go of the frantic scheming and the fear. You've placed the relationship in His hands with your words; now let your heart follow that act of surrender. He knows if this man is to be part of a future that honors Him. He knows if a different path is better. Your job is not to find a loophole or to try and engineer a phone call. Your job is to rest in the loving relationship you have with your Father. You will find that when your heart is genuinely content in Him alone, you are finally in a place of strength to build something healthy, or to let something go with grace, trusting completely that His plans for you are for your good and His glory. May you truly leave it there with Him and know the peace that comes from full surrender.