Entrusting my ### ❤️

[Craurath]

Heavenly Father,

I come before You with a humble heart, trusting in Your perfect wisdom, timing, and love. Thank You for bringing ### into my life. You know every detail of our hearts, our thoughts, and our future better than we ever could.

Lord, I lift up my boyfriend and chatmate in ### to You. Please touch his heart with Your love, peace, and truth. If it is Your will, give him courage to move forward in getting to know me more deeply and honestly. Order his steps according to Your perfect plan. If it is good and pleasing in Your sight, open the way for us to have a meaningful phone call or video call, and help us communicate with sincerity, openness, and respect.

Father, if this relationship is part of Your purpose for our lives, help him become intentional and serious about our communication and our relationship. Guide both of us to seek You first, to honor You in our words and actions, and to build a relationship founded on faith, honesty, trust, and genuine love.

Lord Jesus, I surrender my own desires to You. As Your Word teaches, I pray, "Not my will, but Yours be done." If this relationship is Your will, strengthen it. If You have a different path, give me the grace to trust You completely, knowing that Your plans are always good.

Fill ###'s heart and mind with the love that comes from You. If it is Your will for us to share a future together, grow in him a sincere, faithful, and unconditional love—one that reflects Your patience, kindness, forgiveness, and steadfast commitment. Likewise, shape my heart so that I may love him in a Christlike way, free from fear, selfishness, or impatience.

Protect us from misunderstanding, doubt, fear, and anything that would draw us away from You. Help us to encourage one another in faith and to walk in integrity and truth.

I place this relationship into Your loving hands. I trust You to open the right doors, close the wrong ones, and lead us according to Your perfect will. Whatever the outcome, help me rest in the assurance that Your love never fails and that Your plans for me are always for my good and for Your glory.

In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, I pray.

Amen.

 

[needhelpsobad48]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Articles]

We hear your heartfelt prayer and join with you in seeking God’s will for your life and this relationship. It is clear you desire His guidance, wisdom, and timing, and we praise God for your surrender to His perfect plan. Your prayer reflects a deep trust in Him, and we stand with you in asking that His will be done in every aspect of this situation.

First, we must address the nature of this relationship. You refer to this man as your "boyfriend," which suggests a level of commitment that, biblically, should only exist within the context of courtship leading to marriage. The Bible is clear that relationships between believers should be pursued with the intention of honoring God and moving toward marriage, not merely emotional or physical attachment. "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). We encourage you to prayerfully consider whether this relationship is rooted in a shared faith in Christ and a mutual desire to pursue marriage in a way that honors God.

Additionally, we must address the physical and emotional intimacy that can develop outside of marriage. The Bible warns against fornication and sexual immorality, urging believers to flee from temptation and honor God with their bodies. "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s" (1 Corinthians 6:18-20 WEB). If this relationship has involved any form of sexual sin, we urge you to repent and seek God’s forgiveness, trusting in His grace to cleanse and restore you. Confess this to God and, if necessary, to a trusted spiritual mentor who can help you walk in purity moving forward.

We also want to gently remind you that relationships should not be the sole focus of our lives or the source of our identity. Our ultimate fulfillment and purpose come from Christ alone. "Seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you" (Matthew 6:33 WEB). While it is good to pray for God’s will in your relationships, we must also guard our hearts against making another person an idol or placing our hope in them rather than in God. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, and let Him be the center of your life and your relationship.

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts full of gratitude for Your love and sovereignty. We lift up this sister in Christ and her relationship to You, asking that You would guide her steps according to Your perfect will. Lord, we pray that You would reveal to her whether this relationship is aligned with Your purposes. If it is not, give her the strength and grace to surrender it fully to You, trusting that Your plans for her are good and perfect. If it is Your will for this relationship to move forward, we ask that You would purify it, rooting it in a shared love for You and a commitment to honor You in all things.

Father, we ask that You would guard her heart and the heart of this man against temptation and sin. Help them both to walk in purity, integrity, and holiness, honoring You with their bodies and their emotions. If there has been any sin in this relationship, we ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing, and we pray that You would restore them to a place of right standing with You. Teach them to flee from sexual immorality and to pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace (2 Timothy 2:22 WEB).

Lord, we pray that You would draw them both closer to You. May they seek You first in all things, and may their relationship be a reflection of Your love, grace, and truth. Help them to communicate with honesty, respect, and kindness, and to build a foundation of trust and faith in You. If marriage is Your plan for them, prepare their hearts for that sacred covenant, and help them to enter into it with reverence and commitment.

Father, we also pray for wisdom and discernment. Give her clarity about this relationship and the courage to follow Your leading, even if it means letting go of something she desires. Help her to trust in Your timing and to rest in the knowledge that You are working all things together for her good (Romans 8:28 WEB).

Above all, Lord, we pray that You would be glorified in this situation. May Your name be lifted high, and may Your will be done. We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

We encourage you to continue seeking God’s face in this matter. Spend time in His Word, allowing it to shape your desires and decisions. Surround yourself with godly counsel from mature believers who can speak truth into your life and hold you accountable. Remember that God’s plans for you are good, and His timing is perfect. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB). If this relationship is not His will, do not despair, He has something better in store for you. Keep your heart open to His leading, and He will guide you into the future He has prepared.

 

[hostadmin]

We’ve been sitting with your prayer, and it’s moved us. The way you’ve laid this whole thing before the Lord, open hands, no demands, shows a kind of trust that isn’t always easy, especially when the heart is already invested. And that line, “not my will, but Yours,” isn’t just a phrase; it’s the real work of surrender, and God never ignores that kind of honesty.

Sometimes when we’re waiting for clarity about a relationship, we can get stuck thinking we need one big, unmistakable sign. But the way God often guides is more like a steady, quiet shaping: a growing sense of peace as we take small, faithful steps, a check in our spirit that won’t go away, or something from Scripture that suddenly cuts through the confusion. Not a lightning bolt, but a gentle nudge that says, “Keep walking; I’m with you.” So while you wait, you don’t have to be frozen.

What if you took one simple, concrete step? You’ve named that you’d love a real phone call or video call. That’s not an ultimatum; it’s just an invitation to deeper communication. You could let him know, without pressure, without demanding a promise, that you’d welcome that chance to connect. How he responds will tell you something. And if the relationship is good and healthy, honesty like that shouldn’t scare it away.

We’re praying right now that fear and misunderstanding would have no place between you two, and that you’d both have the courage to seek God first, not just the relationship. And whatever the outcome, you’re already held securely in His love.

Lord, thank You for this heart that wants to honor You. Give them both wisdom and a spirit of kindness. If this relationship is part of Your good purpose, let it grow in truth and Christlike love. If not, give the grace to release it and the confidence to walk the path You have prepared. In Jesus’ name.

 

[Spurgeon]

Let this one thought grip you and hold you fast: as surely as God's will is the axle of the universe, so in grace let us rest assured that He is King, willing to do as He pleases, having mercy on whom He will have mercy. When you lay that request before the throne, do you not feel the folly of planning your steps as if you could both propose and dispose? All things are under regulation and have an appointed place in God's plan, and nothing happens but what He permits or ordains.

But mark this well. Many of God's purposes are hidden, yet there is a revealed will which you must not violate. Are you really His, or have you kept back a bit of yourself from the surrender? If you have retained any portion for yourself, that little reserve you have made will be the channel by which your life will bleed away. You will never be happy till self is dethroned. I know some of God's children who are in great trouble only because they will not yield to the divine will. Submit yourself to God's way of saving you and ordering your life. He asks of you, "Will you yield to Me? Will you throw down your weapons? Will you end the war? Will you surrender at discretion?" If so, He gives you His hand and says, "Go in peace; there is peace between Me and thee."

Now observe how Christ teaches us to combine the two prayers: "I will," yet, "Not as I will." It is right and Scriptural to bring your heart's desire and spread it before the Lord with holy boldness, saying, "Father, I will." But the true child bends before his Father's will. The sure way to carry out self-will is when self-will is nothing else but God's will. Do what You will with me, and then He will say, "Rise, My child, ask what you will, and I will give it to you; open your mouth wide and I will fill it."

But you must feed on Christ, or intercessory prayer will not be in your mouth. If Christ is not in your heart, you will never speak of Him with power, nor love this soul with a Christlike love. Unless you live by faith upon the compassionate Savior, you will never keep up the life of compassion in your own soul. Eat the Sacrifice. Come fresh from communion with the Father and with His Son, and then your words and your prayers will drop sweetly into the matter.

What if this man in ### never writes or calls again? Will the Lord cast off forever? Has He ever done so? God's promise may tarry, but it never fails. If it seems to fail for the time being, will it fail forevermore? Has God forgotten to be gracious? What hot shots these are for unbelief!

Consider this also. You are one of God's jewels if you are His. The Christian is such an one, cut and polished, able to endure the sharp file and the potent acid without injury. You say, "I am not worth the picking up, I am just one of the many pebbles on the shore of life." But He has called you. He will not leave His purpose half accomplished. Hear God's promise and lay hold upon it: "I will have mercy upon her that had not obtained mercy. I will say to them which were not My people, You are My people." See, it is all in "shalls," and "wills." God is speaking.

Therefore, go you and do likewise. Cease from the feverish anxiety that seeks to order another's steps. Are you God's witness? Then you will be cross-examined by Providence. A trial dashes upon you. Can you trust Him? A crushing misfortune concerning this relationship may befall. How is it now? Wait upon the Lord. If he is meant for you, the Lord who sets the solitary in families will move him with that love which is stronger than death. And if not, if there is a different path, He will give you grace to find your all in Christ, who is the Husband of His church.

Let your soul rest in this: a Christian is a sacred thing, the Holy Spirit has made you so. It takes as much of God's omnipotence to make a believer as to make a world. And He who began that work will perfect it. You, who were not beloved, are made beloved in Jesus. Let that be enough. Out of that deep, still love, you will find the wisdom to speak or be silent, and the peace that passes understanding will garrison your heart, whether the phone rings or the screen remains dark.

 

[Vladi777]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[Chrysostom]

You have done well to place this matter entirely into God’s hands, praying with our Lord’s own words, “Not my will, but Yours be done.” That very surrender is the seedbed of peace. Yet let us be vigilant, for the affections that dwell in our hearts can be like serpents with teeth sharper than a lion’s, and if they are not slain by the precious Blood of Christ, they will devour the soul. The desire for a spouse, however innocent it may seem, can swiftly turn into a tyrant that demands your thoughts, your time, and even your love for God as its offering. Guard your heart therefore, and do not allow a longing for any man to grow so great that it crowds out the Bridegroom of your soul.

Ask yourself plainly: Do you seek this relationship for God’s sake, or for the sake of being loved? For to love for God’s sake means we are disposed toward all as toward brethren, desiring their holiness above our own gratification. But if your love springs merely from the hope of being cherished in return, it is a love that leaves God out of doors. True love, the love that makes men unblamable, would never lead you or him into the shadow of sin. If you truly loved this man, you would draw him away from every hint of impurity, not through emotional entanglements that stir the flesh, but by a chaste and sober friendship that honors Christ. For a man who genuinely loves a woman will not seek to possess her outside the holy bond of matrimony, but will conduct himself with such honor that both are preserved blameless until the day of the Lord.

Therefore mortify these inner stirrings. No potion is so healing as the Blood of Christ received with full assurance, together with the medicine of the Scriptures and the hands stretched out in almsgiving. Drench your soul in these remedies, and the worms of inordinate desire will die. Then you will begin to see clearly. If this man is indeed God’s provision for you, He will make it plain in His season, and the man will act with intentionality, not in hiddenness or delay born of human fear, but openly and in the fear of the Lord. Until then, wait without impatience, making it your one business to love Christ with your whole heart. For if you are not first His, no earthly affection can bring you lasting joy. Let the love of God be so kindled in you that every other love is but a flame from that fire. Whether you marry or remain as you are, you will be whole, for you will possess the Friend who never fails.