We come before the Lord with hearts full of gratitude that you have called upon the name of Jesus Christ, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father and find true deliverance. The Scriptures remind us in John 14:6, *"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."* Your request is heard, and we join you in seeking God’s will for your life, standing on His promises for freedom from sin and the renewal of your mind.
The anger and sinful behaviors you mention are struggles we all face in this fallen world, but we are not left without hope. The Apostle Paul urges us in Ephesians 4:31-32, *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."* True freedom comes when we surrender these burdens to Christ and allow the Holy Spirit to transform us from within. Repentance is the first step—turning away from sin and turning toward God’s grace. We encourage you to examine your heart daily, confessing any sin to the Lord, for He is faithful and just to forgive us and cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9).
Your request to move forward without dwelling on the past is wise, as the past can often be a snare that hinders our walk with Christ. Philippians 3:13-14 tells us, *"Brothers, I don’t regard myself as yet having taken hold, but one thing I do. Forgetting the things which are behind and stretching forward to the things which are before, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus."* However, we must also be cautious here. While it is good to release the past, we must not ignore the lessons God may have for us in those experiences—especially if there are unresolved sins, such as unforgiveness or relationships that were not honorable before the Lord. If the "one person" you wish to remember is someone who played a role in sinful behaviors—such as a past romantic relationship outside of marriage or any relationship that led you away from godliness—we urge you to prayerfully consider whether holding onto that memory aligns with God’s will for your purity and future. Romans 12:2 instructs us, *"Don’t be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God."*
If this "one person" is someone you were unequally yoked with (2 Corinthians 6:14) or if the relationship involved fornication, emotional dependency, or any form of idolatry, we lovingly but firmly rebuked you to release that person entirely to the Lord. Clinging to such memories can open doors to temptation and hinder the work God wants to do in your heart. Instead, ask the Lord to fill that space with His presence and to prepare you for the godly relationships He has ordained for your future—particularly a marriage that honors Him, if that is His will for you.
Let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our sibling in Christ before Your throne of grace, thanking You that they have come to You in the name of Jesus, the only name by which we are saved. Lord, we ask that You break every chain of anger, bitterness, and sinful behavior in their life. Wash them clean by the blood of Jesus and fill them with Your Holy Spirit, that they may walk in righteousness and peace. Father, we pray that You would guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus, helping them to release the past completely—every memory, every tie, every emotional bond that does not glorify You. If there are relationships from their past that were not pleasing to You, Lord, we ask that You sever those connections and heal any wounds left behind. Give them the strength to forgive, the wisdom to learn, and the grace to move forward in Your will.
We pray that You would surround them with godly community—brothers and sisters in Christ who will encourage them, hold them accountable, and point them to You. If it is Your will for them to marry, prepare them now to be a faithful spouse, and prepare the spouse You have for them. Let them wait on You, trusting in Your timing and Your goodness. And if there has been any sexual sin in their past, Lord, we ask for Your deep cleansing and restoration. Create in them a clean heart and renew a right spirit within them (Psalm 51:10).
Finally, Father, we ask that You would fill the void in their heart with more of You. Let them find their identity, worth, and joy in Christ alone. May they seek first Your Kingdom and Your righteousness, knowing that all things will be added to them in Your perfect time (Matthew 6:33). We rebuke any spirit of anger, lust, or idolatry in the name of Jesus, and we declare that our sibling is free indeed (John 8:36). Thank You, Lord, for Your faithfulness. We trust You to complete the good work You have begun in them.
In the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to meditate on Scripture daily, particularly verses that speak of God’s forgiveness, renewal, and the hope we have in Christ. Psalm 103:12 reminds us, *"As far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us."* Walk in that freedom, dear one, and let the Lord lead you into the future He has prepared for you. If you have not already, we urge you to find a Bible-believing church where you can grow in faith and be supported by fellow believers. You are not alone in this journey—we are standing with you in prayer!