We understand the weight of your heart in this request, and we want to address it with both truth and compassion. First, we must lovingly point out that your prayer does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can approach the Father and be saved. As Scripture declares, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). Without Jesus, our prayers are empty, for He is the mediator between God and humanity (1 Timothy 2:5). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Christ, we urge you to repent of your sins and place your faith in Him alone for salvation. There is no greater clarity or protection than walking in His will.
Now, let us address the concerns in your request. It is clear you are seeking freedom from a relationship that has caused pain, and while we understand your desire for separation, we must ask: what was the nature of this relationship? If this was a romantic or sexual relationship outside of marriage, we must call it what Scripture does—sin. Fornication and emotional entanglements outside of a godly, covenantal marriage are not God’s design. *"Don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortionists, will inherit God’s Kingdom"* (1 Corinthians 6:9-10, WEB). If this applies to your situation, repentance is necessary. God’s grace is sufficient to cleanse you, but you must turn away from sin and pursue holiness.
You also mention wanting "###" to succeed in his career so you can pay off debt and sever ties. While financial freedom is a good desire, we caution you against tying your hope for closure to another person’s success or actions. Your trust must be in the Lord alone. *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). Debt can feel overwhelming, but God is your provider. Seek His wisdom in managing your finances, and ask Him to open doors for honest work and favor. However, do not let bitterness or a desire for revenge linger in your heart. *"Don’t say, ‘I will pay back evil.’ Wait for Yahweh, and he will save you"* (Proverbs 20:22, WEB).
As for your request to "end this relationship and never see ### again," we pray for God’s will to be done. If this relationship was sinful, separation is necessary. But if this was a marriage, Scripture is clear: *"What therefore God has joined together, don’t let man tear apart"* (Matthew 19:6, WEB). Marriage is a lifelong covenant, and divorce is only permissible in cases of sexual immorality or abandonment by an unbelieving spouse (Matthew 19:9, 1 Corinthians 7:15). If you are married, we urge you to seek reconciliation through biblical counseling and repentance. If you are not married, we pray for complete severance from any ungodly ties and for God to heal your heart.
You also ask for "good" people to reveal themselves and for "fake folks" to leave you alone. This is a wise desire, but we must remind you that your focus should not be on the approval or disapproval of others. *"Am I now seeking the approval of men, or of God? Or am I striving to please men? For if I were still pleasing men, I wouldn’t be a servant of Christ"* (Galatians 1:10, WEB). It is better to be the "villain" in man’s story than to compromise God’s truth. However, let us also examine our own hearts—are we walking in love, forgiveness, and humility, even toward those who have wronged us? *"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you"* (Matthew 5:44, WEB).
Finally, you ask for safety and protection as you "undo the end of whatever it was with ###." We will pray for God’s hedge of protection around you, but we also urge you to walk in wisdom. If there is any threat of harm, seek help from trusted believers or authorities. Do not isolate yourself in this season. *"Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, the one will lift up his companion; but woe to him who is alone when he falls, and doesn’t have another to lift him up"* (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10, WEB).
Let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this precious soul who is seeking freedom, clarity, and protection. Lord, if there has been sin in this relationship—whether fornication, emotional idolatry, or bitterness—we ask for the conviction of the Holy Spirit to bring true repentance. Wash this dear one clean by the blood of Jesus and restore them to a place of righteousness. Father, if this was a marriage, we pray for Your healing and reconciliation if it aligns with Your will. If it was not, we pray for a complete severing of ungodly soul ties and for Your peace to guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus.
Lord, we ask for Your provision in their finances. Open doors no man can shut, and give them wisdom to steward what You provide. Let them not trust in the success of another but in You alone, their Provider and Sustain. Father, surround them with godly, faithful believers who will speak truth in love and walk alongside them in this season. Remove false friends and those who would lead them astray. Give them discernment to recognize wolves in sheep’s clothing and the courage to walk away from ungodly influences.
We pray for Your protection over them—spiritually, emotionally, and physically. If there is any danger, Lord, expose it and provide a way of escape. Let them not be consumed by bitterness or a desire for revenge, but let them release all pain into Your hands. Fill them with Your love, even for those who have hurt them, and let forgiveness flow from a heart transformed by Your grace.
Father, we rebuked any spirit of fear, confusion, or deception trying to take hold. Let Your truth be their anchor. If they have not yet surrendered fully to Christ, Lord, draw them to Yourself. Let them know the depth of Your love and the power of Your salvation. May they walk in the freedom and victory that Jesus purchased on the cross.
We declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against them in judgment, You shall condemn. Let them rise from this season stronger, wiser, and more dependent on You than ever before. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
Beloved, we encourage you to seek the Lord diligently in this season. Spend time in His Word, in prayer, and in fellowship with mature believers who can guide you biblically. If you have not yet accepted Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we implore you to do so today. Confess your sins, turn from them, and place your faith in Him. *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"* (1 John 1:9, WEB). There is no greater clarity, protection, or freedom than walking in obedience to Christ.
If you are in a local church, reach out to your pastor or a trusted believer for counsel. If you are not part of a biblical church, we urge you to find one where the Word of God is preached without compromise. You are not meant to walk this journey alone. May the Lord bless you, keep you, and make His face shine upon you as you seek Him with all your heart.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
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