We are deeply grieved to hear of the relentless torment you have endured at the hands of this evil man, who is clearly being used as a vessel of Satan to inflict pain and destruction in your life. The words you describe—ugly, fat, worthless—are not just insults; they are weapons of spiritual warfare designed to crush your God-given identity and steal the peace and dignity Christ died to secure for you. The Lord sees your suffering, and He is not silent about such wickedness. Scripture is clear: the enemy comes only to steal, kill, and destroy, but Jesus came that you may have life, and have it abundantly (John 10:10). This man’s actions are an abomination before God, and his use of witchcraft is a direct rebellion against the sovereignty of the Lord. The Bible sternly warns against such practices, declaring that those who engage in sorcery or divination are detestable to God (Deuteronomy 18:10-12). His words and actions are not just human cruelty—they are demonic oppression, and we must confront them with the authority of Christ.
First, we must address the spiritual dimension of this battle. You are not fighting against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, and against spiritual wickedness in high places (Ephesians 6:12). This man may be the instrument, but the true enemy is Satan, who seeks to keep you bound in fear, shame, and trauma. However, greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). You have been given authority in the name of Jesus to trample on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy (Luke 10:19). It is time to take your stand in Christ and command this demonic oppression to cease.
We also urge you to take immediate practical steps to protect yourself. If this man is a physical threat to your safety, you must involve the authorities. Romans 13:4 tells us that governing authorities are God’s servants for your good, and they bear the sword to execute wrath on wrongdoers. Do not hesitate to seek a restraining order, press charges if laws have been broken, or take whatever legal measures are necessary to ensure your safety. The Lord honors wisdom, and part of wisdom is using the means He has provided to protect the life He has given you. You are not obligated to endure abuse—God calls you to flee from danger and to defend the vulnerable (Proverbs 22:3, Psalm 82:3-4).
As for the emotional and mental toll this has taken, we want you to know that the Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). The names this man calls you are lies from the pit of hell. You are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), redeemed by the blood of Jesus, and called by name as God’s own (Isaiah 43:1). His words have no power over your identity in Christ unless you allow them to. We encourage you to renew your mind daily with the truth of Scripture. Meditate on who God says you are: chosen, holy, beloved (Colossians 3:12), more than a conqueror (Romans 8:37), and an heir of God’s eternal kingdom (Romans 8:17). When the enemy tries to drag you back into the trauma of your past, stand firm in the truth that if anyone is in Christ, they are a new creation—the old has gone, the new has come (2 Corinthians 5:17).
We also want to address the trauma you’ve endured. Reliving the past against your will is a tactic of the enemy to keep you in bondage, but Jesus came to set the captives free (Luke 4:18). If you have not already, we strongly encourage you to seek biblical counseling from a trusted, spirit-filled counselor who can help you process this trauma in a way that aligns with God’s truth. You do not have to walk this path alone—the body of Christ is called to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2), and there are brothers and sisters in the Lord who will stand with you in prayer and support.
Now, let us pray over you with the authority and power of the Holy Spirit:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Your beloved daughter who has been relentlessly attacked by the forces of darkness. Lord, You see the wounds she carries, the fear that has gripped her, and the lies that have been spoken over her life. We declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and every tongue that rises against her in judgment, You shall condemn. Father, we bind every demonic spirit at work in this situation—spirits of stalking, gaslighting, witchcraft, fear, trauma, shame, and oppression—in the name of Jesus. We command them to be silenced and cast into the abyss, never to return. We break every curse, every hex, every spell, and every assignment of the enemy against her life, her mind, her body, and her spirit. Let the blood of Jesus cover her, protect her, and render every demonic attack powerless.
Lord, we pray for divine intervention in this situation. If this man is demon-possessed, we pray that You would either silence him completely or bring him to a place of repentance where he falls on his knees before You. Expose his wickedness, Lord, and let his own schemes be his downfall (Psalm 7:15-16). Surround our sister with Your angels, encamping around her to guard her in all her ways (Psalm 91:11). Give her wisdom to know how to respond, discernment to recognize danger, and courage to take the necessary steps to protect herself. Father, we ask that You would restore to her the years the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25)—restore her peace, her joy, her confidence, and her sense of safety. Heal the wounds of her past, Lord, and let her walk in the freedom and victory that Christ has already won for her.
We pray for her mind, that You would renew it daily with Your truth. Let her see herself as You see her—beautiful, valuable, and deeply loved. Cast out every lie the enemy has planted in her heart and replace it with Your Word. Let her meditate on Your promises day and night, that she may stand firm against every scheme of the devil. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit, Lord, and let His presence be a fire within her that no darkness can extinguish.
Father, we also pray for justice. You are a God of justice, and You have said that vengeance is Yours (Romans 12:19). We ask that You would act on her behalf, that You would bring this man’s evil deeds into the light and put an end to his torment. If it is Your will, soften his heart to repentance, but if not, remove him from her life completely. Let her be free from his presence, his voice, and his influence forever.
Lord, we thank You that You are her refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). We thank You that You have not given her a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7). We declare that she is more than a conqueror through Christ who loves her, and that nothing—neither death nor life, nor angels nor principalities, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor any other created thing—shall be able to separate her from Your love (Romans 8:37-39).
In the name of Jesus Christ, we rebuke every spirit of fear, trauma, and oppression. We command this man to be bound and silenced, and we release Your peace, Your protection, and Your victory over our sister’s life. Let her walk in the fullness of Your freedom, Lord, and let her testimony be one of Your mighty power and deliverance.
We ask all these things in the name above all names, Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Our sister, we stand with you in this battle, and we declare that the Lord is fighting for you. Do not lose heart. The enemy may have had a foothold for 25 years, but his time is up. The Lord is breaking his grip over your life, and you will walk in victory. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and finisher of your faith (Hebrews 12:2). Surround yourself with believers who can pray with you and support you. And remember: the battle belongs to the Lord (1 Samuel 17:47). He will not fail you.
If you have not already, we urge you to surrender every part of this situation to Jesus. If there is any unforgiveness, bitterness, or fear in your heart, release it to Him. Forgiveness does not mean what this man has done is okay—it means you are releasing him to God’s justice and refusing to let his sins keep you in bondage. Trust that the Lord will vindicate you. He is faithful, and He will do it (1 Thessalonians 5:24).
Stay strong in the Lord, and let us know how we can continue to pray for you. You are not alone in this fight. We are with you, and more importantly, the Lord Almighty is with you. He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). Walk in that truth, and let His peace guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
