We hear the deep anguish and spiritual torment in your cry, and we stand with you in the authority of Jesus Christ to rebuke the demonic strongholds of divorce, confusion, sexual immorality, and toxic influences that are attacking your mind, your surroundings, and your sense of identity. The enemy is a liar and a destroyer, seeking to distort God’s perfect design for marriage, family, and purity. But we declare that *greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world* (1 John 4:4). The blood of Jesus has power to break every chain, and we will not allow the enemy to twist God’s Word or His plan for your life.
First, let us address the spiritual warfare at hand. The Scriptures warn us that Satan masquerades as an angel of light (2 Corinthians 11:14), and his demons spread deception, division, and perversion—especially in areas of marriage and sexuality. The confusion you describe—*"I am not her, he is not him, we don’t have ties"*—is a direct attack on the covenant of marriage, which God intended to reflect Christ’s love for the Church (Ephesians 5:31-32). Divorce is not God’s heart; it is a concession due to the hardness of human hearts (Matthew 19:8). Yet even in cases where divorce has occurred, God’s redemption is available. However, the demonic mockery, sexual immorality, and gossip you mention are *not* from Him. These are tools of the enemy to shame, isolate, and destroy. We rebuke these spirits in the name of Jesus Christ, commanding them to flee from your life, your home, and your neighborhood. No weapon formed against you shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we declare that the Lord is exposing and dismantling every scheme of the enemy right now.
The sexual immorality and inappropriate "mixing" you reference is an abomination before God. The Bible is clear: *"Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s"* (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). Any relationship or behavior outside of God’s design—whether fornication, adultery, or homosexuality—is sin and opens the door to demonic oppression. If there has been participation in such sins, we urge you to repent immediately, turn away from these behaviors, and seek cleansing through the blood of Jesus. *"If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"* (1 John 1:9). There is no shame in repentance; there is only freedom.
As for the toxic neighbors and their "gang" spreading chaos, mockery, and gossip—even using images to shame—we declare that their tongues are set on fire by hell (James 3:6), and we bind their words in Jesus’ name. *"You shall not go up and down as a talebearer among your people. You shall not stand against the blood of your neighbor. I am Yahweh"* (Leviticus 19:16). Gossip and slander are detestable to God, and those who engage in it will answer to Him. We pray that the Lord would silence their lies, expose their darkness, and either bring them to repentance or remove their influence from your life. If possible, we encourage you to distance yourself from these people and to guard your heart and mind with the Word of God. *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14). Surround yourself with believers who will speak life and truth into your situation.
We also notice that your request does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, though you quoted His words. There is *no other name* by which we are saved, no other name with authority over demons, and no other name by which we can approach the Father (Acts 4:12, John 14:6). If you have not surrendered your life to Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. Confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, and you *will* be saved (Romans 10:9). Without Christ, there is no power to overcome these attacks. But in Him, you are *more* than a conqueror (Romans 8:37).
Now, let us pray over you with the authority of Heaven:
*"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Your child who is under severe spiritual attack. Lord, we rebuke every demonic spirit of divorce, confusion, sexual immorality, gossip, mockery, and shame that has been assigned against them. We break their power in Jesus’ name and command them to flee, never to return. Father, we ask that You would expose every hidden sin, every ungodly soul tie, and every stronghold that has given the enemy a foothold. Bring conviction where there is sin, repentance where there is rebellion, and restoration where there is brokenness.
Lord, we pray for protection over this person’s mind, that You would renew it with Your Word and guard it against the lies of the enemy. Let them know *who they are in Christ*—redeemed, forgiven, and set free. If they have been entangled in sexual sin or ungodly relationships, Father, break those chains now. Wash them clean with the blood of Jesus and restore their purity. If they are single, give them a heart that seeks *Your* will for marriage—a covenant built on Your Word, not the world’s corruption. If they are married, Lord, heal their marriage, soften hearts, and drive out every spirit that seeks to destroy what You have joined together.
We pray against the toxic neighbors and their schemes. Lord, either save them or silence them. Remove their influence, blind their spiritual eyes to this person’s life, and let their words fall to the ground. Surround this person with Your angels, Lord, and let them dwell in the secret place of the Most High (Psalm 91:1). Give them discernment to recognize Your voice above all others and wisdom to walk in obedience.
Finally, Father, we ask that You would fill them with Your Holy Spirit—comforter, counselor, and advocate. Let them experience Your peace that surpasses understanding and Your joy that is their strength. Remind them that *nothing* can separate them from Your love (Romans 8:38-39) and that You are working all things together for their good (Romans 8:28).
We declare victory in Jesus’ name, for He has already triumphed over every power of darkness (Colossians 2:15). Let Your will be done, Lord, and let Your kingdom come in this situation. We pray all this in the mighty, matchless name of Jesus Christ. Amen."*
Stand firm, beloved. The battle is the Lord’s, and He has already won. Cling to His Word, seek His face, and walk in obedience. If you need further counsel or prayer, do not hesitate to reach out. We are here to stand with you in the truth of God’s Word. *"Be sober and self-controlled. Be watchful. Your adversary, the devil, walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour. Withstand him steadfast in your faith, knowing that your brothers who are in the world are undergoing the same sufferings"* (1 Peter 5:8-9). You are not alone.