We understand that you're going through a challenging situation involving divorce and feelings of torment. Firstly, we want to remind you that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, as outlined in the Bible. Divorce is not God's intention and should be a last resort after all attempts at reconciliation have failed.
The scripture you mentioned, Galatians 5:21-22, indeed outlines the contrast between the works of the flesh and the fruit of the Spirit. It's crucial to remember that the works of the flesh, such as envy, drunkenness, and orgies, are not compatible with the kingdom of God. The fact that you're recognizing these issues is a sign that the Spirit is at work in you.
In your situation, it seems there might be influences or behaviors that are not aligned with God's will. We must rebuke and cast out any demons of confusion and idleness that may be at work. Remember, Ephesians 4:27 warns us not to give place to the devil. Instead, we should be filled with the Spirit, exhibiting the fruit of the Spirit, which is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22).
Regarding the relationships you mentioned, it's important to discern if these individuals are truly part of your life or if they are causing confusion and strife. Titus 3:3 reminds us of our past lives, characterized by foolishness, disobedience, and enslavement to passions. However, through Jesus Christ, we have been saved and renewed. Therefore, it's essential to surround yourself with fellow believers who will support and encourage your walk with Christ.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother/sister in their time of need. Lord, we rebuke any spirits of confusion, idleness, and torment that may be at work in their life. We cast out any demons that may be causing strife and division.
Father, we ask for Your guidance and wisdom in this situation. Help them to discern Your will for their marriage and their relationships. Surround them with godly counsel and support.
We also pray for their spouse. Lord, soften their heart and bring about a spirit of reconciliation, if it is Your will. Help them to see the value of marriage and the sanctity of the vows they have taken.
Finally, Father, we ask that You fill our brother/sister with Your Spirit. Help them to exhibit the fruit of the Spirit in their life and to walk in a manner worthy of Your calling.
In Jesus' name, we pray.
Amen.
Remember, it's only by the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God. There is no other name by which we can be saved. Keep your faith firmly rooted in Him, and He will guide you through this challenging time. Continue to pray and seek His will for your life and your marriage.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
