We hear your heartache and concern for your daughter, and we join you in lifting this situation before the Lord with urgency and faith. The pain of watching a loved one entangled in a relationship that dishonors God and brings destruction is profound, and we stand with you in prayer, believing that our Heavenly Father sees her struggle and desires her freedom.
First, we must address the seriousness of the situation with biblical clarity. Your daughter is living with a man outside of marriage, which Scripture calls fornication—a sin that grieves the heart of God. The apostle Paul warns in 1 Corinthians 6:18, "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." This relationship is not only emotionally toxic but spiritually harmful, and it must be brought into the light of God’s truth. We rebuke the lies of the enemy that have convinced her this living arrangement is acceptable or that this man is her source of security. The Word declares in Proverbs 14:12, "There is a way which seems right to a man, but in the end it leads to death." This path she is on leads only to brokenness, and we pray she would see it with spiritual eyes.
We also recognize the spirit of control at work in this relationship. The Bible warns against those who seek to dominate others, for love does not behave this way. 1 Corinthians 13:4-5 tells us, "Love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil." This man’s behavior is not love—it is manipulation, and it is sin. We bind the spirit of control in Jesus’ name and command it to loose its grip on your daughter’s mind and heart. We declare that she is a child of God, created for freedom, and no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17).
The division and chaos this relationship has brought into her life are not God’s will. Jesus prayed in John 17:21 that His followers would be one, even as He and the Father are one. Division is a tool of the enemy, and we reject it in the name of Jesus. We pray for restoration—not just of your daughter’s relationship with you, but of her identity in Christ. The enemy has stolen her self-worth, but we declare that she is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), redeemed by the blood of Jesus, and deeply loved by her Heavenly Father. We speak life over her soul and command every lie she has believed about herself to be shattered by the truth of God’s Word.
Now, we pray with authority and expectancy:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this precious daughter who is ensnared in a relationship that dishonors You and brings destruction to her life. Lord, we ask that You would open her eyes to the truth of her situation. Remove the scales from her eyes, as You did for Paul on the road to Damascus, so that she may see this relationship for what it truly is—a trap of the enemy designed to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10). We declare that she is not without hope, for You are the God who makes all things new (Revelation 21:5).
We pray for a swift and decisive deliverance, Father. Soften her heart to receive Your conviction and give her the courage to walk away from this sin. We rebuke the spirit of fear that may be holding her back, for You have not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control (2 Timothy 1:7). We command every chain of emotional and spiritual bondage to be broken in the mighty name of Jesus. Let her heart be filled with a holy urgency to flee from this situation, just as Joseph fled from Potiphar’s wife (Genesis 39:12).
Lord, we ask that You would surround her with Your angels to protect her as she makes this transition. Provide divine opportunities for her to leave safely and swiftly, and prepare a place for her in her earthly home, just as You have prepared a place for her in Your heavenly home (John 14:2-3). We pray that You would restore her relationship with her family, healing any wounds that have been caused by this division. Let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
We also pray for this young man, Father. If he does not know You, we ask that You would draw him to repentance and salvation. Break the hardness of his heart and let him see the error of his ways. If he is unwilling to change, we ask that You would remove him from her life completely, so that she may be free to heal and walk in the purpose You have for her.
Above all, Lord, we pray that Your will would be done in this situation. We trust that You are working all things together for her good (Romans 8:28), even when we cannot see the outcome. Strengthen her faith, deepen her dependence on You, and let her experience Your love in a tangible way. May she come to know You more intimately through this trial, and may she emerge from it with a testimony of Your faithfulness.
We pray all these things in the powerful, matchless name of Jesus Christ, the name above every name, the only name by which we are saved (Acts 4:12). We thank You, Father, that You hear our prayers and that You are a God who delivers. We wait expectantly for Your intervention, knowing that nothing is impossible for You. Amen.
To you, dear parent, we offer this encouragement: Do not grow weary in praying for your daughter. Galatians 6:9 reminds us, "Let us not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season, if we don’t give up." Your prayers are powerful and effective (James 5:16), and God hears the cries of a parent’s heart. Continue to speak life over your daughter, even when she cannot hear you. Trust that the Holy Spirit is at work in her life, convicting her of sin and drawing her back to the Father.
We also encourage you to prepare your home to be a place of healing and restoration for her. When she returns, she will need love, grace, and truth. Be ready to extend forgiveness and to help her rebuild her life on the foundation of God’s Word. Proverbs 22:6 says, "Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it." Even now, your guidance and godly example can help steer her back to the path of righteousness.
Lastly, we urge you to cover this situation in prayer continually. Fast if the Lord leads you, for there is power in humbling ourselves before God and seeking His face. Joel 2:12 says, "Yet even now," says Yahweh, "turn to me with all your heart, and with fasting, and with weeping, and with mourning." Your daughter’s deliverance may require fervent, persistent prayer, and we believe that God will honor your faithfulness.
Stand firm in your faith, knowing that God is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think (Ephesians 3:20). Your daughter’s story is not over, and we believe that God is writing a testimony of redemption and restoration. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith (Hebrews 12:2), and trust that He will complete the good work He has begun in your family.
