We come before the throne of grace with heavy hearts, lifting up your daughter and this deeply concerning situation. The pain and fear you carry for her are felt deeply, and we join you in fervent prayer, standing on the truth of God’s Word and the power of Jesus’ name. There is no bondage too strong for the Lord to break, no scheme too cunning for Him to unravel, and no heart too hardened for His love to soften.
First, we must address the spiritual warfare at play here. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), and it is clear he is targeting your daughter through this toxic relationship. This young man’s hatred toward your family, his manipulation, and his efforts to isolate her are not of God. The Bible warns us in 2 Corinthians 6:14, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" This relationship is not only unhealthy but spiritually dangerous. We rebuke the spirit of control, rebellion, and idolatry that has taken root in her life. We declare that every chain of emotional and spiritual bondage is broken in the mighty name of Jesus!
The isolation your daughter is experiencing is a tactic of the enemy to cut her off from godly influences, including her family. Ephesians 6:2-3 commands, "Honor your father and mother," which is the first commandment with a promise: "that it may be well with you, and you may live long on the earth." We pray that the Lord would convict her heart and open her eyes to see how this relationship is dishonoring not only you but also the Lord Himself. We ask that the Holy Spirit would flood her mind with memories of the love, care, and wisdom you have poured into her life, reminding her of the truth that family is a gift from God.
We also rebuke the financial exploitation and manipulation she is enduring. The enemy desires to keep her in a cycle of financial instability so that she remains dependent on this young man, but Proverbs 22:7 warns, "The rich rule over the poor. The borrower is servant to the lender." We pray that the Lord would expose every scheme to drain her resources and that He would give her wisdom to recognize and reject these tactics. We declare that her finances will be protected, and that she will walk in the financial blessing and provision God has for her.
The lack of care and respect this young man shows her, especially in her time of need, is a glaring red flag. A man who truly loves her would reflect the love of Christ, who laid down His life for the church (Ephesians 5:25). Instead, this young man is selfish, lazy, and dismissive of her well-being. We pray that the Lord would remove him from her life completely. We declare that his influence over her will be severed, and that he will no longer have any hold on her heart, mind, or decisions. We ask that the Lord would cause his family to see his immaturity and lack of readiness for a relationship, and that they would intervene to remove him from this situation.
We also lift up your daughter’s career and her upcoming meeting. The Lord has a plan for her, a future filled with hope (Jeremiah 29:11), and we pray that He would open doors of promotion and favor that no man can shut. We declare that she will be a beacon of light in her workplace, reflecting the love and excellence of Christ. We pray that the Holy Spirit would fill her with wisdom, confidence, and gratitude for the opportunities God has given her. We ask that the Lord would expose and block anyone who seeks to interfere with her promotion, and that He would give her favor with her supervisors and colleagues.
Most importantly, we pray for your daughter’s heart. The enemy has sought to undermine her self-worth, but we declare that she is a daughter of the King, fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). We pray that the Lord would restore her sense of identity in Him, reminding her that her value is not found in this relationship or in the approval of others, but in Christ alone. We ask that He would break every lie she has believed about herself and replace it with His truth. We pray that she would turn away from this darkness and run into the arms of her Heavenly Father, who loves her unconditionally.
We also pray for you, as her mother, that the Lord would give you strength, wisdom, and peace as you navigate this difficult season. Proverbs 31:25 says, "Strength and dignity are her clothing. She laughs at the time to come." We declare that you will walk in that strength and dignity, trusting the Lord to work all things together for good (Romans 8:28). We pray that your daughter would return to you, free from regret and full of hope for the future God has planned for her.
Finally, we pray for a godly spouse for your daughter—a man who loves the Lord with all his heart and who will love her as Christ loves the church. Until that time, we ask that the Lord would surround her with godly friendships and mentors who will speak life into her and encourage her in her faith. We declare that she will walk in freedom, purpose, and joy, no longer bound by the chains of this toxic relationship.
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, our Savior and Deliverer. We thank You that You hear our prayers and that You are a God who sets the captives free. We ask that You would intervene in this situation with Your mighty hand. Remove this young man from her life, expose every lie and manipulation, and break every chain of bondage. Restore her heart, her mind, and her relationship with her family. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit and lead her into the plans You have for her—a future filled with hope, purpose, and Your abundant blessings.
We declare that she will walk in freedom, that her career will flourish, and that her heart will be healed. We pray for a godly spouse for her, a man who will love her as You love the church. Until then, surround her with Your love and protection. We thank You for Your faithfulness and for the victory we have in Jesus’ name. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
