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Pray for me. Please. ###. ###. I married the worst man on Earth. Literally. ###. He disappeared. On purpose. “Ghosted” us. Me ### and our two daughters. ### and ###. Grown now. Educated. Successful. Happy. I am now after ###'s cruelty a ### year old pile of 💩 My parents are dead. I have one sister who hates me and literally calls me names. Tell me ever so frequently I “deserve to be dead”. Nice huh? I did put her through much hardship and embarrassment. Well I’m over my ex husband. I don’t care about him whatsoever. I need God’s help to let me go back to living. Seeing my daughters. My sister. My friends. My freedoms. My car! My life. And hopefully meet a nice man. Pray for my friend ###. He’s been in contact. He’s a stellar man. I hurt him years ago. Pray he gives me a second chance. I need a good friend. A good man. My daughters no longer ashamed. My sister gives up on hating me. Pray for ###, ###, ### and ###. ###, ### and ###. Pray for ###, my friend. I need God. I need God ASAP. Pray. Thank you for your prayers. God bless. Please note also. ### played ice hockey all over the world. He has wives and children all over the world. We know. We hired a private investigator. Pray. We need God here in ###. ###'s house. Thank you for your prayers.
 
We hear the deep pain and desperation in your words, and our hearts ache with you. The abandonment, betrayal, and cruelty you’ve endured, from your husband, your sister, and even the echoes of past mistakes, have left you feeling broken and isolated. But we want you to know this: God sees you. He hears you. And He is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). You are not forgotten, nor are you beyond His love and restoration.

First, we must address the foundation of your cry for help. You’ve called out for God’s intervention, and that is exactly where we begin. There is no true healing, no lasting peace, and no real freedom outside of a relationship with Jesus Christ. He is the Way, the Truth, and the Life (John 14:6), and it is only through His name that we have access to the Father (Ephesians 2:18). If you have not already, we urge you to surrender your life to Him, confess your sins, repent, and ask Him to be your Lord and Savior. Without Christ, we are lost, but in Him, we are made new (2 Corinthians 5:17). If you’ve already done this, we rejoice with you and pray for a fresh infilling of His Spirit to strengthen and renew you.

Now, let us lift up your specific burdens before the Lord.

Father God, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this precious sister in Christ who has endured so much pain. Lord, You see the wounds left by abandonment, the weight of loneliness, and the sting of betrayal. We ask that You would pour out Your healing balm upon her soul. Restore to her the joy of Your salvation (Psalm 51:12) and replace her sorrow with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). We rebuke the spirit of despair and hopelessness that has tried to take root in her life, and we declare that she is a daughter of the Most High God, fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). Lord, give her the strength to rise again, to reclaim the life You have for her, and to walk in the freedom that is hers in Christ.

We pray for her daughters, Lord. Though they are grown, the scars of their father’s absence may still linger. Soften their hearts toward their mother, and let them see her through Your eyes, loved, valued, and worthy of respect. Heal any division between them, and restore the bond of family that You intended. We also lift up her sister, Father. The bitterness and hatred she harbors are not of You. We ask that You would break the chains of resentment in her heart and replace them with Your love. If it is Your will, bring reconciliation between them, but if not, give our sister the grace to release her sister into Your hands and to walk in forgiveness, just as You have forgiven her (Colossians 3:13).

Lord, we bring before You the pain of her past mistakes, the ones that have caused her sister and others hurt. We know that You are faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9). We ask that You would help her to release the guilt and shame she may still carry. Remind her that in You, she is a new creation, and the old has passed away (2 Corinthians 5:17). Give her the courage to seek forgiveness where it is needed, but also the wisdom to know when to let go of what cannot be undone.

Now, we must address the desire for a new relationship with the man she has mentioned. While it is natural to long for companionship, we urge caution and wisdom. The Bible warns us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14), and this man, though described as "stellar," must first be a man who loves and fears the Lord. We pray that if it is Your will for them to reconcile, You would prepare both of their hearts, that their friendship would be rooted in Christ and that any romantic relationship would honor You. But Lord, we also ask that You protect her from rushing into anything out of loneliness or desperation. Give her discernment, and let Your peace guide her steps.

Father, we also lift up her ex-husband before You. The revelation of his infidelity and abandonment is a grievous sin, not only against her but against You. We pray that You would convict his heart and bring him to repentance. Let him see the destruction he has caused and turn to You for forgiveness and transformation. We also pray for the other women and children he has left behind, may they too come to know Your love and healing. We rebuke the spirit of deception and unfaithfulness that has ruled his life, and we declare that no one is beyond Your reach.

Lord, we ask that You would restore her sense of self-worth and purpose. The enemy has tried to convince her that she is nothing, but we declare that she is a child of the King, created for good works that You prepared in advance for her to do (Ephesians 2:10). Renew her mind (Romans 12:2) and help her to see herself as You see her. Give her the courage to step back into life, to drive her car, to see her friends, to embrace the freedoms You have given her. Let her laughter return, and let her heart be light again.

Finally, Lord, we ask that You would surround her with a community of believers who will love, support, and encourage her. Let her find a church family where she can grow in her faith and be strengthened by fellowship with other believers. We pray that You would provide godly friendships, mentors, and even the possibility of a godly husband if that is Your will for her. But above all, let her find her identity, her hope, and her joy in You alone.

We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the One who came to bind up the brokenhearted and set the captives free (Isaiah 61:1). Amen.

Sister, we want you to hold onto this truth: God is not done with you. The pain you’ve endured does not define you, Christ does. The loneliness you feel does not have to be permanent, God is with you. The mistakes of the past do not have to dictate your future, His grace is sufficient (2 Corinthians 12:9). We encourage you to seek Him daily, to spend time in His Word, and to surround yourself with believers who can walk this journey with you. You are not alone, and you are so deeply loved. Keep pressing into Him, and watch how He restores what has been broken.
 
We are holding you up in prayer today, and we ache with you over the weight of what you’ve been carrying. When you call yourself a “pile,” we hear how worn down you are, but we also see the fight in your words, wanting to go back to living, to seeing your daughters, to getting behind the wheel of your car and feeling like yourself again. That longing is not a sign you’re broken beyond repair; it’s a sign that the real you is still there, ready to be mended.

Divorce can leave you disoriented for a long time, and it’s not unusual to feel as if you’ve lost yourself in the process. But healing often begins when you let yourself grieve what’s been lost and, slowly, begin to imagine a life you actually want to step into. You don’t have to figure it all out alone. Many churches and communities offer groups like DivorceCare, where you can process the hurt alongside others who understand, and start gathering practical tools to rebuild your confidence and your daily rhythms.

With your sister, we know the pain of being called names by someone who should be in your corner. It might feel impossible now, but part of your own healing could be as small as writing a note that simply says, “I regret the hardship I put you through, and I’m trying to get well.” She may not receive it the way you hope, but you will have done what you can to untie that knot inside you. For your daughters, maybe a gentle invitation for coffee with no pressure, just showing up, even if they’re not ready yet.

And we are praying, not only for you but for each person you named. So let’s lift this to the Lord together.

Father, we bring our sister to you, exhausted and barely holding on. Meet her in this darkness and breathe life back into her. Help her take one small step toward living again, whether that’s reaching out to her daughters, finding a support group, or simply driving with the windows down and remembering who she is. Bring healing to her relationships with her daughters and her sister. Guard her daughters’ hearts and draw them close to you. We ask for wisdom and softening for her sister, and for the friend she named, that past hurts would be mended and trust restored if that is your will. For all the others she has listed, provide your protection, provision, and peace. In Jesus’ name, amen.
 
You have been tossed about until you hardly know yourself any more. A husband who should have been a shelter became a storm, and when he vanished he left a wreck behind. You have felt the sting of a sister’s tongue, the ache of seeing familiar faces turn away, and now you look at the pieces and say, “A pile. That’s all that’s left of me.” I do not brush that aside. There are days when a soul feels not like a woman but like rubble after a building falls, and rubble is a heavy, shapeless thing to be.

But I want you to hear something that belongs to you right now, right in the middle of the mess. You say you need God to let you go back to living. That is a cry He never refuses. The hand that scooped up handfuls of dust and shaped a living man still knows how to gather scattered fragments and breathe life into them again. Your life is not a closed book. It is an appointed time, a span measured out, and your span is not yet run. A broken watch is not a stopped sun: hours still lie before you, hours in which the God who raises the dead can make the dead places in your heart stir again with hope.

You mentioned that you are over your husband, and I am glad of it. There is a sorrow in being bound in soul to one who proved himself so false. Christ knows what it is to be deserted, His own fled into the shadows while He knelt alone under the olive trees. There was no human voice to speak for Him when lies were heaped upon His head. He was hated without a cause, and that sharp loneliness you taste now, He has drunk to the dregs. You are not walking into a strange sorrow when you feel yourself abandoned by one who owed you love; your Saviour has been there first, and He can come so near you that the cold will begin to lose its bite.

Yet I hear in your words a deeper hunger. You want to see your daughters without shame, to have your sister’s hatred lift, to have a friend look on you with kindness again. You want the car, the friendships, the simple liberties that make up a life, and behind all that, you want to stand before God without feeling like a failure. Dear soul, that is exactly what the gospel gives. God is not waiting for you to piece yourself together and present a tidy offering. He has “committed unto us the word of reconciliation”, which means He sends messengers not to scold the muddy sheep but to tell it the Shepherd has already opened the gate. The great work of making peace between you and God is finished. It was done by Christ on the tree, and it stands there ready for you to walk into, just as you are, with all the wreckage trailing behind.

So what do you do now? You look. That is all. Jonah, down in the very belly of the fish, down in wet darkness with weeds wrapped about his head, cried out, “I am cast out of Your sight; yet I will look again toward Your holy temple.” He did not pretend he was not in the depths. He did not try to climb out by his own fingernails. He simply turned his eyes toward the place where mercy sat. That is what I beg you to do. Again and again, turn your gaze toward Jesus Christ. Look, and keep looking. When the old voices come, your sister’s taunts, the memory of your husband’s cold vanishing, the whisper that you do not deserve a second spring, look again. Faith has a way of rising after every wave has beaten her under. She comes up sputtering, streaming from the flood, and she still fixes her eyes on the temple of grace.

And what of your sister? What of the friend you hurt years ago? Leave them with God for the moment. I do not say it will be easy. But you are not asking for vengeance, that is a sign that grace is already at work in you. You are asking for a second chance, and you serve a God who makes all things new. He can soften a heart of stone into a heart of flesh overnight, and He can cause old wounds to heal so cleanly that only a scar of tenderness remains. Pray for your sister. Pray for your friend. Entrust them to the same mercy you are reaching for yourself. And as you do, you will find your own soul growing lighter.

Your daughters are grown, educated, happy, you have not been nothing all these years. The enemy would have you believe that your whole history is a ruin, but there are green things growing even in the ashes. God has kept them, and He has kept you for a purpose. The days before you are not a punishment cell; they are a vineyard, and the Master is even now coming out to you where you sit feeling idle and useless, and He is saying, “Go work in My vineyard.” Not to earn His love, you have that already in Christ, but to taste the sweet air of a life that has meaning again.

Now I want to leave a blessing on you, not a light one that floats away, but one that settles deep into the cracks of your heart. The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit. May His love wrap around you like a father’s coat on a shivering child. May the Holy Spirit, the Comforter, come so near that your tears are sanctified and your loneliness turns into a quiet room where you meet with God. Look again, dear soul. Look and live. And as you do, you shall find, perhaps slowly at first, that the years the locusts had eaten are being restored, and you are walking in paths you had thought forever closed. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body

 
We are so grateful you entrusted us with your heavy heart and allowed us to stand alongside you in prayer these past days. Your honesty about the pain of abandonment, the weight of family wounds, and the longing to reclaim the life and relationships God intended for you moved us deeply. We have lifted up each specific request—your daughters’ healing from shame, your sister’s hardened heart, your friend’s willingness to offer grace, and the restoration of your own joy, freedom, and hope. We have also prayed fervently for protection and wisdom over your home and family, especially in light of the troubling discoveries about your past.

If God has already begun to answer—if you’ve sensed even a small shift in peace, a door opening, or a burden lifting—we would love to celebrate His faithfulness with you. Please share a praise report so we can rejoice together. If the answers haven’t come yet, or if the weight still feels too heavy, we want to keep standing with you. Post this request again, and we will continue to intercede, believing that our Father sees every tear and hears every cry.

May He draw near to you in this season, renew your strength, and remind you of His unfailing love. May He soften hearts, restore what was broken, and lead you into the fullness of life He has planned. We pray all these things in the powerful name of Jesus.
 

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