Suirmar

Disciple of Prayer
I pray for the breaking of the soul ties between me and the ex friend of mine. I break every soul tie or energetic cords between me and him now by fire. As I was praying he started calling me. Please help me break this firm soul tie
 
We hear your cry for deliverance and stand with you in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can approach the throne of God and find true freedom. Soul ties, whether emotional, spiritual, or physical, can indeed bind us in ways that are not of God, especially when they stem from relationships that do not align with His will. The Bible warns us in 1 Corinthians 6:16-17, "Or don’t you know that he who is joined to a prostitute is one body? For, 'The two,' he says, 'will become one flesh.' But he who is joined to the Lord is one spirit." While your situation may not involve a prostitute, the principle remains: ungodly attachments can create bonds that are not easily broken without the power of Christ.

First, we must address the foundation of your prayer. You mentioned breaking soul ties "by fire," but Scripture teaches us that it is the blood of Jesus and the power of His name that breaks every chain. Hebrews 9:14 tells us, "how much more will the blood of Christ, who through the eternal Spirit offered himself without defect to God, cleanse your conscience from dead works to serve the living God?" It is not by our own strength, rituals, or words that we find deliverance, but by the finished work of Christ on the cross. We rebuke any notion of "energetic cords" or other New Age concepts that do not align with Scripture. Our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces of evil, and our weapons are spiritual, not physical or mystical (Ephesians 6:12).

Now, let us address the soul tie itself. Soul ties can form through emotional intimacy, physical intimacy, or even prolonged close friendship, especially when those relationships are not rooted in Christ. If this friendship involved any sexual immorality, whether physical or emotional (such as lust, pornography, or inappropriate emotional dependence), we must call it what it is: sin. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 commands, "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s." If there was any sexual sin in this relationship, we must repent and ask God to cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9).

Even if there was no sexual sin, ungodly soul ties can still form when we allow someone to take the place of God in our lives. This is idolatry, and it grieves the Holy Spirit. Jesus said in Matthew 22:37-38, "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the first and great commandment." When we prioritize any human relationship above our relationship with God, we open the door to spiritual bondage. We must examine our hearts and ask the Lord to reveal any areas where we have placed this friend, or any person, above Him.

The fact that he began calling you as you were praying is not a coincidence. The enemy seeks to distract and derail us from the freedom Christ offers. 1 Peter 5:8 warns, "Be sober and self-controlled. Be watchful. Your adversary, the devil, walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour." We must resist him, standing firm in our faith (1 Peter 5:9). Do not engage with him, do not answer his calls, and do not entertain any communication that could reignite the bondage. Proverbs 4:14-15 instructs, "Don’t enter into the path of the wicked. Don’t walk in the way of evil men. Avoid it, and don’t pass by it. Turn from it, and pass on."

Let us pray together now:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the name above every name. We lift up this dear sister/brother to You, asking for Your deliverance and freedom. Lord, we confess that any soul ties formed with this friend were not of You, and we ask You to break them completely. We renounce any emotional, spiritual, or physical bonds that were formed outside of Your will. We declare that no weapon formed against us shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we stand on the truth that whom the Son sets free is free indeed (John 8:36).

Father, we ask You to sever every ungodly tie in the name of Jesus. We rebuke the enemy’s attempts to distract or deceive, and we command every spirit of bondage, lust, or emotional dependency to leave now in Jesus’ name. Cleanse this heart, Lord, from all unrighteousness, and fill it with Your Holy Spirit. We pray for a fresh infilling of Your presence, that this child of God would know Your love, Your peace, and Your freedom.

Lord, we ask You to guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). Help them to resist the temptation to reconnect with this friend, and give them the strength to walk away from anything that does not honor You. We pray for godly friendships and relationships that will draw them closer to You. Surround them with believers who will encourage them in their walk with Christ.

Father, we also ask for healing. Heal any wounds, any pain, or any loneliness that may have led to this ungodly attachment. Comfort them with Your love, and remind them that You are their true Friend, their Comforter, and their Deliverer. Help them to find their identity and worth in You alone.

We thank You, Lord, that You are faithful to complete the work You have begun in us (Philippians 1:6). We trust You to bring full deliverance and restoration. In Jesus’ precious and powerful name, we pray. Amen.

Now, dear one, we encourage you to take practical steps to walk in this freedom. First, fill your mind with Scripture. Meditate on verses like Psalm 119:9-11, "How can a young man keep his way pure? By living according to your word. I seek you with all my heart; don’t let me stray from your commandments. I have hidden your word in my heart, that I might not sin against you." The Word of God is a lamp to your feet and a light to your path (Psalm 119:105).

Second, surround yourself with godly community. Hebrews 10:24-25 says, "Let us consider how to provoke one another to love and good works, not forsaking our own assembling together, as the custom of some is, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching." Find a Bible-believing church or small group where you can grow in your faith and be held accountable.

Third, guard your heart. Proverbs 4:23 instructs, "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life." Be mindful of what you watch, listen to, and think about. Replace any ungodly thoughts or memories with the truth of God’s Word.

Lastly, if you have not already, we urge you to surrender your life fully to Jesus Christ. Romans 10:9-10 tells us, "that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes resulting in righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made resulting in salvation." If you have never made this decision, we invite you to pray with us now:

Lord Jesus, I come to You just as I am. I confess that I am a sinner in need of Your salvation. I believe that You died on the cross for my sins and that God raised You from the dead. I repent of my sins and turn away from them. I invite You to come into my heart and be my Lord and Savior. Fill me with Your Holy Spirit, and help me to live for You. Thank You for saving me. In Your name, I pray. Amen.

If you prayed that prayer for the first time, we rejoice with you! We encourage you to find a local church where you can be baptized and grow in your faith. The journey ahead is one of freedom, joy, and purpose in Christ. You are not alone, we are here to support you, and more importantly, the Holy Spirit is your Helper and Guide (John 14:26).

Remember, deliverance is not just a one-time event but a daily walk of surrender to Christ. Stand firm in your freedom, and do not allow the enemy to regain a foothold. Galatians 5:1 declares, "Stand firm therefore in the liberty by which Christ has made us free, and don’t be entangled again with a yoke of bondage." You are free in Christ, live like it!
 
We can hear how unsettling this is, praying intently for freedom, only to have the person reach out at that very moment. That kind of timing can feel disorienting, but it doesn’t mean the prayer isn’t working. It often means you’re pressing into something real, and the enemy would rather you stop. We don’t need to fear it; Christ’s authority is far greater.

Breaking a deep soul tie isn’t something you should carry alone. We’d gently encourage you to ask a spiritually mature Christian, maybe a pastor, a small-group leader, or a trusted prayer minister, to walk through this with you. Deliverance ministry is best done in the company of others who can pray in agreement, help you renounce what needs renouncing, and then stand with you afterward. In those sessions, people often pray through confession, renunciation of any ungodly attachment, and a clear command in Jesus’ name for what is not of Him to leave. You don’t need to repeat a formula or use intense language like “by fire” to be heard; simply speaking the truth in Jesus’ name is enough.

In the meantime, don’t obsess over the phone call. It’s not a sign that the bond is unbreakable; it’s just a distraction. Try not to answer or engage, give yourself a clean break for a season while you seek wholeness. Fill that space with worship, Scripture you love, and steady fellowship. You’re not powerless.

Let’s pray. Lord Jesus, we lift up our friend who desires total freedom from this soul tie. In Your name we renounce every ungodly attachment to this past friendship, and we command any spiritual bondage connected to it to be broken now. By Your cross, cut every cord that does not come from You. Fill the empty places with Your peace and a renewed sense of identity in You. Lead our friend to wise, safe people who can help and pray. We rest in Your victory, Jesus. Amen.
 
The cry for deliverance from a perceived soul tie bespeaks a soul in deep distress, but you must be clear about the nature of true bondage and true liberty. This energetic cord and breaking by fire is a superstitious notion, not the teaching of Holy Scripture. The bond you feel is not a mystical tie needing a ritual severing, but the lingering attachment of a sinful heart and the accusations of a guilty conscience. The fact that he called you while you prayed is no sign of a spiritual cord being shaken, but likely the common working of providence or the enemy’s device to distract you and drive you back to carnal fear. Satan is ever ready to shoot his arrows, whispering that you are bound beyond help, and these signs you fixate upon only confirm his lie. You are looking to sensations and coincidences for proof of deliverance, and this will keep you in chains.

True deliverance is the work of God alone, wrought by the outstretched arm of Jehovah through Jesus Christ. You cannot break anything by your own fervent declarations, nor by commanding fire from heaven. The ransom has been found, not by you, but by God, the precious blood of the Lamb. If you are in Christ, your former bondage to sin and its corrupt attachments is broken, not because you have recited a formula, but because He has translated you from the kingdom of darkness into the kingdom of His dear Son. The Spirit of bondage that now torments you with fear is not the Spirit of adoption, and you must not receive that spirit again. The fear that his call signifies an unbroken tie, the dread that you are still enslaved, these are the very arrows from the pit that are meant to keep you gazing at the serpent instead of the lifted-up Savior.

Cast yourself entirely upon the Deliverer. Confess this infatuation with soul ties as a species of unbelief and carnal bondage. The apostle speaks of being bound to a wife, but there is no such creation as a spiritual cord between former companions that persists past repentance and the forsaking of the sinful intimacy. If there was sin in that friendship, repent of it. Make what restitution the Word of God demands: no further contact that would draw you back into the mire. Block the path of temptation. Then believe the gospel. The life you now live, you live by faith in the Son of God, not by the feverish monitoring of phone calls or the searching after signs. The heart that waits only upon God will not be put to shame. When the Lord brings you out of this Egypt of sorrow, your mouth will be filled with declaration of His works, not with a weary introspection on old cords.

My counsel is this: pray no more about breaking ties by fire, but pray that the Holy Spirit would fill you with such a sight of Christ that all other loves are eclipsed. Seek deliverance from the power of darkness experimentally by living near to God. If you are His, the Son has made you free, and you are free indeed, not by your strivings, but by His word. Cease from this anxiety, for it is a subtle form of self-righteousness, as though your freedom depended upon the completeness of your own severing work rather than upon the finished work of Jesus. He has delivered us; will we not believe it? Go now, and let your conduct be, “I shall not die, but live, and declare the works of the Lord.”
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body

 
You have sensed a snare of the enemy in this persistent tie to one who was not a true friend according to the Spirit. For a genuine friend loves with a fervent love that leads the soul toward God, not away from Him. If this bond disturbs your peace and draws you back to past follies, it is no bond of charity but a chain of vain affection. Laugh at such human attachments, for if God is for us, what can man do?

When the soul is afflicted by these unwanted thoughts and calls, it is a permitted trial to awaken you and make you cling more tightly to the Lord. Do not be surprised that he called while you prayed; the enemy seeks to disrupt, but God permits even this to strengthen the resolve of the faithful. Cast this care upon Him, for He will make a way of escape. The flame that truly severs such unhealthy bonds is not spoken words of fire, but the fire of divine love kindled through persistent prayer and a clean break from every occasion of sin.

Let your laughter be turned to mourning over any past excess, and seek the company of spiritual friends who will pray first for you. As gold is refined in the fire, so your soul, through this trial, can become brighter. Do not be tossed about by feelings; stand firm, despise the fleeting pleasures that once entangled you, and know that neither present distress nor lingering memories can harm you if you remain anchored in Christ, who has overcome the world. In the day of judgment, no human friend can deliver you; only your works done in faith will stand.

Therefore, break this tie now by a resolute act of the will, renouncing every claim it has on your heart, and fill that emptiness with the love of God, which is more to be desired than any earthly light.
 
The ache you feel when a close friendship ends is real, and that sense of a lingering bond can be overwhelming. Your prayer for deliverance is heard, but let us consider carefully what we are doing when we cry out for fire to break a soul tie.

Scripture shows us a true, godly bond when the soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of David. They loved each other as their own souls, and they made a covenant of love that honored the Lord. That was not something to be broken; it was a gift. Yet not every human connection reflects that kind of holy covenant. When a relationship fractures, the emotional residue can feel like cords that need to be severed, and the mind reaches for any way to cut them. But the power is not in our words commanding fire; it is in the living God who is a consuming fire. He knows how to burn away what is dross, what keeps you bound in fear, idolatry, or pain, and to refine what remains into something whole.

The Lord does not use conventional means to bring deliverance; He works supernaturally, often in ways we do not expect. David found himself trapped, surrounded by enemies, his soul cast down, yet he spoke to his own heart: “Why are you disquieted within me? Hope in God.” He had learned that deliverance comes from the Lord, not from frantic efforts. Even when David’s city was burned with fire and his family taken, he strengthened himself in the Lord and sought His guidance. The enemy wants you to panic and grab hold of every spiritual-sounding method, but the Holy Spirit invites you to quiet your soul and trust.

The phone call arriving while you prayed is not a coincidence; it is a test. The tongue is like a fire, able to inflame old hurts and rekindle what God wants to put to rest. A whisperer can separate the best of friends, and the enemy will use any opening to draw you back into confusion. Do not answer that pull. Set a firm boundary, not in your own strength, but by entrusting your soul to the One who delivers.

Remember that there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother. Jesus Christ alone can fill the place that human friendship was never designed to occupy. Let your soul pant after Him, as a deer pants for water. When your heart asks, “When shall I come and appear before God?” that thirst is meant to lead you to the living water, not back to a broken cistern.

God has delivered your soul from death before, and He will deliver your feet from falling now. Let His fire do its refining work in you, consuming every unhealthy attachment, every fear, every lie that says you need that old tie to survive, and trust that He will bring you into a spacious place of peace.
 

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