We join you together in the name of Jesus and thank you for bringing this man before the Lord with such burden and compassion. We agree with you that our Father hears when we agree together in prayer, for Jesus said where two or three are gathered in His name, there He is in the midst of them, Matthew 18:20, and that the prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective, James 5:16.
We hear your heart for this man who rented his flat to you and we also see him as God sees him, a soul for whom Christ suffered and died, created in God's image and deeply loved, yet in need of deliverance and truth. You have prayed rightly that he would hear God's voice concerning His holy plan for his life, for we know the Lord declares, For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future, Jeremiah 29:11. His thoughts are far greater than ours and His desire is not to condemn but to save and restore.
We must speak clearly about the sinful relationships and activities you mentioned. Scripture teaches that any sexual relationship outside of marriage between a man and a woman is sin before God, whether it is fornication or adultery, and it also teaches that pursuing a false identity contrary to how God created us, including homosexuality, is immoral and forbidden, 1 Corinthians 6:9-10, Romans 1:26-27, Genesis 1:27. These are not identities to be embraced but sins to be repented of and forsaken, for we are called to find our true identity in Christ alone. Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new, 2 Corinthians 5:17. When a person strays from the narrow path to follow his own desires he walks the broad way that leads to destruction, Matthew 7:13-14, and he allows the enemy to bring confusion, control and bondage.
You prayed that God would break his stony heart and soften it, and we join in that prayer, for God has promised, I will give you a new heart, and I will put a new spirit within you. I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you a heart of flesh, Ezekiel 36:26. Only God can open eyes that have been blinded and give courage to depart from evil. The fear of Yahweh is the beginning of wisdom, Proverbs 9:10, and we pray he will learn to fear the Holy name of the Lord and to depart from evil, Proverbs 3:7.
You also prayed for separation from ungodly influences, including those in his household and the evil woman in his life. We echo this, for Scripture warns us, Don't be deceived. Evil companionships corrupt good morals, 1 Corinthians 15:33, and Blessed is the man who doesn't walk in the counsel of the wicked, Psalm 1:1. The immoral woman is described in Proverbs as one whose steps lead down to death and whose ways are unstable, Proverbs 5:3-5, Proverbs 7:21-27, and any relationship where he is controlled, blackmailed and where his life may be in danger is not of God but of oppression. God calls His people to come out from among them and be separate, 2 Corinthians 6:17, and to submit to God and resist the devil so that he will flee, James 4:7. If sexual immorality is present, whether with this woman or through other sinful relationships, we urge repentance and fleeing from it, for every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body, 1 Corinthians 6:18. God's will is for purity and for marriage to be held in honor between a man and a woman as a lifelong covenant, Hebrews 13:4, and any courtship should be with the goal of godly marriage to a fellow believer in Christ, not mere partnership or cohabitation.
We also pray for his protection, for the Lord is faithful, who will establish you and guard you from the evil one, 2 Thessalonians 3:3, and The angel of Yahweh encamps around those who fear him, and delivers them, Psalm 34:7. If he is indeed under threats and blackmail, we ask God to break those chains, for He brings out the prisoners from the dungeon, Psalm 107:14, and If therefore the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed, John 8:36.
So we pray together now.
Heavenly Father, we thank You for the cross and for Your holy Son Jesus who suffered for all who believe. We praise Your holy name and thank You that we have access to Your throne only through the name of Jesus, for there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved, Acts 4:12. Lord, we lift up this dear man to You. You know his name, his history, his struggles and the plans You have for him. Open his eyes to see the clear unmistakable truth about his identity in Christ, that he is Your child, chosen and beloved, and expose the false identity he adopted when he strayed from Your narrow path. Break his stony heart, Father, and give him a heart of flesh that hears Your voice and has courage to follow You. Soften him for Your glory and grant him godly sorrow that leads to repentance, 2 Corinthians 7:10.
Lord, by Your power separate him from every ungodly influence, from every person in his household and outside it who draws him away from You, and especially from the evil woman in his life. Reveal to him the depth of Your love and the sinful and hateful nature of relationships where he is controlled, blackmailed and endangered. Give him understanding to fear Your Holy name and to depart from evil. Deliver him, Lord, from the snare of the enemy, guard his life, and set his feet upon Your solid rock. Bring godly people around him who will speak truth in love and disciple him, and lead him into fellowship where he can grow. We ask that he would confess his sin, receive Your forgiveness, 1 John 1:9, and walk in newness of life, Romans 6:4, pursuing holiness and, if it is Your will, a godly marriage that honors You. We trust You to do what we cannot do, for with You all things are possible, Matthew 19:26. In the powerful and mighty name of Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior we ask these things, amen.
We encourage you to continue to stand in the gap for him with steadfast prayer and with the Word, speaking truth in love when God gives opportunity, and not partaking in or affirming any sinful relationship but calling him gently toward repentance and freedom in Christ. We thank God for your faithfulness as an intercessor and we trust the Lord who is able to keep him and to deliver him completely.