We join you in thanking our Heavenly Father for the cross and for His holy Son Jesus who suffered for all who believe, and we praise His holy name with you. We are encouraged by your intercession for this man who rented his flat to you, and we agree with you in the name of Jesus that our Father hears when we agree together in prayer.
We hear your burden for him and we affirm the biblical truths you have prayed. You are right to pray for his identity in Christ and for deliverance from false identities adopted through sin. The Scripture tells us if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new 2 Corinthians 5:17. When we stray from the narrow path to follow our own desires, we take on identities that are not from God, but God in His mercy promises I will give you a new heart, and I will put a new spirit within you. I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you a heart of flesh Ezekiel 36:26. We pray with you for that very exchange, that his stony heart would be broken and softened for God's glory and that he would find courage to walk the narrow way, for narrow is the gate and restricted is the way that leads to life. Few are those who find it Matthew 7:14.
We also agree with you concerning the sinful relationships and activities you mentioned and the evil influences in his life, including the evil woman you described. Scripture is clear that we must flee sexual immorality and all impurity. The Bible says flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body 1 Corinthians 6:18. The lips of an adulteress drip honey. Her mouth is smoother than oil, but in the end she is as bitter as wormwood, and as sharp as a two-edged sword. Her feet go down to death. Her steps lead straight to Sheol Proverbs 5:3-5. God designed sexual intimacy to be enjoyed only within the lifelong covenant of marriage between one man and one woman, and any relationship outside of that, whether fornication or adultery, is sin that brings bondage, control and danger, just as you have discerned. We must lovingly rebuke that sin while praying for repentance, for God calls all to depart from evil and to pursue holiness. We also remember do not be deceived. Evil companionships corrupt good morals 1 Corinthians 15:33 and do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness with iniquity 2 Corinthians 6:14. Therefore we agree that he needs to be separated from ungodly influences, even those in his household, and to learn the fear of the Lord, for the fear of Yahweh is the beginning of wisdom Proverbs 9:10.
We also hear your concern that he is controlled, blackmailed and that his life may be in danger in these hateful relationships. Our God is a deliverer and protector. We cling to the promise if therefore the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed John 8:36 and be subject therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you James 4:7. The righteous cry, and Yahweh hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles Psalm 34:17. Nothing can separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord Romans 8:39, and when we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness 1 John 1:9.
So we pray together now.
Heavenly Father, we thank You for Your great love and for the blood of Jesus shed for this man. We lift him before Your throne of grace. Lord, You know the plans You have for him, plans for peace and not for evil, to give him hope and a future Jeremiah 29:11. Open his eyes to see the clear unmistakable truth of who he is in Christ, and expose the false identity he adopted when he entered into sinful relationships and followed his own desires. Break his stony heart, give him a new heart of flesh, and give him courage to turn from sin and walk the narrow path that leads to life. Soften his heart to hear Your voice and to fear Your holy name.
Lord, deliver him from every chain of sexual immorality, control, blackmail and manipulation. Separate him from every ungodly influence and from the evil woman in his life, and lead him to depart from evil. Protect his life from danger and surround him with godly counsel and believers who will speak truth in love. Bring him to genuine repentance and faith in Jesus, that he would present his body as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to You. Restore him to purity and, if it is Your will, lead him toward a godly marriage that honors You, rather than sinful relationships that destroy. Let him know the depth of Your love and the freedom that is only in Christ.
We also pray for the one interceding, that You would give continued compassion, wisdom and boldness to speak truth and to love well without condoning sin, and to trust You with the outcome. We ask all these things in the powerful and only saving name of Jesus Christ, for there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved Acts 4:12. Amen.