Deliverance prayer for ### betraying someone ### love and reconciliation of our bond.

[Shivani India]

Being here has been a transformative experience. When you are going through a tough time and feel like there is no one you can share with … you feel safe here surrounded by caring, wise, Godly people.

As Palm Sunday, Good Friday, Easter is coming, I wanna set myself free from this guilt & shame …. Yes I have shared many things here which I didn’t share with anyone including the mistakes I have made, decisions I took, I would love to share something here.

Yes, it’s taking a lot of courage … but I am a beloved daughter of God, I wanna be faithful, ask for forgiveness and repent.

As I became a part of this community, started praying on a daily basis, watching videos of Jesus, reading the Bible and started getting closer to God … I am loving who I am becoming.

If you have been following my posts, I am so sorry, I have been consistently sharing my prayer requests as I don’t know where else I can go and share. I genuinely appreciate the love, support, and wise insights I gain here.

So a few days ago …. ###, a person I was in love with, declared his separation from me due to my intense behavior filled with anger and emotions. Since then there has been no communication and just distance.

Now I would love to share what happened when we were together.

We met, we started enjoying each other's presence, we respect each other, we have a bond filled with compassion, acceptance, understanding, care & passion.

For the first time in my life, I felt like I deserve him, he has many qualities Jesus talks about.

Now here is the thing, when we got together we both were super busy in our own lives. He was busy in his full-time job and I was busy studying so I can get a job.

We got used to being together whenever we could find time and we never talked about being in a relationship or future plans which included marriage.

I knew, I couldn’t be super dependent on ### emotionally as we both have busy lives and if I try to get too close, he would get afraid and pull away, also I can’t force someone to be with me

but at the same time I was craving his emotional presence, for him to tell me where do I stand in his life, how much he loves me, do I matter to him but I was so stuck between wanting him to be emotionally present and then being afraid of losing him if I start expecting more.

To fill that emotional void, I started talking to another guy ### who is Muslim. That guy, he is the most emotionally available person I have ever seen, he is emotionally intelligent, compassionate, fully present, caring, gentle, respectful, responsive, he prefers communication & always there for me kind of person

(which I have craved all my life, I hate emotionally unavailable people and for some reason it’s been a pattern in my life where I attract emotionally unavailable men in my romantic relationship and then I end up getting hurt, alone & devastated.)

So we started talking and I felt so connected to him, we started seeing each other at his place which led to sexual sin. (it wasn’t that I wanted to betray ###, I love ### with my heart, it was just me filling that void of emotional absence of ### with ###) & thinking this way I won’t get attached to ###.

Now, ### is a person who is a big achiever, he is preparing for government exams along with his full-time job so for him finding time is difficult even if he wants to spend time with me doing fun stuff together like going on a bike ride, movie, cafe or simple walk.

And I love to go out as I am a fully alive person, love to explore, my love language is quality time. So that time though ### was being emotionally present, I was feeling void of spending quality time together.

So one more guy entered into my life, ###, who is an amazing friend of mine, he respects me & he is so genuine, he loves to explore, talk, spend time together so we got connected and honestly it was just pure friendship.

But one day, we went to watch sunset together and as I was feeling cold and we were tired from a long journey of bike ride, he said we can take a break at his place and then he will drop me off and during that time ..we came closer and we kissed.

And this whole time whether I was with ### or ###, I forgot I was hiding these things from ###.

What if he has done the same thing with me! How would I have felt (I somehow forgot what I was doing was wrong)

And yes I kept hidden those things from ### + ### didn’t know that I was having a romantic bond with ### or me going out on a bike ride with ###

And ### didn’t know about ### and ### .. they all thought I am being with them only.

But I believe with my heart, I am from a very well reputed family, I always believed in God, I have been always one man woman. But as challenges in my life grew

(1. I left my house & came to ### city as relationship between me and my mother has always suffered, she is controlling, came from a traumatic family, she doesn’t accept me the way I am,

2. I had to leave my dream job as she was becoming a barrier causing me to lose the peace of my mind so I have so much pain, anger, resentment in my heart towards her & my source of income stopped completely.

3. I was feeling so alone, no matter how hard I was trying, I am still not getting any job

4. I am struggling financially, as I don’t have a job, I am dependent on my parents for money

5. I have been super hurt due to my past relationships with men where either I decided to leave them or they decided to leave me due to fights, mismatch in values & lifestyle & goals & attachment styles)

And in order to escape with this unbearable pain, I got involved in that stuff which was giving me temporary relief but I know how much consequences I have started facing because of whatever I have done.

I also realized, I should put God first in my life, tell Him to fill those voids & stay away from sin.

Please pray for me to forgive me from betrayal, cheating, being with multiple people, pride, seduction, sexual sin, isolation, rejection.

I talked to God, I shared with Him everything I did and whatever happened. I asked for forgiveness.

I also know, I have allowed many evil spirits to enter into my life via sexual sin that’s why I am going through health challenges, financial difficulties, unemployment, fights in my family, relationship issues.

I love ### and I only wanna be with ###. It’s so shameful, I dared to be with another man where I could have just put efforts growing my bond with him.

I have been praying for ### & restoration of our bond. ###, he was there for me when no one was there .. he brought so much joy in my life, he accepted me, he became my blessing.

Please I ask you to pray for me, deliver me from sin, I also ask for forgiveness to Lord for ###, ### & ###.

I have no right to play with anyone’s emotions. I realized how much dark place I was in.

Yes I am in the process of becoming a Godly woman.

God is really working in my life because I realized all these things on my own when I started getting closer to God.

Please pray for me, forgive me, give me one more chance, restore my bond with ###.

I have sent him one last message on LinkedIn (where I have access but he didn’t see that message as it went into message request, on other places he blocked me as he needs some space)

Please ask Lord to guide him to see that message and shift his heart.

I also kept a diary in his room, please let him read that diary again and again & let one word, one experience, one sentence, one letter move his heart knowing how much I love him & how much he matters to me in my life.

God is great, with Him .. everything is possible. I am expecting a miracle. If God has done for others, God will do it in my life. I want God to show up and answer my prayers this holy week from Palm Sunday to Easter.

In Jesus mighty name, I am receiving a message and call from ###.

 

[Articles]

We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting up this precious sister who has poured out her soul in repentance and seeking restoration. First, we must acknowledge the courage it takes to confront sin and the humility it requires to ask for forgiveness—both from God and from those we have wronged. The Word tells us in 1 John 1:9, *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."* You have already taken the first step by confessing to the Lord, and He is faithful to forgive.

The pain of betrayal—both the betrayal you inflicted and the betrayal you have felt in past relationships—is deep, but we serve a God who heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds (Psalm 147:3). The sexual sin you have committed is not taken lightly in Scripture, for 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 warns, *"Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s."* The enemy seeks to use shame to keep you in bondage, but Christ came to set the captives free (Luke 4:18). We rebuke the spirits of guilt, shame, and condemnation in Jesus’ name, for there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus (Romans 8:1).

The relationships you described—engaging with multiple men outside of marriage, hiding your actions, and seeking emotional fulfillment in sin—are not aligned with God’s design. Proverbs 5:3-5 warns, *"For the lips of an adulteress drip honey. Her mouth is smoother than oil, but in the end she is as bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword. Her feet go down to death. Her steps lead straight to Sheol."* Yet we also know that God’s mercy is greater than our sin. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). You have recognized the emptiness of seeking fulfillment outside of Him, and that is the beginning of true repentance.

We must address the patterns in your life that led to this sin. The emotional unavailability you’ve experienced in past relationships is not an excuse for unfaithfulness, but it is a wound that needs healing. The Lord desires to fill every void in your heart—your need for love, acceptance, security, and purpose. Psalm 107:9 declares, *"For he satisfies the longing soul. He fills the hungry soul with good."* You must surrender these areas to Him and allow Him to be your first love, your provider, and your peace. The men in your life—whether emotionally distant or overly available—cannot satisfy what only God can. We pray that you would find your worth and identity in Christ alone, not in the approval or affection of others.

Regarding the man you love, we must pray with wisdom and discernment. While reconciliation is possible, it must be according to God’s will and timing. Proverbs 3:5-6 instructs, *"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* You cannot manipulate or force his heart to change, but you can surrender this desire to the Lord and trust Him to work. If it is His will for you to be restored, He will make a way. If not, He has something better planned. We pray that the Lord would soften his heart, open his eyes to your message, and lead him in the path of righteousness. But we also pray that you would release him to God’s care, for only the Lord can change a heart (Ezekiel 36:26).

The financial struggles, health challenges, and family conflicts you mentioned are not coincidences. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), but Jesus came that you may have life abundantly. We rebuke the spirits of lack, sickness, and strife in Jesus’ name. We declare that the Lord is your provider (Philippians 4:19), your healer (Exodus 15:26), and your peace (John 14:27). We pray for breakthrough in your job search, for divine connections, and for favor in the eyes of those who can help you. We also pray for healing in your relationship with your mother. Forgiveness does not mean excusing her actions, but it does mean releasing the bitterness that has taken root in your heart. Ephesians 4:31-32 says, *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."*

You have expressed a desire to become a godly woman, and that is a beautiful and worthy goal. Titus 2:3-5 instructs older women to teach younger women to love their husbands, love their children, be self-controlled, pure, workers at home, kind, and subject to their own husbands, so that God’s word may not be blasphemed. This is not a call to perfection, but to surrender. As you draw near to God, He will draw near to you (James 4:8). We encourage you to immerse yourself in Scripture, seek godly mentorship, and surround yourself with believers who can hold you accountable. The Holy Spirit is your helper, and He will guide you into all truth (John 16:13).

Now, let us pray:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts full of compassion and truth. We thank You for this sister’s honesty and her desire to walk in righteousness. Lord, we ask that You would cleanse her from all unrighteousness and wash her white as snow (Isaiah 1:18). We break every chain of sexual sin, deception, and emotional bondage in the mighty name of Jesus. We rebuke the spirits of lust, pride, and rejection that have sought to destroy her life, and we declare that she is a new creation in Christ (2 Corinthians 5:17).

Father, we ask that You would heal her heart from the pain of past relationships and the shame of her actions. Fill every void with Your perfect love, for You are the only One who can satisfy her soul. We pray for restoration in her relationship with the man she loves, but only if it aligns with Your will. Soften his heart, Lord, and let him see the sincerity of her repentance. If it is not Your plan for them to be together, give her the strength to accept Your will and trust in Your goodness.

We declare breakthrough over her finances, her health, and her family relationships. Provide for her needs according to Your riches in glory (Philippians 4:19). Heal her body and restore her to full health. Bring reconciliation and peace to her family, and help her to forgive those who have hurt her.

Lord, we ask that You would continue to transform her into the godly woman You have called her to be. Give her wisdom, discernment, and a hunger for Your Word. Surround her with godly influences and mentors who can guide her in Your ways. Let her walk in purity, integrity, and holiness, for Your glory.

We thank You, Father, for Your unfailing love and mercy. We trust in Your promise that You will never leave nor forsake us (Hebrews 13:5). May this sister experience Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7) and Your joy that is her strength (Nehemiah 8:10). We believe that You are working all things together for her good (Romans 8:28), and we declare that her latter days will be greater than her former (Job 42:12).

In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, dear friend. We've heard your heart's cry and we're here to lift you up in prayer. Here's what we're going to ask the Lord for you:

1. **Forgiveness and Cleansing:** We ask the Lord to forgive you for the betrayal you've committed and the pain you've felt. We ask Him to cleanse you from all unrighteousness, just as it's written in 1 John 1:9. We declare that you are a new creation in Christ, as mentioned in 2 Corinthians 5:17.

2. **Healing and Restoration:** We pray for healing in your heart from past relationships and the shame you've felt. We ask the Lord to fill every void in your heart with His perfect love, as Psalm 107:9 says. We also pray for restoration in your relationship with the man you love, but only if it aligns with God's will.

3. **Breakthrough in Finances, Health, and Family Relationships:** We declare breakthrough in your finances, health, and family relationships. We ask the Lord to provide for your needs according to His riches in glory, as Philippians 4:19 says. We also pray for healing in your body and restoration in your family relationships.

4. **Transformation into a Godly Woman:** We ask the Lord to continue transforming you into the godly woman He has called you to be. We pray for wisdom, discernment, and a hunger for His Word. We also ask Him to surround you with godly influences and mentors who can guide you in His ways.

5. **Peace, Joy, and Strength:** We ask the Lord to give you His peace that surpasses all understanding, as Philippians 4:7 says. We also ask for His joy to be your strength, as Nehemiah 8:10 says. We declare that your latter days will be greater than your former, as Job 42:12 says.

We believe that God is working all things together for your good, as Romans 8:28 says. We trust in His promise that He will never leave nor forsake us, as Hebrews 13:5 says.

In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.

 

[Wingsofadove7]

Seek His Face and Presence not just His hand. In his Presence is everything you need. This does not mean you can have any material thing, perfect spouse because you asked for it in Jesus Christ name. You will have your needs, some of your wants, and difficult trials. The difficult trials are supposed to refine your character and make you more like Jesus. He is more interested in getting you to everlasting life and having your heart in the right place than he is in giving you gifts. It’s eternal life he’s concerned with.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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