Please pray about a YouTube family channel where the husband and wife divorced years ago and since then, their breakup has been one of the worst, most traumatizing (they have two daughters who are now teenagers) and just plain awful that I have ever seen. Constant mudslinging and insulting from both sides. Both have remarried or gotten new partners with the ex-husband having a baby with someone else (who it's unclear if he married the woman or not). Consistently, sometimes on a daily or weekly basis, the situation has been full of drama and hatred between the adults involved for years now. I feel so, so bad for the children who are obviously affected. Thank you.
Custody battle
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We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting up this family situation that has been marked by so much pain, division, and strife. Father God, we know that Your heart breaks when Your children are at war with one another, especially when the innocent—these two precious teenage daughters—are caught in the crossfire. The Bible tells us in Malachi 2:16, *"For I hate divorce," says Yahweh, the God of Israel, "and him who covers his garment with violence!" says Yahweh of Armies. "Therefore take heed to your spirit, that you don’t deal treacherously."* Lord, we see the treachery of broken vows, the violence of words and actions, and the deep wounds that have been inflicted here. We ask that You would intervene in power and mercy.
First, we must address the sin that has taken root in this situation. The constant mudslinging, insults, and public airing of grievances are not only destructive but are direct violations of Your command to love one another and to pursue peace. Ephesians 4:29-32 says, *"Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear. Don’t grieve the Holy Spirit of God, in whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."* Father, we rebuke the spirit of bitterness and unforgiveness that has taken hold of these parents. We declare that their words and actions must come under the lordship of Christ, for their own sake and for the sake of their children. If either of them claims to follow You, they must repent of their sin and seek reconciliation—not just with one another, but with You.
We also must address the issue of remarriage and relationships outside of Your design. The Bible is clear that marriage is a covenant between one man and one woman for life (Matthew 19:4-6). While we do not know the full circumstances of their divorce, we know that You desire repentance and restoration where possible. However, if divorce has already occurred, we pray that any new relationships would be entered into with reverence for Your Word. The ex-husband’s situation with the woman he had a child with is particularly concerning. If they are not married, this is a relationship built on sin, and it must be addressed. 1 Corinthians 6:18 warns, *"Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."* Father, we pray that any ungodly relationships would be brought to light and that repentance would follow. If these parents are not walking with You, we pray that they would come to know Jesus as their Lord and Savior, for it is only through Him that true transformation can occur.
Most of all, we lift up these two daughters, who have been forced to endure years of conflict and instability. Lord, You are the Father to the fatherless (Psalm 68:5), and we ask that You would be their comfort, their refuge, and their guide. Protect their hearts from bitterness and resentment. Help them to see that their worth is not defined by the actions of their parents but by Your unconditional love for them. We pray that they would come to know You personally, that they would find godly mentors and friends who can speak truth and life into their lives, and that they would break the cycle of brokenness in their own futures. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* Father, make their paths straight. Heal their wounds. Restore what has been broken.
We also pray for the new spouses and partners involved in this situation. If they are not believers, we pray that they would come to faith in Jesus Christ. If they are believers, we pray that they would be voices of wisdom, peace, and godliness in this family. Help them to resist the temptation to take sides or fuel the conflict. Instead, let them be peacemakers, as Jesus calls us to be in Matthew 5:9: *"Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called children of God."*
Lord, we know that this situation did not happen overnight, and it will not be healed overnight. But we believe in Your power to redeem even the most broken situations. We ask that You would soften hearts, bring conviction where there is sin, and pour out Your grace and mercy. Help these parents to see their children not as pawns in their conflict but as precious souls entrusted to their care. Help them to lay down their pride, their anger, and their desire for vengeance. Remind them of the words in Romans 12:18: *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men."*
We also pray for those who have been watching this family’s story unfold publicly. Father, we ask that You would use this situation to turn hearts toward You. Let it be a reminder of the importance of honoring marriage, of pursuing reconciliation, and of putting the needs of children above personal grievances. Let it be a testimony to Your power to heal and restore, rather than a spectacle of brokenness.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You would raise up godly counselors, pastors, or mentors who can speak truth into this family. Surround these daughters with people who will point them to You, who will model healthy relationships, and who will help them navigate the pain they have experienced. We pray that this family would one day be a testimony to Your grace, that others would look at them and say, *"Only God could have done that."*
We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the Prince of Peace, the One who came to bind up the brokenhearted and set the captives free. Amen.
First, we must address the sin that has taken root in this situation. The constant mudslinging, insults, and public airing of grievances are not only destructive but are direct violations of Your command to love one another and to pursue peace. Ephesians 4:29-32 says, *"Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear. Don’t grieve the Holy Spirit of God, in whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."* Father, we rebuke the spirit of bitterness and unforgiveness that has taken hold of these parents. We declare that their words and actions must come under the lordship of Christ, for their own sake and for the sake of their children. If either of them claims to follow You, they must repent of their sin and seek reconciliation—not just with one another, but with You.
We also must address the issue of remarriage and relationships outside of Your design. The Bible is clear that marriage is a covenant between one man and one woman for life (Matthew 19:4-6). While we do not know the full circumstances of their divorce, we know that You desire repentance and restoration where possible. However, if divorce has already occurred, we pray that any new relationships would be entered into with reverence for Your Word. The ex-husband’s situation with the woman he had a child with is particularly concerning. If they are not married, this is a relationship built on sin, and it must be addressed. 1 Corinthians 6:18 warns, *"Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."* Father, we pray that any ungodly relationships would be brought to light and that repentance would follow. If these parents are not walking with You, we pray that they would come to know Jesus as their Lord and Savior, for it is only through Him that true transformation can occur.
Most of all, we lift up these two daughters, who have been forced to endure years of conflict and instability. Lord, You are the Father to the fatherless (Psalm 68:5), and we ask that You would be their comfort, their refuge, and their guide. Protect their hearts from bitterness and resentment. Help them to see that their worth is not defined by the actions of their parents but by Your unconditional love for them. We pray that they would come to know You personally, that they would find godly mentors and friends who can speak truth and life into their lives, and that they would break the cycle of brokenness in their own futures. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* Father, make their paths straight. Heal their wounds. Restore what has been broken.
We also pray for the new spouses and partners involved in this situation. If they are not believers, we pray that they would come to faith in Jesus Christ. If they are believers, we pray that they would be voices of wisdom, peace, and godliness in this family. Help them to resist the temptation to take sides or fuel the conflict. Instead, let them be peacemakers, as Jesus calls us to be in Matthew 5:9: *"Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called children of God."*
Lord, we know that this situation did not happen overnight, and it will not be healed overnight. But we believe in Your power to redeem even the most broken situations. We ask that You would soften hearts, bring conviction where there is sin, and pour out Your grace and mercy. Help these parents to see their children not as pawns in their conflict but as precious souls entrusted to their care. Help them to lay down their pride, their anger, and their desire for vengeance. Remind them of the words in Romans 12:18: *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men."*
We also pray for those who have been watching this family’s story unfold publicly. Father, we ask that You would use this situation to turn hearts toward You. Let it be a reminder of the importance of honoring marriage, of pursuing reconciliation, and of putting the needs of children above personal grievances. Let it be a testimony to Your power to heal and restore, rather than a spectacle of brokenness.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You would raise up godly counselors, pastors, or mentors who can speak truth into this family. Surround these daughters with people who will point them to You, who will model healthy relationships, and who will help them navigate the pain they have experienced. We pray that this family would one day be a testimony to Your grace, that others would look at them and say, *"Only God could have done that."*
We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the Prince of Peace, the One who came to bind up the brokenhearted and set the captives free. Amen.
We're here with you, standing in the gap for this family. It's heart-wrenching to see the pain and division they're going through, but we serve a God who specializes in healing and restoration. Let's keep lifting them up in prayer.
We've been praying for the parents to have a change of heart, to lay down their pride and anger, and to start putting their children first. We've been asking God to give them the strength to apologize, to forgive, and to start rebuilding their relationships, not just with each other, but also with Him.
We've also been interceding for the daughters. Lord, we ask that You would protect their hearts, heal their wounds, and help them to see their worth in You. We pray that they would find mentors and friends who can speak truth and life into their lives, and that they would break the cycle of brokenness in their own futures.
We're believing for a miracle, for hearts to soften, and for this family to be a testimony of God's grace and healing power. We're here, praying in Jesus' name.
We've been praying for the parents to have a change of heart, to lay down their pride and anger, and to start putting their children first. We've been asking God to give them the strength to apologize, to forgive, and to start rebuilding their relationships, not just with each other, but also with Him.
We've also been interceding for the daughters. Lord, we ask that You would protect their hearts, heal their wounds, and help them to see their worth in You. We pray that they would find mentors and friends who can speak truth and life into their lives, and that they would break the cycle of brokenness in their own futures.
We're believing for a miracle, for hearts to soften, and for this family to be a testimony of God's grace and healing power. We're here, praying in Jesus' name.
Wingsofadove7
Humble Servant of All
Seek His Face and Presence not just His hand. In his Presence is everything you need. This does not mean you can have any material thing, perfect spouse because you asked for it in Jesus Christ name. You will have your needs, some of your wants, and difficult trials. The difficult trials are supposed to refine your character and make you more like Jesus. He is more interested in getting you to everlasting life and having your heart in the right place than he is in giving you gifts. It’s eternal life he’s concerned with.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Finding Life and Salvation in Christ: A Roadmap
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Finding Life and Salvation in Christ: A Roadmap
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
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