Please pray about a YouTube family channel where the husband and wife divorced years ago and since then, their breakup has been one of the worst, most traumatizing (they have two daughters who are now teenagers) and just plain awful that I have ever seen. Constant mudslinging and insulting from both sides. Both have remarried or gotten new partners with the ex-husband having a baby with someone else (who it's unclear if he married the woman or not). Consistently, sometimes on a daily or weekly basis, the situation has been full of drama and hatred between the adults involved for years now. I feel so, so bad for the children who are obviously affected. Thank you.
Custody battle
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We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting up this family situation that has been marked by pain, division, and ongoing strife. Father God, we know that Your heart breaks when families are torn apart, especially when children are caught in the crossfire of adult conflicts. The Bible tells us in Malachi 2:16, "For I hate divorce," says Yahweh, the God of Israel, "and him who covers his garment with violence!" says Yahweh of Armies. "Therefore take heed to your spirit, that you don’t deal treacherously." This situation reflects the consequences of broken vows and the destructive nature of sin when left unchecked.
We must address the seriousness of the remarriage and new relationships in this situation. Scripture is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, designed by God to reflect Christ’s relationship with the Church (Ephesians 5:31-32). If the ex-husband has fathered a child outside of marriage, this is a grave matter. Hebrews 13:4 declares, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." If he is not married to the mother of his child, this is fornication, and it dishonors God’s design for family. We must also rebuke the ongoing mudslinging, insults, and hatred between these adults. Ephesians 4:29-31 warns, "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear. Don’t grieve the Holy Spirit of God, in whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice." The constant public airing of grievances, especially in a way that exposes their daughters to further harm, is sinful and must cease.
Lord, we pray for these two teenage girls who have been forced to endure years of conflict, instability, and emotional turmoil. Their young lives have been shaped by the brokenness of their parents, and we ask that You would be their Comforter, their Refuge, and their Peace. Psalm 27:10 says, "When my father and my mother forsake me, then Yahweh will take me up." Father, we ask that You would draw near to these girls, protect their hearts from bitterness, and heal the wounds that have been inflicted upon them. Give them godly mentors, counselors, and friends who can speak truth and life into their spirits. Help them to see themselves through Your eyes—as beloved daughters, fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). Guard their minds from the lies that may tell them they are to blame for their parents’ choices, and remind them daily of Your unconditional love.
We also pray for the parents involved. Father, we ask that You would break the hardness of their hearts and bring them to a place of genuine repentance. Convict them of the harm they have caused their daughters and the ways in which their actions have dishonored You. We rebuke the spirit of pride, bitterness, and unforgiveness that has taken root in their lives. James 4:1-2 warns, "Where do wars and fightings among you come from? Don’t they come from your pleasures that war in your members? You lust, and don’t have. You kill, covet, and can’t obtain. You fight and make war." Lord, we ask that You would humble them before You and before one another. If it is Your will, bring reconciliation—not for the sake of their public image, but for the sake of Your glory and the healing of their family. If reconciliation is not possible, we pray that they would at least lay down their weapons of words and actions that continue to wound their children.
We must also address the role of their public platform. The Bible warns against using our words to tear others down, especially in a public forum. Proverbs 11:9 says, "With his mouth the godless man destroys his neighbor, but the righteous will be delivered through knowledge." If these parents are using their public platform to air their grievances, they are not only harming their daughters but also leading others into sin by normalizing conflict and division. We pray that You would silence their tongues from speaking evil and turn their hearts toward repentance. If they claim to follow You, Lord, let their actions reflect the fruit of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23).
Father, we ask that You would raise up godly influences in the lives of this family. Surround them with believers who can speak truth in love, hold them accountable, and model what a Christ-centered family looks like. We pray for the new spouses and partners involved—give them wisdom to navigate this complex situation with grace and humility. If any of them are not walking in alignment with Your Word, convict them of sin and draw them to repentance. We also pray for the baby who has been born into this situation. May this child be a reminder of Your redemptive power and a catalyst for change in the father’s life.
Lord, we know that nothing is impossible for You. We ask that You would move in mighty ways to bring healing, restoration, and peace to this family. Soften hearts, open eyes, and turn their focus toward You. May Your name be glorified in their lives, and may Your love be the foundation upon which they rebuild. We pray all of this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can come before You and the only name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). Without Jesus, there is no access to the Father, no forgiveness of sins, and no hope for true transformation. We declare that Your grace is sufficient for this family, and we trust in Your perfect plan for their lives. Amen.
We must address the seriousness of the remarriage and new relationships in this situation. Scripture is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, designed by God to reflect Christ’s relationship with the Church (Ephesians 5:31-32). If the ex-husband has fathered a child outside of marriage, this is a grave matter. Hebrews 13:4 declares, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." If he is not married to the mother of his child, this is fornication, and it dishonors God’s design for family. We must also rebuke the ongoing mudslinging, insults, and hatred between these adults. Ephesians 4:29-31 warns, "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear. Don’t grieve the Holy Spirit of God, in whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice." The constant public airing of grievances, especially in a way that exposes their daughters to further harm, is sinful and must cease.
Lord, we pray for these two teenage girls who have been forced to endure years of conflict, instability, and emotional turmoil. Their young lives have been shaped by the brokenness of their parents, and we ask that You would be their Comforter, their Refuge, and their Peace. Psalm 27:10 says, "When my father and my mother forsake me, then Yahweh will take me up." Father, we ask that You would draw near to these girls, protect their hearts from bitterness, and heal the wounds that have been inflicted upon them. Give them godly mentors, counselors, and friends who can speak truth and life into their spirits. Help them to see themselves through Your eyes—as beloved daughters, fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). Guard their minds from the lies that may tell them they are to blame for their parents’ choices, and remind them daily of Your unconditional love.
We also pray for the parents involved. Father, we ask that You would break the hardness of their hearts and bring them to a place of genuine repentance. Convict them of the harm they have caused their daughters and the ways in which their actions have dishonored You. We rebuke the spirit of pride, bitterness, and unforgiveness that has taken root in their lives. James 4:1-2 warns, "Where do wars and fightings among you come from? Don’t they come from your pleasures that war in your members? You lust, and don’t have. You kill, covet, and can’t obtain. You fight and make war." Lord, we ask that You would humble them before You and before one another. If it is Your will, bring reconciliation—not for the sake of their public image, but for the sake of Your glory and the healing of their family. If reconciliation is not possible, we pray that they would at least lay down their weapons of words and actions that continue to wound their children.
We must also address the role of their public platform. The Bible warns against using our words to tear others down, especially in a public forum. Proverbs 11:9 says, "With his mouth the godless man destroys his neighbor, but the righteous will be delivered through knowledge." If these parents are using their public platform to air their grievances, they are not only harming their daughters but also leading others into sin by normalizing conflict and division. We pray that You would silence their tongues from speaking evil and turn their hearts toward repentance. If they claim to follow You, Lord, let their actions reflect the fruit of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23).
Father, we ask that You would raise up godly influences in the lives of this family. Surround them with believers who can speak truth in love, hold them accountable, and model what a Christ-centered family looks like. We pray for the new spouses and partners involved—give them wisdom to navigate this complex situation with grace and humility. If any of them are not walking in alignment with Your Word, convict them of sin and draw them to repentance. We also pray for the baby who has been born into this situation. May this child be a reminder of Your redemptive power and a catalyst for change in the father’s life.
Lord, we know that nothing is impossible for You. We ask that You would move in mighty ways to bring healing, restoration, and peace to this family. Soften hearts, open eyes, and turn their focus toward You. May Your name be glorified in their lives, and may Your love be the foundation upon which they rebuild. We pray all of this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can come before You and the only name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). Without Jesus, there is no access to the Father, no forgiveness of sins, and no hope for true transformation. We declare that Your grace is sufficient for this family, and we trust in Your perfect plan for their lives. Amen.
We join you in lifting up this family to our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Our hearts ache for these two young girls who have been caught in the crossfire of their parents' ongoing conflict. We pray that God would wrap His loving arms around them, healing their wounds, and filling the void left by their parents' divorce. May they find comfort in His unfailing love and know that they are deeply cherished by Him.
We also pray for the parents involved. Lord, we ask that You would soften their hearts and bring them to a place of genuine repentance. Convict them of the harm they've caused their daughters and the ways in which their actions have dishonored You. We ask that You would humble them before You and before one another. If it is Your will, we pray for reconciliation, but even if not, we ask that they would at least lay down their weapons of words and actions that continue to wound their children.
We must also address the role of their public platform. Lord, we pray that You would silence their tongues from speaking evil and turn their hearts toward repentance. If they claim to follow You, Lord, let their actions reflect the fruit of the Spirit.
Father, we ask that You would raise up godly influences in the lives of this family. Surround them with believers who can speak truth in love, hold them accountable, and model what a Christ-centered family looks like. We pray for the new spouses and partners involved - give them wisdom to navigate this complex situation with grace and humility. And we pray for the baby born into this situation, may this child be a reminder of Your redemptive power and a catalyst for change in the father's life.
Lord, we know that nothing is impossible for You. We ask that You would move in mighty ways to bring healing, restoration, and peace to this family. Soften hearts, open eyes, and turn their focus toward You. May Your name be glorified in their lives, and may Your love be the foundation upon which they rebuild. We pray all of this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can come before You and the only name by which we can be saved. Without Jesus, there is no access to the Father, no forgiveness of sins, and no hope for true transformation. We declare that Your grace is sufficient for this family, and we trust in Your perfect plan for their lives. Amen.
We also pray for the parents involved. Lord, we ask that You would soften their hearts and bring them to a place of genuine repentance. Convict them of the harm they've caused their daughters and the ways in which their actions have dishonored You. We ask that You would humble them before You and before one another. If it is Your will, we pray for reconciliation, but even if not, we ask that they would at least lay down their weapons of words and actions that continue to wound their children.
We must also address the role of their public platform. Lord, we pray that You would silence their tongues from speaking evil and turn their hearts toward repentance. If they claim to follow You, Lord, let their actions reflect the fruit of the Spirit.
Father, we ask that You would raise up godly influences in the lives of this family. Surround them with believers who can speak truth in love, hold them accountable, and model what a Christ-centered family looks like. We pray for the new spouses and partners involved - give them wisdom to navigate this complex situation with grace and humility. And we pray for the baby born into this situation, may this child be a reminder of Your redemptive power and a catalyst for change in the father's life.
Lord, we know that nothing is impossible for You. We ask that You would move in mighty ways to bring healing, restoration, and peace to this family. Soften hearts, open eyes, and turn their focus toward You. May Your name be glorified in their lives, and may Your love be the foundation upon which they rebuild. We pray all of this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can come before You and the only name by which we can be saved. Without Jesus, there is no access to the Father, no forgiveness of sins, and no hope for true transformation. We declare that Your grace is sufficient for this family, and we trust in Your perfect plan for their lives. Amen.
Wingsofadove7
Humble Servant of All
Seek His Face and Presence not just His hand. In his Presence is everything you need. This does not mean you can have any material thing, perfect spouse because you asked for it in Jesus Christ name. You will have your needs, some of your wants, and difficult trials. The difficult trials are supposed to refine your character and make you more like Jesus. He is more interested in getting you to everlasting life and having your heart in the right place than he is in giving you gifts. It’s eternal life he’s concerned with.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Finding Life and Salvation in Christ: A Roadmap
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Finding Life and Salvation in Christ: A Roadmap
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
The Encourager
The Encourager
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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Jonathan_M
Beloved of All
Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.
We want to thank you for trusting us with the heavy burden on your heart concerning this custody battle and the ongoing conflict between these parents. It grieves us deeply to hear how this family has been torn apart by bitterness and strife, especially knowing the lasting impact it has on those precious daughters. We have continued to lift this situation before the Lord, asking Him to soften hardened hearts, break cycles of anger, and bring healing where there has been so much pain.
Father, we pray for these teenagers, that You would be their comfort, their stability, and their peace in the midst of this storm. Guard their hearts from resentment and help them to see Your love even when those around them are failing. We ask You to intervene in the lives of the parents—where there is pride, bring humility; where there is unforgiveness, bring repentance; and where there is division, bring unity under Your will. May Your Spirit move powerfully to restore what has been broken, not just for their sake, but for the sake of the children who need their parents to reflect Your grace.
If You have already begun to answer these prayers in ways we cannot yet see, we ask for eyes to recognize Your hand at work. And if the battle still rages, we stand with you in continued prayer, trusting that God is able to do immeasurably more than we ask or imagine. Please share an update when you’re able—we long to rejoice with you in God’s faithfulness or press in further on your behalf.
May the Lord bless you with His peace as you seek Him, and may His light shine into this darkness. We pray this in Jesus’ Name.
Father, we pray for these teenagers, that You would be their comfort, their stability, and their peace in the midst of this storm. Guard their hearts from resentment and help them to see Your love even when those around them are failing. We ask You to intervene in the lives of the parents—where there is pride, bring humility; where there is unforgiveness, bring repentance; and where there is division, bring unity under Your will. May Your Spirit move powerfully to restore what has been broken, not just for their sake, but for the sake of the children who need their parents to reflect Your grace.
If You have already begun to answer these prayers in ways we cannot yet see, we ask for eyes to recognize Your hand at work. And if the battle still rages, we stand with you in continued prayer, trusting that God is able to do immeasurably more than we ask or imagine. Please share an update when you’re able—we long to rejoice with you in God’s faithfulness or press in further on your behalf.
May the Lord bless you with His peace as you seek Him, and may His light shine into this darkness. We pray this in Jesus’ Name.
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