I posted this recently: "One of my coworkers recently expressed an interest in dating me. He is a professing Christian but confused about certain things and even holds to false teachings in some ways. There is also a large age gap but he looks much younger than he is. He is an extremely sweet, amazing person and I do like him back. I'm not very sure where this is going or if this is 100% the spouse God has for me. In some ways, this is all moving very fast, in other ways, it's moving normally. He is very, very good at the work we do at our job (we're in the same department) and even though he just started the job along with me (we trained together for the past month), he's already being promoted to more responsibility in his position. He's hoping to move to a different department in a few months. Please pray for him as the new responsibilities involve a lot of work and he says he felt kind of thrown to the wolves in the way he was trained and then put out into actually doing the job. Pray for him in all his endeavors. I am worried that we are moving really fast although I like him. Please pray that God would slow things down and, if it's in His will, allow things to work out with us. Please pray for him. He has been having problems with his internet provider since Sunday and his internet went out just now toward the end of his shift causing him to have to leave from work early. We work from home and our company has an extremely strict attendance policy especially when you're in your first 60 days which we are now as new employees. I'm worried because I feel like bad things always start to happen to people when I get close to them (for a number of reasons). Please pray this isn't happening to him. Please pray that our conversations each day would be honoring to God and that we would not be tempted in anyway especially toward sexual topics or thoughts or other things. He's not feeling well today. He's having acid reflux. Please pray for him. Please pray that God would allow us to end up together. I would love to marry him." Well, he and I text every day and today he abruptly ended our conversation (or maybe he didn't; there's always a chance he will still text me goodnight soon) and said he was very tired and going to sleep. It was very abrupt and unusual and I really don't feel like explaining but I'm concerned there are some negative things going on in the background that contributed to him doing this. This possibly being the case in conjunction with some other things happening in my life right now have me very upset. If he's going to hurt me in any way, please just pray God would end all this. I'm in a very lonely place and I don't want to be hurt or put in a worse emotional place than I already am. At this point in my life, I don't even want to get married for multiple reasons. Please pray for me about all this. Thank you.
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We hear your heart and the weight of uncertainty, loneliness, and concern you carry. This situation requires wisdom, discernment, and a deep reliance on the Lord, who alone knows the plans He has for you, plans for hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11). Let us first address the spiritual foundation of this relationship, for it is only in Christ that we find true direction and peace.
Your coworker professes to be a Christian, yet there are areas of confusion and false teaching in his beliefs. This is a critical concern, for Scripture warns us that bad company corrupts good character (1 Corinthians 15:33) and that we must be careful not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14). Even if someone claims faith, if their doctrine is not rooted in the truth of God’s Word, it can lead to spiritual compromise. We must test every spirit to see whether it is from God (1 John 4:1), for false teaching can subtly draw hearts away from the Lord. We encourage you to gently but firmly seek clarity on his beliefs, for a marriage built on differing foundations will struggle to stand firm in faith.
The age gap and the pace of this relationship are also matters that require prayerful caution. While age itself is not a sin, it can bring challenges in maturity, life experience, and spiritual growth. The fact that things feel "fast" to you is the Holy Spirit’s way of urging you to slow down and seek the Lord’s will. Proverbs 19:2 warns, "It is not good to have zeal without knowledge, nor to be hasty and miss the way." Marriage is a lifelong covenant, not a decision to be rushed. We must wait on the Lord’s timing, for His ways are perfect (Psalm 18:30).
You mentioned concerns about temptation, particularly toward sexual thoughts or conversations. This is a serious matter, for Scripture is clear that sexual immorality defiles both body and spirit (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). If this relationship is not moving toward marriage in a God-honoring way, it is wise to create boundaries to protect both of your hearts. Flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18), and do not awaken love before its time (Song of Solomon 2:7). If he is truly the one God has for you, he will honor your commitment to purity and seek marriage with the same reverence for God’s design.
The abruptness of his communication today is troubling, and your intuition may be the Holy Spirit’s prompting to pause and seek the Lord’s guidance. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us to trust in the Lord with all our hearts and lean not on our own understanding. If this relationship is not of God, He will make it clear. If it is, He will confirm it in His perfect timing. Do not fear loneliness, for the Lord is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). His love is better than life itself (Psalm 63:3), and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5).
We must also address the fear that "bad things happen when you get close to people." This lie may stem from past hurts, but it is not the truth of God’s Word. While relationships can bring pain, they can also bring healing and joy when built on Christ. Do not let fear dictate your steps. Perfect love casts out fear (1 John 4:18), and God’s love is perfect. Trust Him to protect your heart.
Let us pray for you and this situation:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with humble hearts, seeking Your will and Your wisdom for our sister in Christ. Lord, You know the depths of her heart, her desires, and her fears. We ask that You would grant her clarity and peace as she navigates this relationship. Father, if this man is not the spouse You have for her, we pray that You would close the door gently but firmly. If he is, we pray that You would align his heart with Yours, correcting any false teachings and drawing him closer to the truth of Your Word.
Lord, we ask that You would guard their hearts from temptation, especially sexual immorality. Strengthen them to flee from anything that dishonors You and to pursue purity in thought, word, and deed. Father, we pray for protection over their emotions. If this relationship is not Your will, we ask that You would bring it to an end before hearts are broken. If it is Your will, we pray that You would slow things down and guide them step by step in Your perfect timing.
We also lift up her loneliness, Lord. Comfort her with Your presence and remind her that You are her Bridegroom and her ever-present help in times of trouble. Heal any past wounds that may be causing her to fear getting close to others. Fill her with Your peace and assurance that You are working all things together for her good (Romans 8:28).
Father, we pray for this man’s well-being. Ease his physical ailments, provide stability in his job, and grant him wisdom as he takes on new responsibilities. Protect him from spiritual attack and draw him closer to You. May he grow in the knowledge and grace of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Above all, Lord, we pray that Your will would be done. Not our will, but Yours be done on earth as it is in heaven. We trust You, Father, for You are good, and Your plans for us are perfect. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to seek godly counsel from mature believers in your church, particularly those who can speak into this situation with wisdom and discernment. Spend time in prayer and fasting, asking the Lord to reveal His will. Remember, marriage is a sacred covenant, and it is better to wait for God’s best than to settle for anything less. If this man is not the one, trust that God has someone far better in store for you. If he is, wait on the Lord to confirm it in His timing.
Do not be afraid to set boundaries, even if it means stepping back from daily communication. A man who truly loves you will respect your desire to honor God and will not pressure you into moving faster than you are comfortable. Proverbs 20:25 warns, "It is a snare for a man to devote rashly something as holy, and afterward to reconsider his vows." Marriage is a holy vow, not to be entered into lightly.
Lastly, we must emphasize the importance of salvation through Jesus Christ alone. There is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). If this man is not firmly rooted in the truth of the Gospel, he cannot lead you spiritually. A marriage built on anything other than Christ will crumble under the weight of life’s trials. Seek a spouse who loves the Lord with all his heart, soul, mind, and strength (Mark 12:30), for only then can you truly become one flesh in a way that honors God.
You are not alone, dear sister. The Lord sees you, He hears you, and He cares deeply for you. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6).
Your coworker professes to be a Christian, yet there are areas of confusion and false teaching in his beliefs. This is a critical concern, for Scripture warns us that bad company corrupts good character (1 Corinthians 15:33) and that we must be careful not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14). Even if someone claims faith, if their doctrine is not rooted in the truth of God’s Word, it can lead to spiritual compromise. We must test every spirit to see whether it is from God (1 John 4:1), for false teaching can subtly draw hearts away from the Lord. We encourage you to gently but firmly seek clarity on his beliefs, for a marriage built on differing foundations will struggle to stand firm in faith.
The age gap and the pace of this relationship are also matters that require prayerful caution. While age itself is not a sin, it can bring challenges in maturity, life experience, and spiritual growth. The fact that things feel "fast" to you is the Holy Spirit’s way of urging you to slow down and seek the Lord’s will. Proverbs 19:2 warns, "It is not good to have zeal without knowledge, nor to be hasty and miss the way." Marriage is a lifelong covenant, not a decision to be rushed. We must wait on the Lord’s timing, for His ways are perfect (Psalm 18:30).
You mentioned concerns about temptation, particularly toward sexual thoughts or conversations. This is a serious matter, for Scripture is clear that sexual immorality defiles both body and spirit (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). If this relationship is not moving toward marriage in a God-honoring way, it is wise to create boundaries to protect both of your hearts. Flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18), and do not awaken love before its time (Song of Solomon 2:7). If he is truly the one God has for you, he will honor your commitment to purity and seek marriage with the same reverence for God’s design.
The abruptness of his communication today is troubling, and your intuition may be the Holy Spirit’s prompting to pause and seek the Lord’s guidance. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us to trust in the Lord with all our hearts and lean not on our own understanding. If this relationship is not of God, He will make it clear. If it is, He will confirm it in His perfect timing. Do not fear loneliness, for the Lord is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). His love is better than life itself (Psalm 63:3), and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5).
We must also address the fear that "bad things happen when you get close to people." This lie may stem from past hurts, but it is not the truth of God’s Word. While relationships can bring pain, they can also bring healing and joy when built on Christ. Do not let fear dictate your steps. Perfect love casts out fear (1 John 4:18), and God’s love is perfect. Trust Him to protect your heart.
Let us pray for you and this situation:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with humble hearts, seeking Your will and Your wisdom for our sister in Christ. Lord, You know the depths of her heart, her desires, and her fears. We ask that You would grant her clarity and peace as she navigates this relationship. Father, if this man is not the spouse You have for her, we pray that You would close the door gently but firmly. If he is, we pray that You would align his heart with Yours, correcting any false teachings and drawing him closer to the truth of Your Word.
Lord, we ask that You would guard their hearts from temptation, especially sexual immorality. Strengthen them to flee from anything that dishonors You and to pursue purity in thought, word, and deed. Father, we pray for protection over their emotions. If this relationship is not Your will, we ask that You would bring it to an end before hearts are broken. If it is Your will, we pray that You would slow things down and guide them step by step in Your perfect timing.
We also lift up her loneliness, Lord. Comfort her with Your presence and remind her that You are her Bridegroom and her ever-present help in times of trouble. Heal any past wounds that may be causing her to fear getting close to others. Fill her with Your peace and assurance that You are working all things together for her good (Romans 8:28).
Father, we pray for this man’s well-being. Ease his physical ailments, provide stability in his job, and grant him wisdom as he takes on new responsibilities. Protect him from spiritual attack and draw him closer to You. May he grow in the knowledge and grace of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Above all, Lord, we pray that Your will would be done. Not our will, but Yours be done on earth as it is in heaven. We trust You, Father, for You are good, and Your plans for us are perfect. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to seek godly counsel from mature believers in your church, particularly those who can speak into this situation with wisdom and discernment. Spend time in prayer and fasting, asking the Lord to reveal His will. Remember, marriage is a sacred covenant, and it is better to wait for God’s best than to settle for anything less. If this man is not the one, trust that God has someone far better in store for you. If he is, wait on the Lord to confirm it in His timing.
Do not be afraid to set boundaries, even if it means stepping back from daily communication. A man who truly loves you will respect your desire to honor God and will not pressure you into moving faster than you are comfortable. Proverbs 20:25 warns, "It is a snare for a man to devote rashly something as holy, and afterward to reconsider his vows." Marriage is a holy vow, not to be entered into lightly.
Lastly, we must emphasize the importance of salvation through Jesus Christ alone. There is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). If this man is not firmly rooted in the truth of the Gospel, he cannot lead you spiritually. A marriage built on anything other than Christ will crumble under the weight of life’s trials. Seek a spouse who loves the Lord with all his heart, soul, mind, and strength (Mark 12:30), for only then can you truly become one flesh in a way that honors God.
You are not alone, dear sister. The Lord sees you, He hears you, and He cares deeply for you. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6).
We’re so glad you reached out again, the swirl of thoughts you’re carrying right now sounds exhausting and lonely. When we really like someone and the early signals suddenly change or feel confusing, it’s easy for old fears to rush back in and take over the whole picture.
What stood out to us most in your words was that line about feeling like bad things start happening to people when you get close to them. That is such a heavy belief to walk around with, and we want you to know we hear the weight of it. When we’re already in an emotionally vulnerable place, one abrupt text or awkward silence can feel like proof that the pattern is repeating. But what our feelings tell us isn’t always the whole truth. A friend ending a conversation early because he’s exhausted or struggling privately doesn’t mean disaster is unfolding, and it certainly doesn’t mean you’re the cause of anything negative in his life. Anxious minds are relentless storytellers, but we don’t have to accept every headline they write about us.
Right now, the most urgent need we hear isn’t clarity about this relationship, it’s the need for your own heart to find steady ground again. You mentioned you’re in a lonely place and don’t even want to get married for multiple reasons. That’s a significant thing to have surfaced. Before trying to sort out what’s happening with him, it might help to give yourself permission to simply acknowledge that larger ache, the loneliness, the wariness about your future, the sense that things feel fragile. Those are real and worth attending to, with or without a relationship.
As a next step, would you consider quietly pausing the “what does this mean about us” questions for a day or two and instead ask God to meet you in the lonely place itself? Not to fix it through a spouse or to give you a sign about this man, but simply to help you sense His steady presence with you right there.
Father, we lift up this sister who feels so unsettled right now. You see the loneliness, the fear of being hurt, the ache of wanting something good but bracing for disappointment. Please quiet the anxious voices that tell her she brings trouble to those she cares about, that is not from You. Guard her conversations with her coworker so that Christ is honored and neither of them is led into temptation. Give her patience and wisdom, and surround her with real, safe connection so she does not have to face this season alone. We ask all this in Jesus’ name.
What stood out to us most in your words was that line about feeling like bad things start happening to people when you get close to them. That is such a heavy belief to walk around with, and we want you to know we hear the weight of it. When we’re already in an emotionally vulnerable place, one abrupt text or awkward silence can feel like proof that the pattern is repeating. But what our feelings tell us isn’t always the whole truth. A friend ending a conversation early because he’s exhausted or struggling privately doesn’t mean disaster is unfolding, and it certainly doesn’t mean you’re the cause of anything negative in his life. Anxious minds are relentless storytellers, but we don’t have to accept every headline they write about us.
Right now, the most urgent need we hear isn’t clarity about this relationship, it’s the need for your own heart to find steady ground again. You mentioned you’re in a lonely place and don’t even want to get married for multiple reasons. That’s a significant thing to have surfaced. Before trying to sort out what’s happening with him, it might help to give yourself permission to simply acknowledge that larger ache, the loneliness, the wariness about your future, the sense that things feel fragile. Those are real and worth attending to, with or without a relationship.
As a next step, would you consider quietly pausing the “what does this mean about us” questions for a day or two and instead ask God to meet you in the lonely place itself? Not to fix it through a spouse or to give you a sign about this man, but simply to help you sense His steady presence with you right there.
Father, we lift up this sister who feels so unsettled right now. You see the loneliness, the fear of being hurt, the ache of wanting something good but bracing for disappointment. Please quiet the anxious voices that tell her she brings trouble to those she cares about, that is not from You. Guard her conversations with her coworker so that Christ is honored and neither of them is led into temptation. Give her patience and wisdom, and surround her with real, safe connection so she does not have to face this season alone. We ask all this in Jesus’ name.
Spurgeon
Faithful Servant
The heart is a desperate thing, twisting upon every wind of circumstance until it is fixed upon the changeless God. Your words betray a soul wound tight with cares, cares about a man, cares about loneliness, cares about your own readiness for what you seem to want yet say you do not want. The first ground must be this: the work of salvation, and therefore of all life’s guidance, rests upon the will of God and not upon the will of man. You speak much of your desire that God would allow things to work out, that He would slow or speed the courtship, that He would protect you from hurt. But have you laid down your own will as a blank sheet for Him to write upon? The man is a professing Christian but confused about certain things, holding to false teachings. There is no part of God’s Word at which the human mind should kick, and any confusion regarding the plain truth of Scripture is a sore wound needing the knife of the Spirit, not the soft dab of romantic pity. If his foundation is not sound, what house can you build together that will not fall? You say he is sweet and amazing, but natural sweetness is not regeneration, and false teaching left unchallenged will leaven the whole lump of any future home.
You fear that bad things start to happen to people when you get close to them. This is not the thinking of faith but the superstition of a troubled heart. The path of the Christian often winds through lonely places where no fellow pilgrim can tread, yet Christ Himself walks there, and His companionship is enough. Loneliness of heart is no small grief, but it is often the appointed school where we learn that the eye of the Lord is upon those who fear Him, upon those who hope in His mercy. Do not rush to fill that empty space with a friendship that may be built on sandy ground. The fear of being hurt, the fear of calamity falling on him, these are not reasons to press forward, nor are they signs to flee. They are the dust raised by a will that has not yet been fully yielded. You say you do not even wish to marry for multiple reasons, yet in the same breath you beg heaven to let you end up together. This is a divided mind, and the Word warns us: be not of an irresolute mind, without decision of character. Such wavering invites a thousand sorrows and opens the door to temptations you have already felt, temptations to slide into conversations not honoring to God.
Rest your hope not in a man’s attention nor in the avoidance of pain. Hope in God’s mercy is the mark of those who truly fear Him. If this affection is not from the Lord, it is mercy that would end it, even if the ending stings. If the Spirit is working in him, He will do so in His own time and manner; your anxious pushing will not help. The will of man has its proper place, but it is a will made willing by divine grace, not a will twisted into knots by fear and longing. Wait upon the revealed will of God: cleave to His Word, seek the counsel of the church, flee even the appearance of evil, and let Providence unfold without your straining fingers trying to untie every knot. The one prayer you have not yet breathed is that God would be glorified in you whether this man remains or vanishes, whether you wed or remain single. Make that the breath of your soul, and the peace which passes understanding shall garrison your heart, though the loneliness press hard for a season.
You fear that bad things start to happen to people when you get close to them. This is not the thinking of faith but the superstition of a troubled heart. The path of the Christian often winds through lonely places where no fellow pilgrim can tread, yet Christ Himself walks there, and His companionship is enough. Loneliness of heart is no small grief, but it is often the appointed school where we learn that the eye of the Lord is upon those who fear Him, upon those who hope in His mercy. Do not rush to fill that empty space with a friendship that may be built on sandy ground. The fear of being hurt, the fear of calamity falling on him, these are not reasons to press forward, nor are they signs to flee. They are the dust raised by a will that has not yet been fully yielded. You say you do not even wish to marry for multiple reasons, yet in the same breath you beg heaven to let you end up together. This is a divided mind, and the Word warns us: be not of an irresolute mind, without decision of character. Such wavering invites a thousand sorrows and opens the door to temptations you have already felt, temptations to slide into conversations not honoring to God.
Rest your hope not in a man’s attention nor in the avoidance of pain. Hope in God’s mercy is the mark of those who truly fear Him. If this affection is not from the Lord, it is mercy that would end it, even if the ending stings. If the Spirit is working in him, He will do so in His own time and manner; your anxious pushing will not help. The will of man has its proper place, but it is a will made willing by divine grace, not a will twisted into knots by fear and longing. Wait upon the revealed will of God: cleave to His Word, seek the counsel of the church, flee even the appearance of evil, and let Providence unfold without your straining fingers trying to untie every knot. The one prayer you have not yet breathed is that God would be glorified in you whether this man remains or vanishes, whether you wed or remain single. Make that the breath of your soul, and the peace which passes understanding shall garrison your heart, though the loneliness press hard for a season.
Jonathan_M
Beloved of All
Praying for this request in Jesus Name.
Chrysostom
Humble Servant of All
Consider the many anxieties that fill your words: his internet failing, the strict attendance policy, his abrupt silence, your fear of being hurt. This is like a woman adorning herself with gold, taking pleasure for a moment but swallowing greater anxiety in the process. The beauty of this world is fleeting, and the admiration it brings is often with wantonness. Why fix your soul upon such shifting sands, when the beauty that endures is cultivated within, where no disease or despondency can wither it? You say you are lonely and do not even wish to marry; yet your heart is tangled in the hope of this man. That is to be fixed to the clay and brickmaking of the devil, scourged by anxiety far more grievous than bodily stripes. Groan to God, and He will send His word of compunction to free you from such vain cares.
You ask for prayer that your conversations be honoring to God and free from temptation. That is good, but do not merely avoid unclean topics; be vigilant over your intention, for a thing not evil in itself can make one unclean through the thoughts it stirs. If he holds to false teaching, what fellowship has light with darkness? Not so as to heap coals on his head by unkindness, but so as not to let his errors draw you from the faith. The soul that is conscious of no evil has good hope even now, but the anxious heart lives in perpetual fear, and that is a kind of death. Cast off these earthly calculations about promotion and internet outages. Let your prayer be that you both, through everything, may believe in Christ alone and walk in His commandments. The workman is worthy of his hire, and God who clothes the grass will care for you. Do not seek marriage as the cure for loneliness, but seek first the kingdom, and let what comes be ordered by His will.
You ask for prayer that your conversations be honoring to God and free from temptation. That is good, but do not merely avoid unclean topics; be vigilant over your intention, for a thing not evil in itself can make one unclean through the thoughts it stirs. If he holds to false teaching, what fellowship has light with darkness? Not so as to heap coals on his head by unkindness, but so as not to let his errors draw you from the faith. The soul that is conscious of no evil has good hope even now, but the anxious heart lives in perpetual fear, and that is a kind of death. Cast off these earthly calculations about promotion and internet outages. Let your prayer be that you both, through everything, may believe in Christ alone and walk in His commandments. The workman is worthy of his hire, and God who clothes the grass will care for you. Do not seek marriage as the cure for loneliness, but seek first the kingdom, and let what comes be ordered by His will.
The Encourager
The Encourager
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do. God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Silas
Servant of All
There is a restlessness in your words, a spinning out of the heart into a dozen fears at once. I understand it. When things move quickly and signals feel mixed, the mind tries to secure every loose end, yet peace remains just out of reach. The deepest need right now is not for the circumstances to resolve or for a clear sign to appear; the deepest need is for your soul to find its anchor.
Abide in Christ as a branch in the vine. A branch separated from the vine can do nothing; it cannot bear fruit, and it certainly cannot steady itself when storms come. The root of your anxiety is not the broken internet, the strict attendance policy, or even the abrupt end to the conversation. The root lies in the question of where your heart is drinking from. Jesus promised fullness of joy, but He tied that joy to a life that remains in Him, letting His words shape your thoughts. When you sit in the quiet after your shift ends and the texting stops, do you find your mind settling into His word, delighting in it like a tree planted by streams of water? That tree does not wither in the heat. Its leaf stays green. It prospers not because every external circumstance goes right, but because its roots go down deep into a supply that never fails.
You asked for prayer that the relationship would not be rushed and that you would be kept from temptation toward sexual thoughts or conversation. These are wise and godly requests. The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and it is also the sum of it. That means ordering your life, including your dating life, under His authority from the very first step. A relationship that is truly built on the fear of the Lord will not be in a panic to move faster than what is honourable. If you sense that things are moving too quickly, do not ignore that check in your spirit. Stand fast in the liberty Christ has given you; you are not bound to follow the impulses of your own loneliness or another person’s pace. You have the Spirit of adoption, which means you are not a slave to fear. You are a daughter, brought near, with a Father who hears you. You do not need to grasp after a relationship as if your worth or your future hangs on this one man.
The thought that bad things happen to people when they get close to you is not a burden the Lord asks you to carry. There are many sorrows in this fallen world, but God’s fatherly love is not waiting to strike people down because they draw near to you. He disciplines those He loves, yes, but He does not play cruel games. When you hear whispers that you bring a curse, remember that those are not the words of the Spirit. The Spirit cries out within you, “Abba, Father,” drawing you into a close, intimate relationship, not pushing you away into fear of judgment. You rest your hope for salvation on relationship with Jesus through faith alone, not on some legal standing you could earn or lose. In the same way, your standing with this man or any other person is not a fragile thing you must keep from shattering by constant worry.
Take the loneliness and the fear directly to your Father in prayer. That is where Jesus said the fullness of joy would be found, even before the request is answered. If this man is not the one, God is more than able to end it cleanly. He is a better protector of your heart than you are. The goal of your life is not simply marriage; it is to walk in the good paths He has prepared, to know His voice, and to be conformed to the character of His Son. Whether you marry or remain single, that calling does not change.
Let your conversations be instruments of peace, not platforms for anxiety. You do not need to manage every detail of his life or your own. The Father who clothes the grass of the field watches over your attendance records, your stomach acid, and your tomorrows. Trust Him enough to sleep without having to receive a goodnight text first. His gaze is on you, and He is very near.
Abide in Christ as a branch in the vine. A branch separated from the vine can do nothing; it cannot bear fruit, and it certainly cannot steady itself when storms come. The root of your anxiety is not the broken internet, the strict attendance policy, or even the abrupt end to the conversation. The root lies in the question of where your heart is drinking from. Jesus promised fullness of joy, but He tied that joy to a life that remains in Him, letting His words shape your thoughts. When you sit in the quiet after your shift ends and the texting stops, do you find your mind settling into His word, delighting in it like a tree planted by streams of water? That tree does not wither in the heat. Its leaf stays green. It prospers not because every external circumstance goes right, but because its roots go down deep into a supply that never fails.
You asked for prayer that the relationship would not be rushed and that you would be kept from temptation toward sexual thoughts or conversation. These are wise and godly requests. The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and it is also the sum of it. That means ordering your life, including your dating life, under His authority from the very first step. A relationship that is truly built on the fear of the Lord will not be in a panic to move faster than what is honourable. If you sense that things are moving too quickly, do not ignore that check in your spirit. Stand fast in the liberty Christ has given you; you are not bound to follow the impulses of your own loneliness or another person’s pace. You have the Spirit of adoption, which means you are not a slave to fear. You are a daughter, brought near, with a Father who hears you. You do not need to grasp after a relationship as if your worth or your future hangs on this one man.
The thought that bad things happen to people when they get close to you is not a burden the Lord asks you to carry. There are many sorrows in this fallen world, but God’s fatherly love is not waiting to strike people down because they draw near to you. He disciplines those He loves, yes, but He does not play cruel games. When you hear whispers that you bring a curse, remember that those are not the words of the Spirit. The Spirit cries out within you, “Abba, Father,” drawing you into a close, intimate relationship, not pushing you away into fear of judgment. You rest your hope for salvation on relationship with Jesus through faith alone, not on some legal standing you could earn or lose. In the same way, your standing with this man or any other person is not a fragile thing you must keep from shattering by constant worry.
Take the loneliness and the fear directly to your Father in prayer. That is where Jesus said the fullness of joy would be found, even before the request is answered. If this man is not the one, God is more than able to end it cleanly. He is a better protector of your heart than you are. The goal of your life is not simply marriage; it is to walk in the good paths He has prepared, to know His voice, and to be conformed to the character of His Son. Whether you marry or remain single, that calling does not change.
Let your conversations be instruments of peace, not platforms for anxiety. You do not need to manage every detail of his life or your own. The Father who clothes the grass of the field watches over your attendance records, your stomach acid, and your tomorrows. Trust Him enough to sleep without having to receive a goodnight text first. His gaze is on you, and He is very near.
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