Coping after

[Anonymous]

abuse. It seems like the love of many has grown cold. I’ve been through abuse although some people have been through WORSE. I vill never be the same again. My soul is broken and I don’t think it can be fixed. I lost my job and am no looking forward to working with too many people again. Too much bullying in the workplace these days. Getting massive headaches from the stress of being unemployed and job positions slipping out of my hands after applying. Tired of wicked predators and gang stalkers. Father I ask thee in Jesus name to grab my hand before I sink. Help. The doors are closed. No opportunities are open yet for working. Well I’ll just have to find a shelter to live in.

 

[Abundantly blessed]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[jcjcpurple]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We hear the deep pain and despair in your words, and our hearts ache with you, for the wounds of abuse run soul-deep, and the betrayal of those who should have shown love but instead grew cold is a burden no one should bear alone. Yet we must speak truth in love: though your soul feels broken beyond repair, the God who formed you in your mother’s womb is the same God who specializes in redeeming what is shattered. He does not discard the crushed in spirit—He draws near to them (Psalm 34:18). You are not defined by what was stolen from you, but by the One who calls you His own.

The evil you’ve endured—abuse, predatory wickedness, even the torment of gang stalking—is an assault from the enemy of your soul, who seeks to destroy. But Jesus came to *bind up the brokenhearted* and *proclaim liberty to captives* (Isaiah 61:1). Your cry for help has reached the ears of the Lord, and He is not distant. He sees the doors closed before you, the headaches from stress, the fear of homelessness, and the exhaustion of fighting alone. Yet even now, He is working what the enemy meant for evil into a testimony of His faithfulness (Genesis 50:20).

We must gently but firmly address this: your statement that you’ll "just have to find a shelter" reveals a spirit of resignation, as if God’s provision has limits. But our Father owns *every* shelter, *every* job, *every* resource—and He has promised to supply *all* your needs according to His riches in glory (Philippians 4:19). Do not surrender to fear. Instead, lift your eyes above the closed doors and declare with the psalmist: *"The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want"* (Psalm 23:1). He has not abandoned you, even when the wait feels unbearable.

As for the love of many growing cold—this, too, was prophesied (Matthew 24:12). The world’s cruelty is evidence of its brokenness, not your worth. But you are *not* without a family. The body of Christ is called to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2), and we stand with you now in prayer, asking the Lord to surround you with godly, trustworthy believers who will walk alongside you in this season. Isolation is a tool of the enemy; community is God’s design for healing.

We also urge you: if you have not already, seek biblical counseling from a pastor or Christian therapist trained in trauma care. The Lord often uses His people as instruments of healing, and professional support is not a lack of faith but wisdom (Proverbs 11:14). Additionally, guard your mind against the lies that you are unfixable or that your future is hopeless. *"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope"* (Jeremiah 29:11).

Now, let us pray over you with the authority of Christ:

Heavenly Father, we lift our brother/sister before Your throne of grace, where mercy flows freely. Lord, You see the depth of their pain—the abuse that has left scars unseen, the betrayal that has made trust feel impossible, the financial despair that whispers lies of abandonment. But You, O God, are the *restorer of souls* (Psalm 23:3). We ask You to bind up every wound, to replace every lie with Your truth, and to flood their heart with the knowledge that they are *loved* by You, not for what they’ve done or endured, but because of who You are.

Father, we rebuke the spirit of fear, depression, and resignation that has sought to take root. By the blood of Jesus, we break every chain of trauma, every stronghold of anxiety over provision, and every scheme of the enemy to keep them in bondage to the past. Lord, open doors *no man can shut* (Revelation 3:8)—divine connections for employment, godly friendships, and a community that will reflect Your love tangibly. Provide supernaturally for their needs, whether through a job, unexpected resources, or creative solutions only You can orchestrate.

Heal their body, Lord—relieve the headaches and physical stress, and restore strength to their bones. Let them *taste and see that You are good* (Psalm 34:8), even in this wilderness season. And Father, if there is any bitterness or unforgiveness toward those who harmed them, we ask You to uproot it by Your Spirit. Replace it with Your peace, which surpasses understanding (Philippians 4:7).

Most of all, Lord, let them *feel* Your presence. Remind them that You are *Emmanuel*—God *with* them—even in the darkest valley (Psalm 23:4). Give them dreams and visions of Your love, songs in the night (Job 35:10), and a *hope* that anchors their soul (Hebrews 6:19).

We declare that their story is not over. What was meant to destroy them will become a testimony of Your redemption. You are making all things new (Revelation 21:5), and we trust You to complete the good work You’ve begun in them (Philippians 1:6).

In the mighty, matchless name of *Jesus Christ*, our Healer and Provider, we pray. Amen.

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Stand firm, beloved. The night is darkest before dawn, but *joy comes in the morning* (Psalm 30:5). Keep seeking the Lord, even when it’s hard. Read His Word daily—let it be a lamp to your feet (Psalm 119:105). And remember: you are *not* defined by what was done to you, but by the One who *overcame* the grave for you. He is your vindicator, your provider, and your ever-present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1).

If you’re able, worship in this storm. Put on praise music and let the truth of who God is break the heaviness over you. And reach out to a local church—many have benevolence ministries to help with practical needs. You are *not* alone. We are standing with you in faith.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, friend. We feel your pain, the weight of the closed doors, the stress of unemployment, and the fear of uncertainty. But remember, even in the darkest night, God is near. He sees you, He hears you, and He's working behind the scenes.

We want to encourage you, as brothers and sisters in Christ, to keep your eyes fixed on Jesus. He is the author and finisher of your faith, and He will not leave you nor forsake you. Trust in Him, even when it's hard, even when you can't see the way forward.

Keep seeking God's face, spend time in His word, and let it be a lamp to your feet. Worship Him in this storm, put on praise music, and let the truth of who God is break the heaviness over you. Reach out to a local church, many have benevolence ministries that can help with practical needs. You are not alone.

We're standing with you in faith, believing that God will open doors that no man can shut, that He will provide for your needs, and that He will heal your broken heart. Trust in His goodness, and remember, joy comes in the morning. Keep holding on, friend. We're praying for you.

 

[Crachithor]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[flora]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Brother James]

abuse. It seems like the love of many has grown cold. I’ve been through abuse although some people have been through WORSE. I vill never be the same again. My soul is broken and I don’t think it can be fixed. I lost my job and am no looking forward to working with too many people again. Too much bullying in the workplace these days. Getting massive headaches from the stress of being unemployed and job positions slipping out of my hands after applying. Tired of wicked predators and gang stalkers. Father I ask thee in Jesus name to grab my hand before I sink. Help. The doors are closed. No opportunities are open yet for working. Well I’ll just have to find a shelter to live in.

Praying for you and your request in Jesus. Have we ever really meditated on Matthew 6 where Jesus instructs us to take no thought for our lives? I have looked at this in terms of the rest of the Bible where I have learned to claim His Promises in Jesus and take on His thoughts for my life. Thank You Lord Jesus for Blessing me to learn to stop thinking about my life, learn to take on Your thoughts for my life and so much more for Your Glory and my good in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Jesus! Glory to You Lord Jesus!!!

Do you Believe Jesus died for our sins, is Risen from the dead, is Preparing a place for us and is about to call us to join Him?

Are you watching for Jesus in the Clouds of Glory? Jesus is about to call us to join Him!

We can do everything Jesus did and more! We can speak; sickness leave in Jesus! Be healed by Jesus stripes! I am healed by Jesus stripes! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

You can copy and paste this to pray every day and share...

There is nothing that happens for us that is bad except our thoughts about what is happening to us. The Bible says All things work together for our good in Jesus! Look at everything as good!

Sing through out your days Thank You Jesus, Praise You Jesus, Glory to You Lord Jesus or anything that is on your heart to sing to Jesus! It doesn't matter how we sound, Angels will join in with us and Jesus will join in with us as well as fight for us, knock down walls for us, open locks for us, save people for us, evil will flee from us, He heals us and He will over flow His Holy Peace in us.

Praying for others on here and reading your Bible will help you tremendously.

I wanted to commit suicide once, I even came up with a plan. Right before I headed out the door I posted a prayer on here and hoping there might be help from God one last time I opened the Bible and only read take no thought for your life from Matthew 6. I read that before at least 100 times but never really could understand how. This time I took it to heart, all right God I will end my life by not thinking about it. I take no thought, I take no thought, I take no thought over and over and over again I take no thought was my only thought that day. All of a sudden I noticed something, Jesus showed up, all my pains were gone, no neck ache, no back pain, no leg pain from many many accidents I had over the years and no pain in my heart as my wife had left me. I started singing praises and thanks to Jesus and my life has never been the same. My wife returned. It is our obedience to God from His Holy Instructions that makes a difference to His Power of His Promises in our lives.

Be a doer of Jesus friend, it really makes a difference! Thank You Lord Jesus! All things work together for my good in Jesus!

Search the Bible for Jesus' Promises friend, do them and claim them in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus! Glory to You Lord Jesus!!!

Powerful healing promise hidden in Proverbs 3:7-8, I am not wise in my own eyes, I fear You Lord, I depart from evil, especially my own evil thoughts and my flesh is healed and my body is refreshed in Jesus.

Praying for others especially in your situation will help you tremendously in yours friend.

Take no thought for your life dear friend and Jesus will take thought for you. Sing praises and thanks to Jesus and He will overflow His Holy Spirit in you and so much more. He will fight for you and give you the desires of your heart.

Pray this prayer look up the verses and pray it again with your friends and family and let's mount up with wings as eagles and soar. Soar with me.

Let Us Pray: God I ask in Jesus' name, bless me to grow closer to You. I long for a more intimate relationship with You. God I take You at Your Word, if I will draw closer to You, You will draw closer to me (James 4:8). Show me how to draw closer to You. Bless me daily to cast off and forsake my thoughts and ways for my life, and exchange them for Your thoughts and ways for my life. Let me think Your thoughts and dream Your dreams for my life. God bless me to live and walk in Your love, mercy and forgiveness (Isaiah 55:7). I confess, I will take no thought for my life. I will trust You Father God to take thought for me and take care of me (Mathew 6:25-34). I will not be wise in my own eyes, I will fear You Lord and depart from evil and my flesh will be healed and my body will be refreshed (Proverbs 3:7-8) daily. Thank You Jesus for Your Promises! Lord make me the Child of God You need me to be in Christ for all those around me and for the world to see (Psalms 128:3). Not by my might, nor by my power, but by Your Spirt Christ Jesus (Zechariah 4:6) this shall happen. And it will happen, it is happening now in Your timing, Power, Strength, Might, and Spirit, Christ Jesus. God all that I have asked of you in this prayer please do the same for all those I love, care about, and every faithful prayer warrior on this site. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Lord Jesus, my Savior and Lord for answering this prayer with a Yes and Amen.

Bless us to sing praises and thanks to You Lord Jesus so You can fill us with the wine of the Spirit in Jesus Name, Amen.