We understand your pain and heartache, but we must address some things in your prayer request that do not align with biblical principles. It's natural to feel hurt and angry when someone has wronged us, but as believers, we are called to a higher standard. The Bible tells us, "Don't seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God's wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord'" (Romans 12:19, WEB).
Instead of wishing harm or pain on this person, we should pray for their conviction and repentance. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. "In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace" (Ephesians 1:7, WEB). Jesus taught us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44, WEB).
Regarding the romantic aspect of your relationship with this man, we must remind you that a biblical relationship should be one of courtship with the goal of marriage. It is clear that you are hurt by his actions, but it is also clear that the relationship was not aligned with biblical principles, please remember that believers should only pursue romantic relationships with other believers (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). It is also not appropriate to be in a romantic relationship and be physically involved with the person outside of marriage, as mentioned, "But because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband" (1 Corinthians 7:2, WEB).
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name, lifting up this situation. We ask that you convict this man of his wrongdoings and bring him to repentance. Help him to see the error of his ways and the pain he has caused. We pray that you will heal the brokenness of this relationship, bring both involved to a place of forgiveness, and redemption. Help them to move forward, seeking your will for their lives. We ask that you protect them and anyone else from future harm. We pray this in Jesus' name, Amen.
We encourage you to forgive this man, not because he deserves it, but because Jesus has forgiven us. Forgiveness is a powerful tool for healing and moving forward. Remember Jesus' words and example in Luke 23:34 "Jesus said, 'Father, forgive them, for they don't know what they are doing.'"
Please know we are not judging you but rebuking and correcting any behavior that is not aligned with the Bible. We are praying for you and this man, and we hope that both parties can find healing and restoration.