We come before the Lord with you in this time of deep struggle, lifting your heart’s cry to the Father who sees all and knows all. It is clear that you are facing oppression, manipulation, and spiritual darkness at the hands of someone who seeks to dominate and diminish you. We stand with you in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, who has already overcome the powers of darkness, and we declare that no weapon formed against you shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). The Lord is your defender, and He will not allow the enemy to triumph over His child.
First, we must address the fact that you mentioned the name of Jesus Christ in your request, and we praise God for this. It is only through the name of Jesus that we have authority over the enemy and access to the throne of grace. As Scripture declares, *"There is no other name under heaven that has been given among men, by which we must be saved"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). If you have not yet surrendered your life fully to Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. Confess your sins, repent, and place your trust in Him alone for salvation. *"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9, WEB). Without Christ, we are powerless against the schemes of the enemy, but in Him, we are more than conquerors.
Now, let us speak truth into your situation. The control you are experiencing is not of God. The Lord does not operate in manipulation, secrecy, or financial abuse. *"For God is not a God of confusion, but of peace"* (1 Corinthians 14:33, WEB). What you are describing—being denied access to finances, being brought low intentionally, and living under someone’s oppressive control—is a form of bondage, and Jesus came to set the captives free (Luke 4:18). The Bible warns us about those who seek to dominate others for their own gain: *"Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly are ravening wolves"* (Matthew 7:15, WEB). Even if this person is not a false prophet, their actions reflect the spirit of control, which is not of the Lord.
Financially, Scripture is clear that a husband (if this is your spouse) is to provide for his household and not withhold good from those under his care. *"But if anyone doesn’t provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever"* (1 Timothy 5:8, WEB). If this is not your spouse but another figure in your life, their actions are still unbiblical and harmful. The Lord calls His people to love, generosity, and mutual submission—not domination. *"Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of Christ"* (Ephesians 5:21, WEB). What you are experiencing is not submission; it is oppression, and God sees it.
We also note that you used "###" in place of identifying this person. While we understand the need for discretion, we encourage you to bring this fully into the light before the Lord. Darkness cannot stand in the presence of light, and secrecy often empowers the enemy’s work. *"But all things, when they are reproved, are revealed by the light, for everything that reveals is light. Therefore he says, 'Awake, you who sleep, and arise from the dead, and Christ will shine on you'"*(Ephesians 5:13-14, WEB). We pray that the Lord exposes every hidden scheme, every lie, and every manipulative tactic being used against you. May the truth come to light, and may the enemy’s plans be thwarted in Jesus’ name.
If this person is your spouse, we must address the gravity of this situation. Marriage is meant to reflect Christ’s love for the Church—a love that is sacrificial, protective, and nurturing. *"Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it"* (Ephesians 5:25, WEB). What you are describing is not love; it is abuse. If you are in an unsafe situation, we urge you to seek godly counsel and protection immediately. The Lord does not call you to remain in harm’s way. *"Rescue the perishing! Don’t say, 'Look, that’s not my responsibility.'"*(Proverbs 24:11, WEB). Reach out to trusted believers, pastors, or Christian organizations that can help you navigate this safely.
If this is not your spouse but another figure (such as a parent, relative, or authority figure), the principle remains: no one has the right to control or harm you in this way. The Lord calls His children to walk in freedom, not bondage. *"For you, brothers, were called for freedom. Only don’t use your freedom for gain to the flesh, but through love be servants to one another"* (Galatians 5:13, WEB). You are not called to be a servant to someone’s sinful control—you are called to serve the Lord in freedom and love.
Now, let us pray over you and this situation with the authority given to us in Christ Jesus:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Your beloved child who is crying out for deliverance. Lord, You see the oppression, the manipulation, and the financial abuse they are suffering. You know the name and the heart of the one who seeks to control and diminish them. We ask that You expose every hidden thing, every lie, and every scheme of the enemy. Bring to light what has been done in darkness, Lord. Let the truth prevail, and let Your justice roll down like waters (Amos 5:24).
Father, we rebuke the spirit of control, manipulation, and oppression in the name of Jesus. We bind every demonic influence that is fueling this behavior, and we command it to flee in Jesus’ name. No weapon formed against Your child shall prosper. Every tongue that rises against them in judgment, You shall condemn (Isaiah 54:17). Lord, break the chains of financial bondage. Provide for Your child supernaturally, as You provided manna in the wilderness and ravens to feed Elijah. Open doors no man can shut, and let Your abundance flow into their life (Revelation 3:8).
We pray for wisdom and discernment for this beloved one. Give them clarity on the steps to take, Lord. If they need to seek help, provide godly counselors and protectors. If they need to separate themselves from this toxic control, give them the courage and the means to do so safely. Surround them with Your angels, Lord, and let them dwell in the secret place of the Most High (Psalm 91:1).
Father, we also pray for the one who is inflicting this harm. If they are unsaved, Lord, convict their heart and draw them to repentance. If they are a believer, expose the sin in their life and bring them to godly sorrow that leads to repentance (2 Corinthians 7:10). Break the hardness of their heart, Lord, and let them see the damage they are causing. Soften them, Lord, and turn their heart toward righteousness.
Most of all, Father, we ask that You heal the wounds of this Your child. Restore their dignity, their confidence, and their trust in You. Let them know that they are not forgotten, that You see their tears, and that You are their Provider, Protector, and Deliverer. Fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding, and let them walk in the freedom for which Christ set them free (Galatians 5:1).
We declare victory in this situation, Lord. We speak life, freedom, and restoration in Jesus’ name. Let Your will be done, and let Your kingdom come in this circumstance. We thank You, Father, for hearing our prayer and for moving on behalf of Your child. In the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
Beloved, we want to encourage you to stand firm in the Lord. Do not allow the enemy to fill you with fear or despair. The Lord is your strength and your shield (Psalm 28:7). Keep seeking Him in prayer, in His Word, and in the company of godly believers. If you are not already in a Bible-believing church, we urge you to find one where you can be supported and nourished spiritually. You are not alone in this fight.
Finally, we leave you with this promise: *"The Lord also will be a high tower for the oppressed; a high tower in times of trouble. Those who know your name will put their trust in you, for you, Lord, have not forsaken those who seek you"* (Psalm 9:9-10, WEB). Keep seeking Him, and He will deliver you. Stay strong in the Lord, and do not waver in faith. He is faithful, and He will do it (1 Thessalonians 5:24).
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
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