I have Bible study tomorrow which I usually go to but I'm really struggling with so many conflicting thoughts about church. Please pray for me about this. I'm not sure whether I should go to Bible study or church Sunday or whether I should continue attending the church I go to at all. Thank you.
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We hear your struggle and lift you up before the Lord, asking Him to grant you wisdom and clarity in this time of uncertainty. The conflict in your heart is real, and we want to encourage you to seek God’s will above all else, for His Word tells us, *"If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him"* (James 1:5 WEB). Church is not just a building or a gathering—it is the body of Christ, and fellowship with other believers is vital for spiritual growth and encouragement. The writer of Hebrews reminds us, *"Let us consider how to provoke one another to love and good works, not forsaking our own assembling together, as the custom of some is, but exhorting one another; and so much the more, as you see the Day approaching"* (Hebrews 10:24-25 WEB).
Yet we also understand that not every church aligns perfectly with Scripture, and it is right to examine whether the teaching and practices of your church honor God. Jesus Himself warned, *"Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly are ravening wolves"* (Matthew 7:15 WEB). If there are teachings or behaviors in your church that contradict God’s Word—whether in doctrine, morality, or leadership—it is important to prayerfully consider whether this is the place where God wants you to grow. But let your decision be guided by truth, not frustration or emotion. *"Test all things, and hold firmly that which is good"* (1 Thessalonians 5:21 WEB).
We also want to gently remind you that no church is perfect because it is made up of imperfect people—including you and us. There may be times when you feel hurt, misunderstood, or even disappointed, but that does not mean God is not at work. The enemy would love to use discouragement to pull you away from fellowship, for he knows that *"two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow; but woe to him who is alone when he falls, and doesn’t have another to lift him up"* (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 WEB). Isolation is not God’s design for His children.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our brother/sister who is wrestling with their place in Your body. Lord, You know the thoughts and intentions of their heart, and we ask that You would bring clarity and peace. Reveal to them whether their current church is where You want them to serve and grow, or if You are calling them to another place. Guard their heart from bitterness, pride, or hasty decisions, and instead fill them with Your wisdom and discernment. If there are areas where their church is falling short, give them the courage to address them in love or to seek a fellowship that aligns more closely with Your Word. But if You are calling them to stay, help them to see the good, to serve with joy, and to be a light in the midst of imperfection. Above all, keep their eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith. In His precious and holy name we pray, Amen.
We encourage you to spend time in God’s Word and in prayer, asking Him to speak to you clearly. If you are unsure about your church, seek counsel from mature believers you trust—those who love the Lord and His Word. And remember, wherever you go, your ultimate allegiance is to Christ, not to any institution or leader. *"For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there I am in the middle of them"* (Matthew 18:20 WEB). May the Lord guide your steps and fill you with His peace as you seek Him.
Yet we also understand that not every church aligns perfectly with Scripture, and it is right to examine whether the teaching and practices of your church honor God. Jesus Himself warned, *"Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly are ravening wolves"* (Matthew 7:15 WEB). If there are teachings or behaviors in your church that contradict God’s Word—whether in doctrine, morality, or leadership—it is important to prayerfully consider whether this is the place where God wants you to grow. But let your decision be guided by truth, not frustration or emotion. *"Test all things, and hold firmly that which is good"* (1 Thessalonians 5:21 WEB).
We also want to gently remind you that no church is perfect because it is made up of imperfect people—including you and us. There may be times when you feel hurt, misunderstood, or even disappointed, but that does not mean God is not at work. The enemy would love to use discouragement to pull you away from fellowship, for he knows that *"two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow; but woe to him who is alone when he falls, and doesn’t have another to lift him up"* (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 WEB). Isolation is not God’s design for His children.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our brother/sister who is wrestling with their place in Your body. Lord, You know the thoughts and intentions of their heart, and we ask that You would bring clarity and peace. Reveal to them whether their current church is where You want them to serve and grow, or if You are calling them to another place. Guard their heart from bitterness, pride, or hasty decisions, and instead fill them with Your wisdom and discernment. If there are areas where their church is falling short, give them the courage to address them in love or to seek a fellowship that aligns more closely with Your Word. But if You are calling them to stay, help them to see the good, to serve with joy, and to be a light in the midst of imperfection. Above all, keep their eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith. In His precious and holy name we pray, Amen.
We encourage you to spend time in God’s Word and in prayer, asking Him to speak to you clearly. If you are unsure about your church, seek counsel from mature believers you trust—those who love the Lord and His Word. And remember, wherever you go, your ultimate allegiance is to Christ, not to any institution or leader. *"For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there I am in the middle of them"* (Matthew 18:20 WEB). May the Lord guide your steps and fill you with His peace as you seek Him.
We're right there with you, feeling the weight of your struggle. It's like you're at a crossroads, unsure which path to take. We've been there too, you know. But remember, Jesus said, "I am the way, and the truth, and the life" (John 14:6). He's our compass, our guide in these uncertain times.
We understand the pull you feel towards church. It's not just a building, but a family, a place where we grow together, encourage each other, and learn to love like Jesus. Hebrews 10:25 reminds us not to give up meeting together, but to encourage each other all the more as we see the day approaching.
Yet, we also know that not all churches align perfectly with God's Word. It's okay to question, to seek, to ensure the teaching and practices honor God. Jesus warned us about false prophets, didn't He? (Matthew 7:15) So, take your time, pray, and let God's truth guide your decision, not frustration or emotion.
And hey, no church is perfect, right? We're all works in progress. There might be times when you feel hurt or disappointed, but remember, God is still at work. Don't let discouragement pull you away from fellowship. We need each other, just like it says in Ecclesiastes 4:9-10.
So, let's pray. Father, we lift up our friend to You. Give them clarity, peace, and wisdom. Show them where You want them to serve and grow. Help them to see the good, to serve with joy, and to be a light, even in imperfection. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Keep seeking God, spend time in His Word, and talk to trusted believers. Jesus is with you, always. Trust in Him, and He'll guide your steps.
We understand the pull you feel towards church. It's not just a building, but a family, a place where we grow together, encourage each other, and learn to love like Jesus. Hebrews 10:25 reminds us not to give up meeting together, but to encourage each other all the more as we see the day approaching.
Yet, we also know that not all churches align perfectly with God's Word. It's okay to question, to seek, to ensure the teaching and practices honor God. Jesus warned us about false prophets, didn't He? (Matthew 7:15) So, take your time, pray, and let God's truth guide your decision, not frustration or emotion.
And hey, no church is perfect, right? We're all works in progress. There might be times when you feel hurt or disappointed, but remember, God is still at work. Don't let discouragement pull you away from fellowship. We need each other, just like it says in Ecclesiastes 4:9-10.
So, let's pray. Father, we lift up our friend to You. Give them clarity, peace, and wisdom. Show them where You want them to serve and grow. Help them to see the good, to serve with joy, and to be a light, even in imperfection. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Keep seeking God, spend time in His Word, and talk to trusted believers. Jesus is with you, always. Trust in Him, and He'll guide your steps.
The Encourager
The Encourager
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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