Dhitlor

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I am going to try to go to church tomorrow. I have been posting that the pastor of the church really does not like me and hasn't since he met me. I did not do anything to him at all. I believe he doesn't like me due to abusive pastors in the area gossiping to him about me. I have decided to leave because of this but am waiting on God to lead myself and my mother elsewhere to another church. I do not want to just leave and ghost everyone and then end up having drama. Ideally, I am praying God would provide us with a way out where our leaving will be seen as just being led by God to another place and not as us leaving angrily or with drama or anything. I am also now asking God to show me whether He wants me at this church or not because maybe He wants me here and will work something out. Please pray that everything will go well tomorrow or whenever I do go back to church. I don't know how I will be able to sit through the pastor's sermon. He often insults me in his sermons. I have been able to ignore it thus far and sift through it to gain wisdom as he is a good teacher of the Bible but it's started to become very hard to even sit through. Please also pray that I will be able to interact with him and everyone at church normally. I generally avoid interacting with him because of his treatment of me but if I do happen to interact with him, pray that I will be polite and godly no matter what. Please also pray I will interact with everyone else at church normally even though I believe I need to leave. I am going to church to remain obedient to God's commands. Also, I have been experiencing demonic attacks for years that I have been told going to church will help with this problem and help release me. Since I started going to church, when I don't go, the demonic attacks increase. Thank you.
 
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🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
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Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
We understand the heaviness of your heart in this situation, and we commend you for seeking God’s will above all else, even in the midst of deep hurt and spiritual warfare. The body of Christ is meant to be a place of refuge, love, and edification, and it is grievous when leadership—who are called to shepherd with gentleness and integrity—instead become a source of pain. Let us first address the spiritual and biblical principles at play here, then lift this burden to the Lord in prayer.

The Scripture warns us of the serious responsibility placed upon pastors and teachers. James 3:1 declares, *"Let not many of you be teachers, my brothers, knowing that we will receive heavier judgment."* A pastor’s words and actions carry weight, and when they misuse their authority to belittle or insult, it is not only ungodly but dangerous to the flock. Jesus Himself rebuked the religious leaders of His day for their hypocrisy and harsh treatment of God’s people (Matthew 23). While we are called to honor and submit to authority (Hebrews 13:17), that submission does not mean enduring abuse or unrepentant sin in leadership. If a pastor is consistently unkind, partial, or allows gossip to dictate his treatment of others, he is not walking in the spirit of Christ, who said, *"A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another"* (John 13:34-35).

Your desire to leave without drama or bitterness is wise and Christ-like. Proverbs 17:9 tells us, *"He who covers an offense promotes love; but he who repeats a matter separates close friends."* You are not responsible for how others perceive your departure, but you *are* responsible for your own heart and actions. If God is leading you away, He will make the path clear, and He will also protect your reputation. Trust Him in this. As for the demonic attacks you’ve endured, we take this very seriously. Ephesians 6:12 reminds us that *"our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places."* Church attendance alone is not a magical shield against spiritual warfare, but fellowship with believers, the preaching of God’s Word, and the unity of the body *are* vital for strength and protection. However, if the church you’re in is not a place of spiritual safety—especially under leadership that seems to be influenced by gossip or ungodly biases—it may be that the enemy is using this environment to further oppress you. This is something to prayerfully consider as you seek God’s direction.

Now, let us address the matter of your salvation and access to God. You did not mention the name of Jesus in your request, and this is something we must highlight, for there is no other name by which we are saved, and no other way to approach the Father. Acts 4:12 declares, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* Jesus Himself said, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me"* (John 14:6). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Christ, repented of your sins, and placed your faith in Him alone for salvation, we urge you to do so today. Without Him, we have no hope, no access to God, and no authority over the spiritual battles we face. If you *have* trusted in Christ, then we encourage you to boldly approach the throne of grace in His name, for He is your advocate and high priest (Hebrews 4:14-16).

As for your mother, we pray God gives her clarity and peace as well. It is beautiful that you are considering her in this decision, but remember that each person must follow the Lord’s leading for their own life. If she feels called to stay, that is between her and God. Your obedience is to Him first.

Now, let us pray together for you:

Heavenly Father, we lift our sister before You, asking for Your divine wisdom, protection, and peace to surround her. Lord, You see the pain she has endured—the rejection, the insults, the spiritual battles—and we ask that You would be her defender. Psalm 34:18 reminds us that *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* Father, draw near to her now. Comfort her and strengthen her for whatever lies ahead.

We pray for discernment, Lord. If it is Your will for her to remain at this church, soften the pastor’s heart and break the spirit of gossip and partiality that has taken root. Convict him of any sin, and bring repentance where it is needed. But if it is Your will for her to leave, we ask that You would open the doors to a new church body—a place where she can grow, serve, and be loved as Your daughter. Make the transition smooth, Lord, and guard her against bitterness or fear. Let her departure be marked by grace, and let no weapon formed against her prosper (Isaiah 54:17).

We rebuked the demonic attacks she has faced in the mighty name of Jesus. Satan, you have no authority here. Every tongue that rises against her in judgment, every spirit of oppression, every lie and accusation—we command it to be silenced and bound in Jesus’ name. Father, fill her with Your Holy Spirit, clothe her in Your armor (Ephesians 6:10-18), and let her walk in victory. Remind her that *"greater is He who is in [her] than he who is in the world"* (1 John 4:4).

As she attends church tomorrow, give her supernatural strength to endure. Help her to sift through the sermon for Your truth, Lord, and let everything else fall away. Guard her tongue and her heart in every interaction, especially with the pastor. Let her responses be seasoned with grace (Colossians 4:6), and let her countenance reflect Your peace, not her pain.

Finally, Father, we ask that You would reveal Yourself to her in a fresh way. Let her know beyond any doubt that she is Yours, that You see her, and that You are fighting for her. In Jesus’ precious and mighty name, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord daily in His Word and in prayer. Test every decision against Scripture, and do not be afraid to seek counsel from mature believers you trust. If the demonic attacks intensify, we urge you to seek deliverance prayer from a spirit-filled, biblically sound believer or ministry. You do not have to face this alone. Stay rooted in Christ, and remember: *"The Lord is my light and my salvation. Whom shall I fear? The Lord is the strength of my life. Of whom shall I be afraid?"* (Psalm 27:1). Stand firm, sister. God is with you.
 
I am going to try to go to church tomorrow. I have been posting that the pastor of the church really does not like me and hasn't since he met me. I did not do anything to him at all. I believe he doesn't like me due to abusive pastors in the area gossiping to him about me. I have decided to leave because of this but am waiting on God to lead myself and my mother elsewhere to another church. I do not want to just leave and ghost everyone and then end up having drama. Ideally, I am praying God would provide us with a way out where our leaving will be seen as just being led by God to another place and not as us leaving angrily or with drama or anything. I am also now asking God to show me whether He wants me at this church or not because maybe He wants me here and will work something out. Please pray that everything will go well tomorrow or whenever I do go back to church. I don't know how I will be able to sit through the pastor's sermon. He often insults me in his sermons. I have been able to ignore it thus far and sift through it to gain wisdom as he is a good teacher of the Bible but it's started to become very hard to even sit through. Please also pray that I will be able to interact with him and everyone at church normally. I generally avoid interacting with him because of his treatment of me but if I do happen to interact with him, pray that I will be polite and godly no matter what. Please also pray I will interact with everyone else at church normally even though I believe I need to leave. I am going to church to remain obedient to God's commands. Also, I have been experiencing demonic attacks for years that I have been told going to church will help with this problem and help release me. Since I started going to church, when I don't go, the demonic attacks increase. Thank you.

Maybe use an online map of your choice and search for churches in your area and look for the best reviews? You can get there with mom by morning? I ask God leads you -- I replied to your post last night and prayed for you... At least check out a sermon online with her but in person if able -- Heb 10:25 "Do not forsake assembling yourselves together... but do so all the more as you see the day approaching" -- Protection and strength in Jesus' Name
 
Hi there,

We're right there with you, sister. It's tough when the place we expect to find love, acceptance, and spiritual growth becomes a source of pain. We understand the hurt you're feeling, and we're here to lift you up in prayer.

First, let's remember that God sees you, He loves you, and He's got this. In Psalm 147:3, it says, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." Trust that He's working in your situation, even when it's hard to see.

We're praying for wisdom and clarity for you. Lord, guide her steps and give her peace about what to do. If it's Your will for her to leave, open the right doors and close the wrong ones. If it's Your will for her to stay, soften hearts and bring unity. We trust that You're in control.

We're also praying for protection against the spiritual attacks you've been facing. In the name of Jesus, we command any oppressive spirits to leave and not return. We declare that you are free from their influence, and you walk in liberty and peace.

Lastly, we're praying for courage. It can be scary to make changes, but remember, God is with you. As Psalm 34:18 says, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." You're not alone, and God is fighting for you.

Keep seeking God's face, and trust that He's leading you every step of the way. You've got this, and we're here cheering you on.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 

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