We lift you up before the Father in the name of Jesus Christ, knowing that He alone is your refuge and strength in times of trouble. It is through His mighty name that we approach the throne of grace, and we are grateful you have come to us in this hour of need. The fact that you have not mentioned the name of Jesus in your request concerns us deeply, for it is only by His name that we are saved, and it is through Him alone that we have access to the Father. As Scripture declares, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). If you have not yet surrendered your life fully to Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so today, for without Him, there is no victory over the enemy, no peace in the church, and no true fellowship with believers.
Your struggle with feeling unwelcome by your pastor and the difficulty you face in interacting with others in the church weigh heavily on our hearts. Yet we must address something far more urgent—the demonic attacks you describe. Beloved, these are not to be taken lightly, nor are they to be attributed solely to the actions of your enemies. While it is true that we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against principalities and powers (Ephesians 6:12), we must examine whether there are areas in your life that may be giving the enemy a foothold. Scripture warns us, *"Give no opportunity to the devil"* (Ephesians 4:27, WEB). Have you opened doors through unconfessed sin, bitterness, unforgiveness, or involvement in occult practices—even unintentionally? Have you sought deliverance through prayer and fasting, or have you allowed fear and accusation to dominate your thoughts? The enemy thrives in darkness, but *"if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus Christ, his Son, cleanses us from all sin"* (1 John 1:7, WEB).
We also must address your belief that your pastor dislikes you. While it is possible for misunderstandings or even genuine conflicts to arise in the body of Christ, we urge you to examine your heart first. Have you approached your pastor in humility to seek reconciliation, or have you allowed resentment to take root? *"If your brother sins against you, go, show him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained back your brother"* (Matthew 18:15, WEB). This principle applies even to pastoral relationships. If you have not done so, we strongly encourage you to seek a private, respectful conversation with your pastor, not to accuse but to seek understanding and peace. Remember, *"Bless those who persecute you; bless, and don’t curse"* (Romans 12:14, WEB). Even if your perceptions are correct, your response must be one of grace, for *"love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things"* (1 Corinthians 13:7, WEB).
As for the demonic attacks, we stand with you in the authority of Jesus Christ to rebuke these forces of darkness. *"Submit therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you"* (James 4:7, WEB). Submission to God means surrendering every area of your life to Him—your thoughts, your words, your relationships, and even your perceptions of others. Have you invited the Holy Spirit to search your heart and reveal any unrighteousness? *"Search me, God, and know my heart. Try me, and know my thoughts. See if there is any wicked way in me, and lead me in the everlasting way"* (Psalm 139:23-24, WEB). If there is sin, repent and turn from it. If there is bitterness, release it. If there is fear, cast it upon the Lord, for *"God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control"* (2 Timothy 1:7, WEB).
Now, let us pray for you with the boldness that comes from Christ alone:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, interceding for our brother/sister who is facing spiritual battles and relational strife within Your church. Lord, we ask that You expose every scheme of the enemy that has sought to hinder, oppress, or isolate this precious child of Yours. By the blood of Jesus, we break every curse, every demonic assignment, and every stronghold that has been erected against them. We command all spirits of fear, confusion, division, and accusation to be bound and cast into the abyss in Jesus’ name. Let no weapon formed against them prosper, and let every tongue that rises against them in judgment be condemned (Isaiah 54:17).
Father, we pray for a spirit of humility and courage to fill them as they approach their pastor. Soften both hearts, Lord, and grant them words of wisdom and grace. Remove any root of bitterness or misunderstanding, and let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). If there has been offense, let forgiveness flow freely. If there has been miscommunication, let truth and love prevail.
We also pray for divine connections within the church. Raise up godly brothers and sisters to come alongside them, to encourage them, and to stand with them in prayer. Let them experience the love of Christ through His body, for it is not Your will that any should be alone or isolated. *"Let us consider how to provoke one another to love and good works, not abandoning our own assembling together, as the custom of some is, but exhorting one another; and so much the more, as you see the Day approaching"* (Hebrews 10:24-25, WEB).
Finally, Lord, we ask that You fill them with the Holy Spirit afresh, that they may walk in victory, discernment, and joy. Let them be a light in their church, a vessel of Your love, and a testimony of Your power. Strengthen them to resist the devil steadfastly, knowing that he must flee. And may they find their identity not in the opinions of others, nor in the attacks of the enemy, but in You alone, their Redeemer and King.
We declare all these things in the matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who has triumphed over sin, death, and the grave. Amen.
Beloved, we encourage you to put on the whole armor of God daily (Ephesians 6:10-18), to immerse yourself in Scripture, and to seek the Lord in prayer and fasting. If these attacks persist, we urge you to seek out mature believers or a deliverance ministry that operates in the authority of Jesus Christ. Do not face this alone—*"though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken"* (Ecclesiastes 4:12, WEB). Stand firm, resist the devil, and draw near to God. He is faithful, and He will see you through.