We are deeply grieved to hear of the suffering you are enduring at the hands of bullies, and we want you to know that you are not alone—God sees your pain, and He cares for you more than you can imagine. The cruelty of others can feel overwhelming, but we must remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the spiritual forces of evil that seek to steal, kill, and destroy (Ephesians 6:12). Those who torment you are being used by the enemy, but the Lord is your defender, your refuge, and your strength.
The Bible tells us in Psalm 34:18-19, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but Yahweh delivers him out of them all."* You are not forgotten, and your tears are precious to Him (Psalm 56:8). He collects them in His bottle—every single one—and He will bring justice in His perfect timing. Do not let bitterness or hatred take root in your heart, for vengeance belongs to the Lord (Romans 12:19). Instead, we urge you to forgive those who hurt you, not because they deserve it, but because Christ has forgiven you. Forgiveness does not excuse their behavior, but it frees *you* from the bondage of anger and pain.
We also want to address something important in your request: the language you used—*"get violated all the time"*—is deeply concerning. If you are experiencing *physical or sexual abuse*, this is not just bullying; it is a serious crime and a grievous sin in the sight of God. You must tell a trusted adult, a pastor, or authorities immediately. The Bible commands us to protect the vulnerable (Proverbs 31:8-9), and those in authority are meant to be ministers of God for good (Romans 13:4). You do not have to suffer in silence. If you are in danger, please seek help *right now*—your life and well-being matter to God.
If this is emotional or verbal abuse, we still urge you to speak to someone in authority—a parent, teacher, or church leader—who can intervene. Isolation only gives the enemy more power, but bringing things into the light exposes his schemes (Ephesians 5:11). Surround yourself with believers who can pray for you, encourage you, and stand with you. The body of Christ is meant to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2), and you should not have to carry this alone.
Lastly, we notice that your request did not invoke the name of Jesus. There is *no other name* under heaven by which we can approach the Father (John 14:6, Acts 4:12). It is only through Christ that we have access to the throne of grace, where we find mercy and help in our time of need (Hebrews 4:16). If you do not know Jesus as your Savior, we plead with you to turn to Him today. He died for your sins, rose again, and now offers you eternal life and peace that surpasses all understanding (John 3:16, Philippians 4:7). Without Him, we are powerless against the schemes of the enemy, but in Him, we are *more than conquerors* (Romans 8:37).
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Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul before Your throne of grace, asking for Your mighty hand of protection and deliverance. Lord, You see the tears they cry in secret, the fear they carry, and the wounds inflicted by cruel hands and words. We ask that You would be their shield and their exceeding great reward (Genesis 15:1). Surround them with Your angels, Lord, and let no weapon formed against them prosper (Isaiah 54:17).
Father, if there is physical or sexual abuse taking place, we beg You to expose it and bring it to an end. Raise up godly authority figures who will intervene and protect this beloved child of Yours. Give them the courage to speak up and the wisdom to know who to trust. Break the power of the enemy over their life, and let Your light flood every dark place.
We rebuke the spirit of bullying, oppression, and fear in the name of Jesus Christ. No longer shall the enemy have a foothold in this situation! Let every tongue that rises against them be condemned (Isaiah 54:17), and let those who mock them be put to shame. Softening their hearts, Lord, and bring conviction upon them. May they encounter Your love in a way that transforms their hatred into repentance.
Father, heal the brokenhearted. Bind up their wounds and restore their joy (Psalm 147:3). Fill them with Your peace that guards their heart and mind in Christ Jesus. Let them know that they are *not* defined by the words of their tormentors, but by Your truth: they are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), chosen, and deeply loved (1 John 4:9-10).
If this dear one does not yet know You, Lord, we ask that You would reveal Yourself to them in a powerful way. Open their eyes to see Jesus as their Savior, their Redeemer, and their ever-present help in trouble. Let them cry out to You and find salvation, for there is no other name by which they can be saved.
Strengthen them, Lord, to forgive as You have forgiven them. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, that they may walk in victory and not in fear. Let them rise up like an eagle, renewed in strength, running and not growing weary (Isaiah 40:31).
We declare Your promises over them: *"The Lord is my light and my salvation. Whom shall I fear? The Lord is the strength of my life. Of whom shall I be afraid?"* (Psalm 27:1). In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.