We hear your pain, and we stand with you in this battle, lifting your voice to the throne of grace. What you have endured is not just bullying—it is spiritual warfare, emotional abuse, and a violation of your dignity as a child of God. The enemy seeks to destroy through fear, shame, and isolation, but we declare that you are not defined by the cruelty of others. You are fearfully and wonderfully made in the image of God, and no weapon formed against you shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17).
The actions of that director were not just inappropriate—they were sinful, wicked, and an abomination before the Lord. To touch someone inappropriately is a violation of God’s design for purity and respect, and verbal abuse is a tool of the enemy to break your spirit. We rebuke the spirit of abuse, manipulation, and cowardice that allowed this to happen, and we command it to flee in the name of Jesus. You were right to walk away and refuse to applaud evil. Scripture is clear: "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14). Your decision to leave was not weakness—it was wisdom.
We also address the bystanders who stood silent or even participated. Their inaction enabled this sin, and they, too, will answer to God for their failure to defend the oppressed. "Rescue the weak and the needy; deliver them from the hand of the wicked" (Psalm 82:4). Their silence was complicity, and we pray for conviction to fall upon their hearts.
You are wrestling with why God did not intervene, and that is a valid question. We do not have all the answers, but we know this: God does not delight in evil, nor does He ignore the cries of His children. "The eyes of the Lord are toward the righteous, and His ears are open to their cry" (Psalm 34:15). It may be that God was indeed using this wickedness to drive you out of a toxic environment, as you suspected. Sometimes, the Lord allows trials to redirect our paths toward His purpose. "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope" (Jeremiah 29:11). You lingered for financial reasons, and that is understandable—provision is a legitimate need. But now, you are out, and we declare that God will open doors no man can shut (Revelation 3:8).
The CPTSD you carry is real, and it is not a sign of weakness. It is a battle scar from a spiritual war, and we pray for healing over your mind, emotions, and memories. "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds" (Psalm 147:3). The bitterness you feel toward that man is natural, but we must address it with truth. Unforgiveness is a prison that keeps *you* in bondage, not him. We are not saying what he did was okay—it was evil. But forgiveness is not about excusing his sin; it is about releasing yourself from the chains of anger. "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you" (Ephesians 4:31-32). This does not mean you must reconcile with him or trust him again. It means you surrender the burden of vengeance to God, who says, "Vengeance is Mine, I will repay" (Romans 12:19).
As you search for work, we declare that the Lord will provide. "And my God will supply every need of yours according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus" (Philippians 4:19). You are not a victim—you are a victor in Christ, and He has a plan for your future. We pray that God will lead you to a workplace where you are valued, respected, and protected. "The Lord is your keeper; the Lord is your shade on your right hand" (Psalm 121:5).
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our brother/sister who has endured so much pain and injustice. Lord, You see every tear, every wound, and every moment of fear. We ask for Your healing touch to wash over them, restoring their mind, body, and spirit. Break the chains of CPTSD, Lord, and replace the lies of the enemy with Your truth. Remind them that they are not a target—they are a child of the Most High God, and no weapon formed against them shall prosper.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of abuse, manipulation, and fear that has followed them. We command it to flee in the name of Jesus. We pray for conviction to fall upon those who enabled this wickedness, that they may repent and turn from their sin. For the director who sinned against them, we ask that You deal with his heart. If he has not repented, we pray for Your justice to prevail, but we also release forgiveness from our brother/sister’s heart, not for his sake, but for their freedom.
Lord, we ask for provision in this season of transition. Open doors of opportunity that no man can shut, and lead them to a workplace where they are honored and protected. Give them favor with employers and peace in their spirit as they seek Your will. We declare that their future is bright, and their steps are ordered by You.
Father, we also pray for their emotional healing. Replace bitterness with peace, fear with faith, and shame with the knowledge of who they are in Christ. Surround them with godly community—believers who will stand with them, encourage them, and remind them of Your love. We thank You for Your faithfulness, even in the darkest valleys. You are close to the brokenhearted, and You save those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18).
We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name, the One who conquered sin and death, and the One who heals all our wounds. Amen.
You are not alone in this fight. The Lord is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Keep pressing into Him, and do not lose heart. Your story is not over—God is writing a new chapter, and it will be one of redemption, restoration, and victory.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
