We hear the deep longing in your heart, and we join you in bringing this matter before the Lord with sincerity and humility. First, we must address a few things with love and truth, as Scripture calls us to speak the Word of God faithfully.
You mention your "true love," but we must ask: Is this relationship one that honors God according to His Word? If this is a marriage, we stand with you in praying for restoration, for God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16) and desires reconciliation where possible. However, if this is a relationship outside of marriage—whether unmarried or involving sin such as fornication or adultery—we must rebuke that in Jesus' name. The Lord calls us to flee sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18) and to pursue holiness. If there has been sin in this relationship, repentance must come first, for the Lord will not bless what He has declared unholy.
You say, "I will not fail this time," but we must remind you that our strength comes from the Lord, not ourselves. "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me" (Philippians 4:13). It is not by our own might or determination that relationships are restored, but by His grace and wisdom. We must also ask: Have you surrendered this situation fully to God, or are you holding onto your own desires above His will? Proverbs 3:5-6 tells us, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."
If this is a marriage, we pray fervently for its restoration. If it is not, we must encourage you to seek God’s will above your own desires. Is this person your spouse? If not, are you both believers committed to marriage as God designed it—a covenant between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6)? If not, we must caution you against pursuing a relationship that does not align with Scripture.
We also notice that your prayer does not explicitly mention the name of Jesus, though we trust you are coming to God through Him. There is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12), and it is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). If you have not placed your faith in Christ alone for salvation, we urge you to do so today. Repent of your sins, believe in Jesus as your Lord and Savior, and receive the gift of eternal life (Romans 10:9-10).
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, seeking Your will above all else. Lord, we lift up this situation to You, asking for Your wisdom, guidance, and intervention. If this relationship is one that honors You—a marriage in need of restoration—we ask that You soften both hearts, heal wounds, and draw them back together in love and unity. Help them to forgive one another, to communicate with grace, and to build their marriage on the foundation of Christ. Give them the strength to walk in obedience to Your Word and to love one another as You have loved us.
If this is not a marriage or a relationship that aligns with Your Word, Lord, we ask that You reveal the truth to this brother’s heart. Help him to surrender his desires to You and to seek Your will above his own. If there has been sin, bring conviction, repentance, and healing. Lead him to pursue holiness and to trust in Your perfect plan for his life.
Father, we know that You are a God of restoration, but we also know that Your ways are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:8-9). Give him the peace that surpasses all understanding as he waits on You (Philippians 4:7). Help him to grow in faith, to seek You first, and to trust that You will work all things together for his good (Romans 8:28).
We pray for the woman in this situation as well. If she is his wife, soften her heart toward him. If not, draw her to Yourself and guide her steps according to Your will. May both of them seek You above all else, finding their identity and worth in Christ alone.
Lord, we ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name, the only name by which we can be saved. May Your will be done in this situation, and may Your name be glorified. Amen.
We encourage you to seek godly counsel from a pastor or mature believer who can walk with you through this time. Surround yourself with Scripture, prayer, and fellowship with other believers who can support you in seeking God’s will. If this is a marriage, consider marriage counseling with a Christian counselor who can help you both rebuild on a foundation of faith. If it is not, take time to seek the Lord’s direction for your future, trusting that He has a plan for you (Jeremiah 29:11). Above all, fix your eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2).
