Strieskeurmere

Disciple of Prayer
Lord, please lead me to be where You want me to be. Please give me the intelligence, wisdom, maturity, humility, and resilience. Also, please help me find true love.
 
We understand the deep longing in your heart for direction, wisdom, and love, and we are honored to join you in seeking God’s perfect will for your life. Your desire to be led by the Lord is a beautiful reflection of a heart that seeks His kingdom first, and we commend you for surrendering your path to Him. As the Scriptures remind us, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). This is not a passive trust but an active surrender, where we seek His will in prayer, in His Word, and through godly counsel.

You’ve asked for intelligence, wisdom, maturity, humility, and resilience—qualities that are not only essential for navigating life but are also fruits of a life rooted in Christ. The apostle James tells us, *"But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him"* (James 1:5, WEB). Wisdom is not merely knowledge but the ability to apply God’s truth to every area of your life. Humility is the soil in which wisdom grows, as *"God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble"* (James 4:6, WEB). Resilience, too, is forged in the fires of trial, where we learn to rely not on our strength but on His. *"We are pressed in every way but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; pursued, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed"* (2 Corinthians 4:8-9, WEB). Cling to these promises, for they are your anchor in every storm.

Now, let us address your prayer for "true love." This is a desire God Himself has placed in your heart, for He is love (1 John 4:8), and He designed marriage to reflect the covenant love between Christ and His Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). However, we must be careful to define "true love" by God’s standards, not the world’s. The world often confuses love with fleeting emotions or self-gratification, but biblical love is sacrificial, patient, kind, and rooted in commitment (1 Corinthians 13:4-7). If you are seeking a romantic relationship, we encourage you to pursue *courtship*—a intentional, godly process where two believers seek the Lord’s will for marriage. This is not about dating for the sake of companionship but about preparing for a lifelong covenant before God.

We must also address something critical: if you are currently in a relationship that does not honor God—whether it involves fornication (sex outside marriage), emotional compromise, or an unequally yoked partnership with an unbeliever—we urge you to repent and realign with Scripture. *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). Flee from sexual immorality, for *"the body is not for sexual immorality, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body"* (1 Corinthians 6:13, WEB). If you are struggling in this area, confess it to the Lord, turn away from sin, and seek accountability with mature believers. God’s grace is sufficient to redeem and restore you.

Lastly, we notice that your prayer did not invoke the name of Jesus. This is not a small matter, for Jesus Himself said, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me"* (John 14:6, WEB). It is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to the Father (Ephesians 2:18), and there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Christ, we implore you to do so. Salvation comes by grace through faith in Jesus—believing He died for your sins, was buried, and rose again on the third day (1 Corinthians 15:3-4). Confess Him as Lord, and you will be saved (Romans 10:9). If you *have* trusted in Christ, then pray in His name, for it is your authority and your connection to the Father.

Now, let us pray for you:

Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul to You, knowing that You hear the cries of Your children. Lord, You are the Good Shepherd who leads His sheep beside still waters and restores their souls (Psalm 23). We ask that You guide this brother/sister to the exact place You have ordained for them—whether in location, vocation, or ministry. Open doors no one can shut and close doors that are not of You (Revelation 3:8). Grant them the intelligence to learn and grow, the wisdom to apply Your Word, the maturity to walk in obedience, the humility to serve others, and the resilience to endure hardship with joy.

Father, we pray for their future spouse, if it is Your will for them to marry. Prepare them both for a godly, Christ-centered marriage that glorifies You. Raise up a man or woman of faith, integrity, and love who will cherish and lead (or submit, as the case may be) in accordance with Your Word. Guard their heart from distractions, from ungodly relationships, and from the lies of the enemy. If they are struggling with sin—whether lust, fornication, or emotional compromise—convict them by Your Spirit and grant them the strength to flee from it (1 Corinthians 6:18). Cleanse them, renew their mind, and set them on a path of holiness.

Lord, we also pray that they would grow in their relationship with You above all else. May they seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness, trusting that all these things will be added to them (Matthew 6:33). Fill them with Your Spirit, that they may walk in love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23).

We ask all these things in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Let Your will be done in their life, for Your glory alone. Amen.

Beloved, we encourage you to continue seeking the Lord daily through prayer, Scripture, and fellowship with other believers. Surround yourself with a community that will speak truth into your life and hold you accountable. If you are not already part of a Bible-believing church, we urge you to find one where the Word of God is preached without compromise. Stay rooted in Christ, for apart from Him, we can do nothing (John 15:5). He is your strength, your provider, and your ultimate love. Trust in Him, and He will never fail you.
 
Hey there,

We're right there with you, seeking the Lord's guidance for your life. It's beautiful to see your heart yearning to be led by Him, to grow in wisdom and maturity, and to find true love. We're here to support you in prayer.

We loved the part where you asked for intelligence, wisdom, maturity, humility, and resilience. Those are all qualities that make us more like Jesus, and the Bible has so much to say about them. For instance, Proverbs 4:5-6 tells us, "Get wisdom, get understanding; do not forget my words or turn away from them. Do not forsake wisdom, and she will protect you; love her, and she will watch over you." And in James 1:5, we're told, "If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you."

But let's talk about true love for a moment. We know that's what you're really longing for, and we believe God has that in store for you. But let's make sure we're defining true love the right way. It's not just about feelings or physical attraction. It's about commitment, sacrifice, and a love that's rooted in Christ. As 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 says, "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."

So, as you seek true love, we encourage you to pursue it God's way. That might look like courtship, a intentional process where two believers seek the Lord's will for marriage. It's not about dating for the sake of companionship, but about preparing for a lifelong covenant before God.

And hey, while we're at it, let's make sure we're not compromising in our current relationships. If there's anything that's not honoring God, like fornication or being unequally yoked with an unbeliever, let's repent and realign with Scripture. Remember, as 2 Corinthians 6:14 tells us, "Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?"

Now, let's pray for you. We lift you up to the Lord, asking Him to guide you to the exact place He has ordained for you. We pray for wisdom, maturity, humility, and resilience. We pray for your future spouse, if that's God's will for you, that they would be a person of faith, integrity, and love. We pray that you would grow in your relationship with God above all else.

And remember, keep seeking the Lord daily through prayer, Scripture, and fellowship with other believers. Surround yourself with a community that will speak truth into your life and hold you accountable. Stay rooted in Christ, because apart from Him, we can do nothing.

Keep trusting, keep seeking, and keep loving. God is with you every step of the way.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

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