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We understand your heart’s cry for peace in this difficult situation, and we want to address this with both truth and compassion, always seeking God’s will above all. First, we must lovingly but firmly speak to the concerns in your request that do not align with Scripture, as our desire is to honor Christ in all things.
The relationship you describe—between you, your boyfriend, and his child’s mother—raises serious biblical concerns. The Bible is clear that sexual intimacy outside of marriage is sin, and if a child has been born from such a relationship, that is a consequence of fornication (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, Galatians 6:7-8). While we do not condemn the child—who is innocent and precious in God’s sight—we must address the sin that led to this situation. Repentance and turning to Christ is the only path to true peace and restoration.
Additionally, your boyfriend’s ongoing friendship with his child’s mother is unwise and potentially harmful, both spiritually and emotionally. Scripture warns us to flee from sexual immorality and to avoid even the *appearance* of evil (1 Thessalonians 5:22). Maintaining a close friendship with someone he has been intimately involved with outside of marriage is not honoring to God, nor is it fair to you. It opens the door to temptation, confusion, and unnecessary pain. Proverbs 6:27-28 asks, *"Can a man carry fire next to his chest and his clothes not be burned? Or can one walk on hot coals and his feet not be scorched?"* The answer is no—such relationships are dangerous and must be handled with extreme caution, wisdom, and boundaries.
Most importantly, we must address the fact that your prayer does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ. There is *no other name* by which we can approach God or receive salvation (John 14:6, Acts 4:12). If you do not yet have a personal relationship with Jesus, we urge you to turn to Him in repentance and faith. Believe that He died for your sins, rose again, and offers you forgiveness and new life (Romans 10:9-10). Without Christ, there is no true peace, no matter how much you may desire it in your circumstances.
As for your lack of peace, that is the Holy Spirit convicting you. God does not give peace to sinful arrangements—He calls us to holiness. If you and your boyfriend are not married, you are living in a state of ongoing sin by being in a romantic relationship while he is still entangled with another woman. This is not God’s design. Marriage is a sacred covenant between *one man and one woman* for life (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6), and anything outside of that is rebellion against God’s perfect plan.
We strongly encourage you to step back from this relationship unless your boyfriend is willing to:
1. **Repent** of his past sin and seek God’s forgiveness.
2. **Cut off** all unnecessary contact with the child’s mother, maintaining only what is *absolutely necessary* for the child’s well-being (with wisdom and boundaries).
3. **Commit to purity** and pursue marriage *only* if he is a born-again believer and you both are walking in obedience to Christ.
4. **Seek biblical counseling** from a mature, godly pastor or mentor to navigate co-parenting in a way that honors God.
If he is unwilling to do these things, you must prayerfully consider whether this relationship is truly honoring to God. You deserve a man who will love you *as Christ loved the church*—sacrificially, purely, and faithfully (Ephesians 5:25). Do not settle for less.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, acknowledging that You alone are the source of true peace, wisdom, and restoration. Lord, we lift up this sister who is hurting and seeking Your intervention. We ask that You open her eyes to any sin in her life and grant her the courage to repent and turn fully to You.
Father, if her boyfriend is not walking in obedience to Your Word, we pray that You would convict his heart. Reveal to him the danger of his current path and the need to flee from sexual immorality. Give him a spirit of repentance and a desire to honor You in all things, including his relationships. If he is unwilling to change, we pray that You would give this sister the strength to walk away, trusting You for a godly husband who will love her as Christ loves the church.
Lord, we also pray for the child’s mother. Soften her heart, Father, and draw her to Yourself. Break any ungodly soul ties between her and this man, and help all parties involved to seek Your will above their own desires.
Most of all, Father, we pray that this sister would find her peace *in You alone*. Remind her that Your ways are higher than hers, and that obedience—though difficult—brings blessing. Surround her with godly counsel and community. If she does not yet know You, Lord, we pray that today would be the day of her salvation. Open her heart to receive Jesus Christ as her Lord and Savior, that she may have eternal life and the peace that surpasses all understanding.
We rebuke the enemy’s lies that would keep her in bondage to fear, confusion, or compromise. By the power of the Holy Spirit, lead her into all truth. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.
Sister, we urge you to seek the Lord with all your heart. Read His Word daily, pray without ceasing, and surround yourself with believers who will speak truth into your life. If you are not already part of a Bible-believing church, we strongly encourage you to find one where you can grow in your faith and receive godly wisdom. God’s plan for you is good—trust Him, even when the path is hard. He is faithful, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6).
The relationship you describe—between you, your boyfriend, and his child’s mother—raises serious biblical concerns. The Bible is clear that sexual intimacy outside of marriage is sin, and if a child has been born from such a relationship, that is a consequence of fornication (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, Galatians 6:7-8). While we do not condemn the child—who is innocent and precious in God’s sight—we must address the sin that led to this situation. Repentance and turning to Christ is the only path to true peace and restoration.
Additionally, your boyfriend’s ongoing friendship with his child’s mother is unwise and potentially harmful, both spiritually and emotionally. Scripture warns us to flee from sexual immorality and to avoid even the *appearance* of evil (1 Thessalonians 5:22). Maintaining a close friendship with someone he has been intimately involved with outside of marriage is not honoring to God, nor is it fair to you. It opens the door to temptation, confusion, and unnecessary pain. Proverbs 6:27-28 asks, *"Can a man carry fire next to his chest and his clothes not be burned? Or can one walk on hot coals and his feet not be scorched?"* The answer is no—such relationships are dangerous and must be handled with extreme caution, wisdom, and boundaries.
Most importantly, we must address the fact that your prayer does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ. There is *no other name* by which we can approach God or receive salvation (John 14:6, Acts 4:12). If you do not yet have a personal relationship with Jesus, we urge you to turn to Him in repentance and faith. Believe that He died for your sins, rose again, and offers you forgiveness and new life (Romans 10:9-10). Without Christ, there is no true peace, no matter how much you may desire it in your circumstances.
As for your lack of peace, that is the Holy Spirit convicting you. God does not give peace to sinful arrangements—He calls us to holiness. If you and your boyfriend are not married, you are living in a state of ongoing sin by being in a romantic relationship while he is still entangled with another woman. This is not God’s design. Marriage is a sacred covenant between *one man and one woman* for life (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6), and anything outside of that is rebellion against God’s perfect plan.
We strongly encourage you to step back from this relationship unless your boyfriend is willing to:
1. **Repent** of his past sin and seek God’s forgiveness.
2. **Cut off** all unnecessary contact with the child’s mother, maintaining only what is *absolutely necessary* for the child’s well-being (with wisdom and boundaries).
3. **Commit to purity** and pursue marriage *only* if he is a born-again believer and you both are walking in obedience to Christ.
4. **Seek biblical counseling** from a mature, godly pastor or mentor to navigate co-parenting in a way that honors God.
If he is unwilling to do these things, you must prayerfully consider whether this relationship is truly honoring to God. You deserve a man who will love you *as Christ loved the church*—sacrificially, purely, and faithfully (Ephesians 5:25). Do not settle for less.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, acknowledging that You alone are the source of true peace, wisdom, and restoration. Lord, we lift up this sister who is hurting and seeking Your intervention. We ask that You open her eyes to any sin in her life and grant her the courage to repent and turn fully to You.
Father, if her boyfriend is not walking in obedience to Your Word, we pray that You would convict his heart. Reveal to him the danger of his current path and the need to flee from sexual immorality. Give him a spirit of repentance and a desire to honor You in all things, including his relationships. If he is unwilling to change, we pray that You would give this sister the strength to walk away, trusting You for a godly husband who will love her as Christ loves the church.
Lord, we also pray for the child’s mother. Soften her heart, Father, and draw her to Yourself. Break any ungodly soul ties between her and this man, and help all parties involved to seek Your will above their own desires.
Most of all, Father, we pray that this sister would find her peace *in You alone*. Remind her that Your ways are higher than hers, and that obedience—though difficult—brings blessing. Surround her with godly counsel and community. If she does not yet know You, Lord, we pray that today would be the day of her salvation. Open her heart to receive Jesus Christ as her Lord and Savior, that she may have eternal life and the peace that surpasses all understanding.
We rebuke the enemy’s lies that would keep her in bondage to fear, confusion, or compromise. By the power of the Holy Spirit, lead her into all truth. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.
Sister, we urge you to seek the Lord with all your heart. Read His Word daily, pray without ceasing, and surround yourself with believers who will speak truth into your life. If you are not already part of a Bible-believing church, we strongly encourage you to find one where you can grow in your faith and receive godly wisdom. God’s plan for you is good—trust Him, even when the path is hard. He is faithful, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6).
We're here with you, sister, and we want to encourage you in a different light today. We understand that this situation is complex and filled with emotions, but remember, God is in the details, and He cares deeply about your heart and well-being.
First, let's focus on the peace you're longing for. The Bible tells us in Philippians 4:7 that the peace of God surpasses all understanding. It's a peace that comes from knowing and trusting in Jesus Christ. It's not a peace that comes from circumstances being perfect, but from the assurance of God's love and presence in our lives. So, let's ask God to help you find that peace in Him, regardless of what happens around you.
Next, let's pray for wisdom and discernment for you and your boyfriend. Proverbs 4:5-6 tells us to "get wisdom, get understanding; do not forget my words or turn away from them. Do not forsake wisdom, and she will protect you; love her, and she will watch over you." We need to ask God to give both of you wisdom to navigate this complex situation, to make decisions that honor Him, and to protect your hearts.
We also want to encourage you to seek God's face in this. Jeremiah 29:13 says, "You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart." We believe that as you seek God wholeheartedly, He will reveal His will for your life and this relationship. He may not give you the answers you want, but He will give you the answers you need.
Lastly, let's remember to trust in God's timing and His plan. Romans 8:28 reminds us that "in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose." Trust that God is working all things together for your good, even if you can't see it right now.
Let's pray together: "Dear Lord, we come to You today, laying down our desires and our fears. We ask for Your peace to guard our hearts and our minds. We ask for wisdom to navigate this complex situation. We ask for discernment to know Your will. We ask for trust to believe in Your goodness and Your plan. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
First, let's focus on the peace you're longing for. The Bible tells us in Philippians 4:7 that the peace of God surpasses all understanding. It's a peace that comes from knowing and trusting in Jesus Christ. It's not a peace that comes from circumstances being perfect, but from the assurance of God's love and presence in our lives. So, let's ask God to help you find that peace in Him, regardless of what happens around you.
Next, let's pray for wisdom and discernment for you and your boyfriend. Proverbs 4:5-6 tells us to "get wisdom, get understanding; do not forget my words or turn away from them. Do not forsake wisdom, and she will protect you; love her, and she will watch over you." We need to ask God to give both of you wisdom to navigate this complex situation, to make decisions that honor Him, and to protect your hearts.
We also want to encourage you to seek God's face in this. Jeremiah 29:13 says, "You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart." We believe that as you seek God wholeheartedly, He will reveal His will for your life and this relationship. He may not give you the answers you want, but He will give you the answers you need.
Lastly, let's remember to trust in God's timing and His plan. Romans 8:28 reminds us that "in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose." Trust that God is working all things together for your good, even if you can't see it right now.
Let's pray together: "Dear Lord, we come to You today, laying down our desires and our fears. We ask for Your peace to guard our hearts and our minds. We ask for wisdom to navigate this complex situation. We ask for discernment to know Your will. We ask for trust to believe in Your goodness and Your plan. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Klmaywick
Disciple of Prayer
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
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