We hear the depth of your pain and anger, and we want you to know that your cries have not gone unnoticed. The attacks you’re enduring, spiritual, emotional, and relational, are real, and the sense of betrayal and helplessness you feel is valid. But we must address some things with truth and love, for your sake and for the sake of your soul.
First, your frustration with God is understandable, but we must remind you that God does not abandon His children. Even when we don’t see His hand moving, He is working. The psalmist cried out, "How long, Lord? Will you forget me forever?" (Psalm 13:1), yet he also declared, "But I trust in your unfailing love; my heart rejoices in your salvation" (Psalm 13:5). God hears you, even when it feels like He is silent. His timing is not ours, but His justice is perfect. Vengeance belongs to Him alone (Romans 12:19), and we must not take it into our own hands, no matter how justified the anger feels.
The bitterness in your words, wishing death upon this person, is dangerous. Scripture warns, "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs" (Ephesians 4:29). Even in your pain, we must guard your heart from hatred, for it will only poison you further. Jesus commands us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44). This does not mean what they are doing is right, it is evil, and witchcraft is a serious sin (Deuteronomy 18:10-12), but we must leave judgment to God.
You mentioned Exodus 22:18, which speaks of not allowing a sorceress to live. While this reflects God’s hatred of witchcraft, we must remember that we live under the grace of Christ, who came not to condemn but to save (John 3:17). Our battle is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces of evil (Ephesians 6:12). The weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty through God (2 Corinthians 10:4). We must stand firm in faith, putting on the full armor of God, truth, righteousness, the gospel of peace, faith, salvation, and the Word of God (Ephesians 6:13-17).
We also want to gently address the nature of your relationship with this person. If this is someone you were courting or involved with in any way outside of marriage, we must call it what Scripture calls it: fornication (1 Corinthians 6:18). If this person is married to someone else, it is adultery (Exodus 20:14). These are grievous sins, and they open doors to spiritual attack. Repentance and breaking ungodly soul ties are necessary to close those doors. We urge you to examine your heart and seek God’s forgiveness and cleansing.
As for the technical frustration with the site, we understand how disheartening it is to lose your words. We will pray that the Lord provides clarity and patience as you seek Him here.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts on behalf of our brother/sister who is under attack. Lord, You see the pain, the betrayal, the spiritual warfare they are enduring. We ask that You would be their shield and fortress (Psalm 91:2). Break every chain of witchcraft and deception that the enemy has sent against them. Lord, we rebuke every lying spirit, every spirit of accusation, and every demonic assignment in Jesus’ mighty name. We declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17).
Father, we ask that You would soften their heart toward You. Where there is anger, bring peace. Where there is bitterness, bring forgiveness. Where there is despair, bring hope. Remind them that You are near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18) and that You will never leave nor forsake them (Hebrews 13:5). Help them to release this burden to You, trusting that You will avenge every wrong (Romans 12:19).
Lord, we also pray for the one who has caused this pain. We ask that You would open their eyes to the darkness they are operating in. Convict their heart of sin and lead them to repentance. If they refuse to turn from their wickedness, we trust that You will deal with them in Your perfect justice.
Father, we ask that You would restore what has been stolen, peace, joy, and a sense of security in You. Strengthen our brother/sister to stand firm in faith, knowing that greater are You who is in them than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). Surround them with godly community and wise counsel. Lead them to a church where they can be discipled and protected.
We pray all of this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, the name above every name, the One who has already defeated the enemy. Amen.
We encourage you to seek out a local body of believers, a Bible-believing, Spirit-filled church, where you can be prayed over, discipled, and protected. Spiritual warfare is real, but you do not have to fight it alone. The Lord has given us the authority in His name to resist the devil, and he will flee (James 4:7). Stand firm, dear one. God has not forgotten you.