all my ### eive lived with someoen who always yells at me
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We hear the deep exhaustion and pain in your words, and our hearts ache with you. Living in an environment filled with constant yelling is a heavy burden to carry, and it is no wonder you feel weary. First and foremost, we want to acknowledge the weight of what you’re enduring—this is not the peace or love that God intends for His children. The Bible tells us in Psalm 34:18, *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* You are not alone in this, and God sees your suffering.
We must also gently address the reality of what you’ve shared. Living with someone in a way that is not bound by the covenant of marriage falls outside of God’s design for relationships. Scripture is clear in Hebrews 13:4, *"Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."* If this situation involves a romantic relationship that is not a marriage, we urge you to prayerfully consider what steps God may be calling you to take to align your life with His will. This may include seeking godly counsel, setting boundaries, or even separating to honor Him and protect your own heart.
That said, your cry for relief from the yelling and trauma is valid. God does not desire for you to live in a state of constant fear, anxiety, or emotional exhaustion. Proverbs 15:1 reminds us, *"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."* If this person is unwilling to communicate with kindness and respect, it may be a sign that the relationship—whether romantic or otherwise—is not healthy or honoring to God. You have the right to seek peace, and that may mean creating physical or emotional distance for your well-being.
We also want to gently ask: Have you placed your trust in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior? It is only through Him that we find true peace, strength, and the power to overcome the brokenness of this world. Acts 4:12 tells us, *"There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved."* If you have not yet surrendered your life to Him, we encourage you to do so. He is the source of all comfort, and in Him, you will find the strength to endure and the wisdom to navigate this difficult season.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this dear one who is weary and broken from the constant yelling and turmoil in their life. Lord, You see their pain, and You collect every tear they’ve cried. We ask that You would surround them with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding. Give them the strength to seek You above all else and the courage to make decisions that honor You.
Father, we pray for the person who is yelling—soften their heart, Lord. If they do not know You, draw them to Yourself. If they are a believer, convict them of their sin and lead them to repentance. Help them to see the damage their words are causing and give them a desire to communicate with love and gentleness.
Lord, we ask that You would provide a way out of this situation. Whether that means reconciliation with changed hearts, a season of separation, or a new path forward, make Your will clear. Protect this one from further harm, and fill their heart with hope. Remind them that they are not alone—You are their refuge and strength.
We also pray for wisdom and godly counsel for them. Surround them with believers who can speak truth into their life, encourage them, and walk alongside them. Help them to see themselves as You see them—beloved, valued, and worthy of peace.
Above all, Lord, we ask that You would draw them closer to You. If they have not yet surrendered their life to Jesus, reveal Yourself to them in a powerful way. Let them experience Your love, grace, and salvation. May they find their identity and worth in You alone.
We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the One who calms the storms and heals the brokenhearted. Amen.
In this season, we encourage you to seek out a local church or a trusted Christian friend who can support you. You do not have to walk this path alone. If the yelling has escalated to verbal or emotional abuse, please consider reaching out to professionals or organizations that can help you create a safety plan. Your well-being matters to God, and He desires for you to live in freedom and peace.
Remember, too, that God’s timing is perfect. While you may feel desperate for change now, trust that He is working even when you cannot see it. Psalm 27:14 says, *"Wait for the Lord. Be strong, and let your heart take courage. Yes, wait for the Lord."* Cling to Him, and He will sustain you.
We must also gently address the reality of what you’ve shared. Living with someone in a way that is not bound by the covenant of marriage falls outside of God’s design for relationships. Scripture is clear in Hebrews 13:4, *"Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."* If this situation involves a romantic relationship that is not a marriage, we urge you to prayerfully consider what steps God may be calling you to take to align your life with His will. This may include seeking godly counsel, setting boundaries, or even separating to honor Him and protect your own heart.
That said, your cry for relief from the yelling and trauma is valid. God does not desire for you to live in a state of constant fear, anxiety, or emotional exhaustion. Proverbs 15:1 reminds us, *"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."* If this person is unwilling to communicate with kindness and respect, it may be a sign that the relationship—whether romantic or otherwise—is not healthy or honoring to God. You have the right to seek peace, and that may mean creating physical or emotional distance for your well-being.
We also want to gently ask: Have you placed your trust in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior? It is only through Him that we find true peace, strength, and the power to overcome the brokenness of this world. Acts 4:12 tells us, *"There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved."* If you have not yet surrendered your life to Him, we encourage you to do so. He is the source of all comfort, and in Him, you will find the strength to endure and the wisdom to navigate this difficult season.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this dear one who is weary and broken from the constant yelling and turmoil in their life. Lord, You see their pain, and You collect every tear they’ve cried. We ask that You would surround them with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding. Give them the strength to seek You above all else and the courage to make decisions that honor You.
Father, we pray for the person who is yelling—soften their heart, Lord. If they do not know You, draw them to Yourself. If they are a believer, convict them of their sin and lead them to repentance. Help them to see the damage their words are causing and give them a desire to communicate with love and gentleness.
Lord, we ask that You would provide a way out of this situation. Whether that means reconciliation with changed hearts, a season of separation, or a new path forward, make Your will clear. Protect this one from further harm, and fill their heart with hope. Remind them that they are not alone—You are their refuge and strength.
We also pray for wisdom and godly counsel for them. Surround them with believers who can speak truth into their life, encourage them, and walk alongside them. Help them to see themselves as You see them—beloved, valued, and worthy of peace.
Above all, Lord, we ask that You would draw them closer to You. If they have not yet surrendered their life to Jesus, reveal Yourself to them in a powerful way. Let them experience Your love, grace, and salvation. May they find their identity and worth in You alone.
We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the One who calms the storms and heals the brokenhearted. Amen.
In this season, we encourage you to seek out a local church or a trusted Christian friend who can support you. You do not have to walk this path alone. If the yelling has escalated to verbal or emotional abuse, please consider reaching out to professionals or organizations that can help you create a safety plan. Your well-being matters to God, and He desires for you to live in freedom and peace.
Remember, too, that God’s timing is perfect. While you may feel desperate for change now, trust that He is working even when you cannot see it. Psalm 27:14 says, *"Wait for the Lord. Be strong, and let your heart take courage. Yes, wait for the Lord."* Cling to Him, and He will sustain you.
Isaac Samuel Lubwama
Good and Faithful Servant
Praying in Jesus Name.
We're here with you, dear friend, and we want you to know that you're not alone in this. We've been where you are, feeling exhausted and overwhelmed by constant yelling. It's like living in a storm that never ends, and it's okay to feel tired, to feel like you can't take it anymore.
We want to encourage you to keep seeking peace, even if it means setting boundaries or taking a step back. Remember, God calls us to live in peace, whenever possible (1 Corinthians 7:15). It's not always easy, but it's always worth it.
Let's pray together, shall we?
"Dear Lord, we come to You today on behalf of our friend. Lord, You see them, You hear their cries, and You understand their pain. We ask that You would comfort them, that You would wrap them in Your loving arms and remind them of their worth. Give them the strength to keep seeking peace, and the wisdom to know what steps to take.
Lord, we also pray for the person who is yelling. Soft their heart, Lord. Help them to see the pain they're causing, and give them a desire to communicate with kindness and respect.
Lord, we ask for a way out of this situation. We trust that You are working, even when we can't see it. Help us to wait for You, to be strong, and to let our hearts take courage.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We want to encourage you to keep seeking peace, even if it means setting boundaries or taking a step back. Remember, God calls us to live in peace, whenever possible (1 Corinthians 7:15). It's not always easy, but it's always worth it.
Let's pray together, shall we?
"Dear Lord, we come to You today on behalf of our friend. Lord, You see them, You hear their cries, and You understand their pain. We ask that You would comfort them, that You would wrap them in Your loving arms and remind them of their worth. Give them the strength to keep seeking peace, and the wisdom to know what steps to take.
Lord, we also pray for the person who is yelling. Soft their heart, Lord. Help them to see the pain they're causing, and give them a desire to communicate with kindness and respect.
Lord, we ask for a way out of this situation. We trust that You are working, even when we can't see it. Help us to wait for You, to be strong, and to let our hearts take courage.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
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