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There is power in prayer (James 5:16)!

Yes, I believe in God, Jesus, the Holy Spirit, etc. etc. yes, I believe in the name or power authority of Christ. Yes, I believe Christ can move mountains, etc..

In August 2022, my wife left me and then used the court to take my children while I was 5000 miles away. I have not seen my children since then.

I immediately began praying fervently. I pleaded with God to take me back to Alaska to get me closer to my family, hoping that a closer proximity might lead to reconciliation.

Yes, God took me back to Alaska. It seems that I was brought back to Alaska to suffer. I suffered in so many different ways: job loss, homelessness, car issues, mental issues of depression, sadness, etc.

Nonetheless, my faith continues. I feel that my love for God is stronger than it’s ever been and my faith is stronger than it’s ever been. I love God with all of my heart. I continue to pray fervently that God will do something.

I have not seen my children since mid-September 2022. I missed them with every ounce of my being. Just a few minutes ago I saw a video which included a picture of a five-year-old boy and the voice of a child singing. It made my heart ache so bad that I wanted to cry. I wanted to cry with every tear I had.

It’s still mind-boggling to think that my wife has done these things to me. How hateful a person can be if they choose to be. After 10 years of marriage, all the memories, all the great things we did together, all the great things we did for the Lord, etc., etc..

To those praying for me I am in a difficult spot right now… let me explain:

Today is March 2, 2026; it is 10:22 PM. On March 5, 2026, I must either pay $1500 in rent or move out.

I have not had a regular job since June 16, 2025. Since then, I have been making my living through gig work. I had learned to make a full-time salary doing it. I actually enjoy doing it; however, I then started having car issues which hindered me from working.

Last Thursday, I had one of my biggest days; however, the next day my car would not start. I have not been able to work since then. I really needed to work those days to help gather the funds needed to pay rent.

A few guys had promised to come over to get my car going but did not come over. One guy is supposed to come over tonight, but we will see. He promised he’d be here last night, but did not show up and did not even let me know if he had shown up or not.

In my past experiences, it seems God does his greatest work when my back has been firmly pressed against the wall. My back is against the wall right now. I am trying desperately to figure out what to do next.

I have thought seriously of getting an Uber and heading to the airport and going back to Texas to see my father. There I would have a free place to stay and food to eat, but I would not have a vehicle nor would I have a job. I would love to see my dad. However, it would seem that my trip back to Alaska would be in vain. I hope not.

God, what are you going to do?

I need God to guide my steps. I trust that he will. God, do I stay in this apartment? Do I go back to Texas? Please show me what to do.

Prior to moving back to Alaska, I had interviewed for a position as a chaplain in Alaska. I had two interviews in five days online. I thought for sure God was giving me that position; however, I did not get it.

A few days ago, I noticed that the position is open again. I immediately applied for it. The next day I heard from them and they asked me to do something online which I did. The email also gave me an opportunity to let them know that I had applied for the position in 2023.

It would be such a blessing if I was to get that job. The pay was really good. I would have an office downtown by the river. Every day, I would pray with the nurses and then begin my work of visiting those in hospice care. I would have the opportunity to spend time in God’s word and to share those findings with those in my care or those working in the hospice center.

God knows I need a good job. I enjoy doing gig work, but as I get older, I know it’s gonna be harder and harder to do and it requires a working vehicle that doesn’t break down.

I take great comfort knowing that heaven knows. Heaven knows exactly where I’m at. Heaven knows exactly what I’m facing in the next few days. Heaven knows the pain that I’ve endured all this time.

Please pray for me:

I need direction
I need a great job with great pay
I need my family back together
I need strength
I need a comfortable place to live
I need help, God

I know that I cannot do anything without God. I put my faith and trust in him 1000%. I’m willing to do anything that he shows me to do. If God showed me to move across the country to Maine and work there I would leave immediately. I’m willing to do what God shows me to do. I put my faith and trust in him.

I’m not a perfect man, but I have always been a forgiving person. I stand prepared to forgive my wife for what she’s done to me. She’s done some horrible things to me that she would never want done to her. I am prepared to forgive her and love her like Jesus loved his church. I stand prepared to not hold the past against her, but to move forward…

Please pray for my wife / ###.

Please pray for my family to come back together as one. I can only imagine the joy of being together. I can only imagine the joy of doing the things that we used to do like hiking, going to baseball games, going to movies, going out to eat, etc., etc..

Please pray, dear friends…
 
We stand with you in this deep valley of suffering, lifting your burdens before the throne of grace with hearts full of compassion and faith. Your love for God shines brightly even in the darkness, and we rejoice that your trust remains unshaken despite the storms. The pain of separation from your children and the betrayal of your marriage covenant is a heavy cross to bear, but you are not abandoned—God sees every tear, hears every cry, and holds your future in His hands.

First, we must address the brokenness of your marriage with biblical truth. What your wife has done—taking your children away through the courts and severing the sacred bond you shared—is a grievous violation of God’s design for marriage. Scripture is clear: *"Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate"* (Mark 10:9). Yet we also know that sin has fractured this world, and human hearts can harden against God’s will. Your willingness to forgive, as Christ forgave the church, is a testament to your Christlike heart (Ephesians 4:32). But forgiveness does not mean reconciliation is guaranteed or that you should enable further harm. We pray for your wife’s repentance and restoration, but we also pray for wisdom for you—wisdom to know how to navigate this season without compromising truth or your own well-being.

The financial and practical struggles you face are overwhelming, but we serve a God who multiplies loaves and fishes and makes a way where there seems to be no way. You are right to seek Him for direction—*"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths"* (Proverbs 3:5-6). Whether you stay in Alaska or return to Texas, we pray for clarity and provision. The chaplain position you applied for sounds like a divine opportunity, and we believe God can open that door if it aligns with His will. But even if the answer is "no," He has not forgotten you. Remember, Joseph endured betrayal, slavery, and imprisonment before God exalted him to save nations (Genesis 50:20). Your suffering is not in vain.

Your longing to see your children is a holy ache—one that reflects the Father’s heart for His own children. We pray for their protection, for their hearts to be softened toward you, and for the legal barriers to be removed so you can reunite. *"The Lord is near to the brokenhearted, and saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). Until that day, we ask God to comfort you with His presence and give you glimpses of hope in the midst of grief.

For your immediate needs, we cry out to the Lord:
**Father, we come before You on behalf of our brother, asking for Your mighty hand to move in his life. Provide the $1,500 for rent or open another door for shelter. Restore his car so he can work, or provide a new means of income that doesn’t rely on it. If the chaplain position is Your will, let it be his; if not, reveal the next step clearly. Guard his heart from despair and fill him with Your peace that surpasses understanding. Soften his wife’s heart, Lord, and bring repentance and restoration to their marriage if it aligns with Your will. Protect their children from harm and draw them back to their father. Strengthen him for the days ahead, and let him feel Your nearness. We ask all these things in the powerful name of Jesus, who intercedes for us at Your right hand. Amen.**

You are not alone in this fight. The same God who parted the Red Sea, raised Lazarus from the dead, and conquered the grave is fighting for you. Keep your eyes on Him, and do not grow weary in doing good (Galatians 6:9). If you must return to Texas, trust that God can use that season to prepare you for what’s ahead. If you stay in Alaska, believe that He will sustain you. Whatever the outcome, your story is not over—it is being written by the Author of redemption, and He specializes in turning ashes into beauty (Isaiah 61:3).

Lastly, we encourage you to seek godly counsel from a local church or pastor in Alaska. Isolation can magnify struggles, but the body of Christ is called to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2). You need brothers and sisters to walk alongside you, pray with you, and help you discern God’s voice. Do not hesitate to reach out to a biblical church community.

Your faith is inspiring, and your love for God is evident. Keep pressing into Him. The breakthrough is coming.
 
Dear friends in Christ,

We join you in lifting your burdens before the throne of grace, interceding for you with hearts full of compassion and faith. Your unwavering trust in God amidst your trials is a beacon of light in the darkness.

We are in awe of your forgiveness towards your wife, echoing Jesus' love for His church. However, we also pray for wisdom, that you may navigate this season without compromising truth or your own well-being. We ask God to reveal His will for your marriage and family, and to bring healing and restoration if it aligns with His will.

Your financial and practical struggles are overwhelming, but we serve a God who multiplies loaves and fishes. We pray for clarity and provision, trusting that God will direct your paths as you seek Him with all your heart. Whether you stay in ### or return to ###, we believe God will make a way for you.

Your longing to see your children is a holy ache, reflecting the Father's heart for His own children. We pray for their protection, for their hearts to be softened towards you, and for the legal barriers to be removed so you can reunite. Until that day, we ask God to comfort you with His presence and give you glimpses of hope in the midst of grief.

For your immediate needs, we cry out to the Lord on your behalf, asking for His mighty hand to move in your life. We pray for provision, for your car to be restored or a new means of income, and for wisdom regarding the chaplain position. We also pray for your wife's repentance and restoration, and for your children's safety and well-being.

Remember, you are not alone in this fight. The same God who parted the Red Sea, raised Lazarus from the dead, and conquered the grave is fighting for you. Keep your eyes on Him and do not grow weary in doing good.

Lastly, we encourage you to seek godly counsel from a local church or pastor in ###. The body of Christ is called to bear one another's burdens, and you need brothers and sisters to walk alongside you, pray with you, and help you discern God's voice.

Your faith and love for God are inspiring. Keep pressing into Him, for the breakthrough is coming.

In Christ,

[Your Name]
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

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Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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