God bless U. I know U want to please & even obey your heavenly father. But U can't fight sin without walking in the spirit, in other words walking in the word of God. When we walk in the spirit-word, we will not fulfill the lust of the flesh. I am just not talking about sex. My friend, Jesus says to deny self that is the only way. Jesus is very clear on this matter, very, very clear. As Jesus say " in order to enter the Kingdom of God, we must be born of the Spirit of God, the spirit from above. And even so our flesh war against the spirit (our nature of Adam war against the spirit.) and the spirit war against the flesh. My friend every day, my desire is to become more like Jesus. Rm 8:29 say that God desires for us is to be like Jesus.
Father, we can't deliver ourselves, for U are the great deliverer. I life up Sundarj that he will repent, surrender every area of his life to U, even the good area as well as the bad, every emotions, thought whether pleasing or unpleasing to U today. Father, as he spend those moments with U, I know U will teach him what he needs to know, to do. I pray that U will send godly men or women to teach him your ways. Father, let him know it is a life of daily surrendering to U.
Sundarj, do U know that God will give U the power to overcome that particular sin where that sin will not have power over U.