Please pray for me about someone I met in college. I thought this person was a Christian but they turned out to be one of the most dangerous people I have ever met. They are a covert malignant narcissist. I have experienced so much abuse from them, their family, and others who have helped them. Their family runs a "church" (which is not really a church but a cult) and I experienced abuse there as well. This person has been stalking me for years since I cut off contact with them. They have enlisted many people to help them including my ex friends, my relatives, and people I used to be involved with. They are even having an affair with one of my married relatives (who abuses his wife and her children that she had before marrying him; I'm not sure how much his spouse knows about him being unfaithful but there are signs that she knows he is unfaithful but pretends not to see it) and using him to stalk me, harass me, and get information about me. I trusted this person as a Christian mentor and they took all the information I told them (including things I was struggling with as a Christian especially at that time in my life when I was living in rebellion to Christ) and used it against me, tried to publicly humiliate me with it, spread rumors about me, and even tried to show me that they could get away doing certain things (sins that I had struggled with before that I confided in them about which they then tried to publicly humiliate me with) themselves. It turned out this person was doing arguably worse things than I have ever done in my life and boasting about doing so. This person is a literal devil.
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We are truly saddened to hear about the abuse and manipulation you have experienced from someone you thought was a Christian friend and mentor. We will pray for you and address the issues at hand using biblical principles.
Firstly, it is clear that the person you described is not exhibiting the fruits of the Spirit, which are love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Instead, they are manifesting the works of the flesh, which include hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions and envy. As it is written in Galatians 5:19-23 (WEB):
"Now the works of the flesh are obvious, which are: adultery, sexual immorality, uncleanness, lustfulness, idolatry, sorcery, hatred, strife, jealousies, outbursts of anger, rivalries, divisions, heresies, envyings, murders, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these; of which I tell you now, as I also told you then, that people who practice such things will not inherit God's Kingdom. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law."
We must also address the fact that the person you mentioned is involved in an affair with a married relative, which is adultery, a sin clearly condemned in the Bible. As it is written in Exodus 20:14 (WEB):
"You shall not commit adultery."
Furthermore, the family of this person runs a cult masquerading as a church. We must beware of false prophets and teachers who come in sheep's clothing but inwardly are ravening wolves. As it is written in Matthew 7:15 (WEB):
"Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly are ravening wolves."
We will pray for your protection and deliverance from this dangerous individual and their accomplices. We will also pray for their repentance and salvation, as Jesus Christ desires all people to be saved and come to the knowledge of the truth. As it is written in 1 Timothy 2:3-4 (WEB):
"For this is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Savior; who desires all people to be saved and come to full knowledge of the truth."
Let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our beloved in prayer. We pray for their protection and deliverance from the dangerous individual they have described. We bind the spirit of abuse, manipulation, and stalking, and we loose the spirit of peace, safety, and freedom, in Jesus' name. We pray that You would expose the works of darkness and bring them to light, convicting this person and their accomplices of their sins and leading them to repentance and salvation. We also pray for the spouse and children of the married relative, that You would protect them and bring healing and restoration to their family. We ask this all in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to continue trusting in the Lord and leaning on His understanding. He is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Do not be afraid or dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go. As it is written in Psalm 46:1 (WEB):
"God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble."
We also recommend that you seek wise counsel and support from your local church and Christian community. They can provide you with practical help and guidance during this difficult time.
Firstly, it is clear that the person you described is not exhibiting the fruits of the Spirit, which are love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Instead, they are manifesting the works of the flesh, which include hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions and envy. As it is written in Galatians 5:19-23 (WEB):
"Now the works of the flesh are obvious, which are: adultery, sexual immorality, uncleanness, lustfulness, idolatry, sorcery, hatred, strife, jealousies, outbursts of anger, rivalries, divisions, heresies, envyings, murders, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these; of which I tell you now, as I also told you then, that people who practice such things will not inherit God's Kingdom. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law."
We must also address the fact that the person you mentioned is involved in an affair with a married relative, which is adultery, a sin clearly condemned in the Bible. As it is written in Exodus 20:14 (WEB):
"You shall not commit adultery."
Furthermore, the family of this person runs a cult masquerading as a church. We must beware of false prophets and teachers who come in sheep's clothing but inwardly are ravening wolves. As it is written in Matthew 7:15 (WEB):
"Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly are ravening wolves."
We will pray for your protection and deliverance from this dangerous individual and their accomplices. We will also pray for their repentance and salvation, as Jesus Christ desires all people to be saved and come to the knowledge of the truth. As it is written in 1 Timothy 2:3-4 (WEB):
"For this is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Savior; who desires all people to be saved and come to full knowledge of the truth."
Let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our beloved in prayer. We pray for their protection and deliverance from the dangerous individual they have described. We bind the spirit of abuse, manipulation, and stalking, and we loose the spirit of peace, safety, and freedom, in Jesus' name. We pray that You would expose the works of darkness and bring them to light, convicting this person and their accomplices of their sins and leading them to repentance and salvation. We also pray for the spouse and children of the married relative, that You would protect them and bring healing and restoration to their family. We ask this all in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Finally, we encourage you to continue trusting in the Lord and leaning on His understanding. He is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Do not be afraid or dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go. As it is written in Psalm 46:1 (WEB):
"God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble."
We also recommend that you seek wise counsel and support from your local church and Christian community. They can provide you with practical help and guidance during this difficult time.
We're here with you, sister. It's heart-wrenching to see the pain you've endured at the hands of someone you trusted. We'll keep you in our prayers, asking God to wrap His loving arms around you, comforting you, and giving you strength to endure.
We've been reminded of Psalm 147:3, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." Trust that God is tending to your heart, healing the wounds caused by this abuse.
We'll also pray for this person, that God would open their eyes to the destruction they're causing, leading them to repentance. We know God desires for all to be saved (1 Timothy 2:3-4), so we'll ask for His mercy and grace to work in their life.
And remember, you're not alone. We're here, and so is your church family. Let's lean on each other and on God, together. "For where two or three are gathered together in My name, I am there in the midst of them" (Matthew 18:20).
We've been reminded of Psalm 147:3, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." Trust that God is tending to your heart, healing the wounds caused by this abuse.
We'll also pray for this person, that God would open their eyes to the destruction they're causing, leading them to repentance. We know God desires for all to be saved (1 Timothy 2:3-4), so we'll ask for His mercy and grace to work in their life.
And remember, you're not alone. We're here, and so is your church family. Let's lean on each other and on God, together. "For where two or three are gathered together in My name, I am there in the midst of them" (Matthew 18:20).
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Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
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Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
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I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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