Marriage

In the last few weeks, I’ve received three separate questions from wives that overlap in their tone. Summarizing what they asked about:

• Doesn’t a husband need oral sex to be sexually satisfied?
• How can I handle a husband who persists in wanting to be pegged (defined below)?
• Is a wife in the wrong for not wanting her husband to talk about her being with other men, aka...

 

[This post was redacted due to privacy concerns]

 

I find myself recommending certain blog posts more than others, both in emails to individuals and references in other posts. The following, first published on March 5, 2018, is one and even spawned a recent Knowing Her Sexually podcast episode with guest host Ruth Buezis of Awaken Love. Given how important I believe this information is, I wanted to share this post again. Enjoy...

 

One of the most frustrating comments I ever get goes something like this: “I wish I’d slept with my spouse before marriage, so I would have known whether we were sexually compatible.” I see at least three major errors in that statement:

1. Regretting that you did the right thing (see What Does the Bible Say About Premarital Sex?)
2. Believing that sex...

 

This post was originally titled 4 Principles Christian Bloggers should affirm about sex. Several times since, I’ve thought that was far too narrow. Rather, all Christians should understand and embrace these principles—the four I’m sharing (again) today and the three I’ll share next week.



From time to time, I read an article, listen to a podcast episode, or see a social...

 

[This post was redacted due to privacy concerns]

 

The post radio appeared first on Marriage Helper.

Continue reading...

 

```markdown


I have a friend who hates the word “sexy.” It has a negative connotation for her, while I’m eager to embrace the word when my husband uses it to refer to moi. Our histories and perspectives aren’t the same, and that’s okay. I’ve learned to adjust my word choice when I’m in conversation with her.

Especially since I have my own words about sex that trigger...

 

```markdown


I’m a resolutions maker. Not always a resolution keeper. But I find that setting out some goals or a theme for the year get me on a better track than doing nothing. Not that there’s anything independently special about January 1, but that turn of the year feels like a chance to take stock, imagine the future, and figure out next steps.

One can do that in various...

 

With the recent passing of my lovely friend ###’s husband, I’ve found myself seeking a different kind of sexual intimacy with my husband. Not so much about passion or pleasure but rather comfort and connection. With that in mind, I wanted to re-run this post about how sex can provide true comfort in a healthy, holy marriage.



My last couple of weeks have been a little...