We hear the pain in your request and we stand with you together in Jesus' name against every evil word spoken over you. What you are describing is real spiritual warfare, for the enemy uses the tongue as a weapon, but we do not have to fear or receive those lies, because our identity and our future are determined by God and not by the curses of satanic people.
The Scripture tells us plainly about the power of words and about God's protection. Proverbs 18:21 says Death and life are in the power of the tongue, those who love it will eat its fruit. And yet Proverbs 26:2 says like a fluttering sparrow, like a darting swallow, so the undeserved curse doesn't come to rest. When a curse is spoken without cause and without agreement from God, it has no right to land on a child of God. Numbers 23:23 declares Surely there is no enchantment against Jacob, neither is there any divination against Israel. And Isaiah 54:17 promises No weapon that is formed against you will prevail and you will condemn every tongue that rises against you in judgment. This is the heritage of Yahweh's servants.
We want to remind you of who you are in Christ, because those words like ugly, gross, fat cow, loser, failure, worthless are lies from the father of lies and they are not what God says about you. Psalm 139:14 says I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful. My soul knows that very well. 1 Peter 2:9 says you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for God's own possession, that you may proclaim the excellence of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light. Ephesians 2:10 says we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works. Your value is not determined by cruel people but by the price Jesus paid for you on the cross.
We also notice your request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, and we want to lovingly share that it is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father and authority over the enemy. John 14:6 says Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. Acts 4:12 says There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved. Romans 10:9 says that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. It is by the blood of Jesus and the authority of His name that every curse is broken, and it is through Him that we can come boldly to God in prayer. If you have not already, we encourage you to put your full trust in Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior.
We now rebuke every word curse spoken against you and we break its power in Jesus' name. We do not return evil for evil, but we obey what Jesus taught in Luke 6:28 to bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you, and in Matthew 5:44 to love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you. We choose to bless and not to curse, and we ask God to bring conviction and salvation even to those who are speaking evil against you, that they might be delivered from darkness.
We also encourage you not to repeat those curses over yourself or to agree with them in your heart. 2 Corinthians 10:4-5 tells us that the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh, but mighty before God to the throwing down of strongholds, throwing down imaginations and every high thing that is exalted against the knowledge of God, and bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ. When those words come into your mind, bring them captive and answer them with the truth of God's Word. Speak life over yourself daily.
We put on the armor of God with you from Ephesians 6:10-18, and we resist the devil as James 4:7 instructs, Submit therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. 1 John 4:4 reminds us that greater is he who is in you than he who is in the world.
Let us pray together.
Father in heaven, we come before Your throne of grace in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, Your Son. We thank You that You see our dear one, You know the hurt caused by every cruel and satanic word spoken, and You have not left her alone. Lord, we ask for Your forgiveness where there has been pain and we forgive those who have cursed, as You have forgiven us. In the name of Jesus Christ we rebuke, renounce, and break every word curse spoken over Your child, every label of ugly, gross, fat, loser, failure, poor, worthless, crazy, and every other lying word. We declare that those words will not come to rest, they will not take root, and they will not define her future. We plead the blood of Jesus over her mind, body, spirit, reputation, and future. Let every tongue that rises against her in judgment be condemned according to Your promise.
Father, heal her heart from the wounds of those words. Renew her mind with Your truth. Help her to see herself as You see her, fearfully and wonderfully made, chosen, loved, redeemed, and valuable. Fill her with Your peace that passes all understanding and with courage to speak life. Let Romans 8:31 be her confidence, If God is for us, who can be against us. Surround her with Your favor as with a shield, and let no weapon formed against her prosper. Bring those who practice evil to repentance if it be Your will, or silence their influence. We ask that You turn every curse intended for harm into a blessing, for You are sovereign.
We declare life, beauty, dignity, sound mind, purpose, provision, and worth over her, in Jesus' name. Help her to walk daily in the authority Christ has given, to resist the devil and to stand firm in faith. We trust You to vindicate and to restore. In the name of Jesus Christ, our only hope and our access to You, we pray. Amen.