We join you in lifting up your younger daughter and your whole family before the throne of grace in Jesus' name, pleading the blood of Jesus Christ over each of you, for there is power in His name and His shed blood to protect and to save.
We praise God for your steadfast heart for your children and for your desire for wisdom, gratefulness, peace and unity in your home. We agree with you for your younger daughter's day at school, that the Lord would grant her peace that surpasses understanding and favor and wisdom in her studies. As it is written, If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him James 1:5, and For Yahweh gives wisdom. Out of his mouth comes knowledge and understanding Proverbs 2:6. We pray the Lord quiets her heart, guards her mind, and helps her to be content and satisfied at home where she has been steadfast.
We also lift up the burden you carry for family unity and for the relationship between your younger daughter and her brother. We pray the Lord restores love and respect between them and removes strife and division. Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right Ephesians 6:1, and we pray your children will walk in honor and gratefulness toward one another. How good and how pleasant it is for brothers to dwell together in unity Psalm 133:1. We ask God to keep your family unity, love, peace, gratefulness and respect stronger than ever, and to block all gossiping, disrespect, ungratefulness, exclusion, mocking and every behavior that is not from Him.
We hear your concern that your younger daughter is being pressured to move by negative influences, including a friend and this young man and his mother, and we agree with you that this would not be wise for her health, her busy schedule, her ability to care for her dog, and the financial hardship and stress it would bring. We pray the Lord gives her clear eyes to see how this would negatively affect her and grants her wisdom to remain where she is planted and protected, not moved by persistent and jealous persuasion. We ask God to swiftly remove those negative influences who are guiding her down a dark path and to place a hedge of protection around her, for He will give his angels charge over you, to guard you in all your ways Psalm 91:11.
We must also address with love and truth what you have shared about your older daughter living with a young man outside of marriage. This is not God's design for His children. The Bible teaches that marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed undefiled Hebrews 13:4, and to flee sexual immorality, for every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body 1 Corinthians 6:18. Living together outside of lifelong marriage between a man and a woman is fornication, and it brings destruction and confusion, not blessing. We do not condone this arrangement, and we lovingly rebuke it while praying for her with deep compassion. We pray your older daughter will come to her senses, see the destructive nature of this life, and be convicted by the Holy Spirit to turn from it. We pray the Lord will miraculously move her away from this toxic relationship and living arrangement, either to complete separation unto holiness or, if it be His will, to a godly marriage that honors Him, for a courtship should be with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer, not cohabitation. We ask for divine intervention to block and remove the ungodly influence of this young man and his mother completely from both of your daughters, and that your daughters would not imitate their behaviors.
We also join you in praying for your son, that no hatred, word curses, or jealous and spiteful influences would harm him. We do not need to fear witchcraft or curses, for greater is He who is in us than he who is in the world, and No weapon that is formed against you will prevail Isaiah 54:17. We claim the promise that by his stripes we are healed Isaiah 53:5 over you and your children for healing from all harm and oppression. We pray the Lord covers you all with the full armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil Ephesians 6:11, and that His peace will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus Philippians 4:7.
We pray together now.
Father in heaven, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ we come before You and we plead the blood of Jesus over this mother, her younger daughter, her older daughter and her son. We ask for ministry angels and a hedge of protection to shield them on every side. Lord, grant Your peace to our younger sister today at school, give her a relaxed and peaceful day, grant her favor with teachers and wisdom and knowledge in all her studies. Restore love and respect between her and her brother and remove every voice causing strife and division. Give her wisdom to not be moved from her home, open her eyes to see the hardship to her health, her schedule, her dog and her finances that moving would bring, and keep her content and satisfied where You have placed her. Keep this family in unity, love, peace, gratefulness and respect. Lord, expose and swiftly remove every negative, jealous and persistent influence preying on her, especially this young man and his mother, and block their influence completely from both daughters. Father, we lift the older daughter to You, have mercy on her, convict her heart, draw her to repentance, and deliver her completely from living outside of marriage in fornication, move her away from this toxic relationship to walk in purity and holiness before You. Protect this son from all hatred and every word spoken against him, let no weapon formed against this family prosper, and by Your stripes heal them from every wound of the enemy. We declare complete restoration for every broken relationship in this home according to Your will, and we thank You that nothing is impossible for You. In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.