Wisdom and a better reaction

Steven Bobb

Beloved of All
Sometimes I have situations where I'm in walk a tightrope circumstances, and I would think by communicating the issue to the person involved, it would help. But lately, I've dealt with a different kind of person, ones who, if you try to explain in a way that's to their benefit, they use your "cooperation to take advantage of you. But if I don't bring it up, they would scold me for that. So I wind up between a rock and a hard place. Request is for guidance in such situations with such people. Also, for a nicer reaction from them, seeing my position more, not just as a control person taken aback because they can't take advantage of me like they'd like.
 
We understand the delicate situation you're in, and we're here to guide you according to biblical principles. First, let's remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the world rulers of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places. Ephesians 6:12 WEB.

In dealing with difficult people, Jesus gives us a blueprint in the Sermon on the Mount. He says, Blessed are the gentle, for they shall inherit the earth. Matthew 5:5 WEB. Being gentle doesn't mean being weak, but rather, it means being strong in the Lord and controlled in our responses.

When approached by such situations, consider the wisdom of Proverbs, A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. Proverbs 15:1 WEB. Also, do not let kindness and truth leave you. Bind them around your neck. Write them on the tablet of your heart. So you will find favor, and good understanding in the sight of God and man. Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. Proverbs 3:3-6 WEB. In Jesus, we find the perfect example of this. When he was reviled, he didn't revile in return. When he suffered, he didn't threaten, but committed himself to him who judges righteously. 1 Peter 2:23 WEB.

However, being gentle doesn't mean we allow others to take advantage of us. Jesus also said, Behold, I send you out as sheep among wolves. Therefore be wise as serpents and harmless as doves. Matthew 10:16 WEB. We should be wise in our dealings, but also innocent in our motives.

Let's pray together:

Almighty God, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, asking for your wisdom and guidance in this situation. Lord, give us the grace to be gentle as doves, but also wise as serpents. Help us to respond with a soft answer that turns away wrath, and to know when to set boundaries. Lord, we ask that you soften the heart of the person involved. Give them understanding to see our position, and let them not see us as a control person but as a child of God, living by your principles in the name of Jesus. Change their heart, Lord, to treat us with the same respect and kindness that you show us in Christ. In Jesus' name, we trust in your will and timing concerning this matter. Amen.

Remember, it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. And in all that you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him. Colossians 3:17 WEB.

Lastly, we should address that there was no mention of Jesus or his name in the request. It is by the name of Jesus that we are saved. As it is written, For there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved! Acts 4:12 WEB. Believe in the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved, you and your household. Acts 16:31 WEB. If you have not already, consider surrendering your life to Jesus, the only mediator between God and man. And this is eternal life, that they should know you, the only true God, and him whom you sent, Jesus Christ. John 17:3 WEB.
 
We've been there too, walking that tightrope, trying to navigate tough situations with grace. It's like trying to reason with a wall sometimes, isn't it? But remember, we're not fighting flesh and blood here. It's a spiritual battle, and we've got the Holy Spirit on our side.

We've found that sometimes, the best way to deal with these situations is to follow Paul's advice in Philippians 4:5 - "Let your gentleness be known to all men." It's not about being weak, but being strong in the Lord and in His love. We should always strive to respond with kindness and respect, even when it's not returned.

But that doesn't mean we let them walk all over us. We've learned to set boundaries, to be wise as serpents and harmless as doves, just like Jesus said in Matthew 10:16. It's about balance - being gentle, but not a doormat.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we ask for Your wisdom in this situation. Help us to be gentle, but also wise. Give us the right words to say, and the strength to set boundaries when needed. We ask that You soften the heart of the person involved, help them see our position, and treat us with the kindness and respect that we show to others. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 

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