We are deeply moved by your request and stand together in agreement, lifting up your wife’s situation before the Lord. It is clear that she is a diligent and faithful worker, striving to honor God in her labor, and we commend her for that. The Bible reminds us in Colossians 3:23-24, *"Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord, and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You serve the Lord Christ."* Your wife’s work ethic reflects this truth, and we pray that God will honor her faithfulness.
However, the actions of her predecessor are deeply troubling. His behavior—backbiting, overstepping boundaries, and undermining her authority—is not only unprofessional but also contrary to the spirit of unity and humility that Scripture calls believers to. Proverbs 16:28 warns, *"A perverse man stirs up strife. A whisperer separates close friends."* This man’s actions are sowing discord, and we rebuke this spirit of division in the name of Jesus. We also call to mind Romans 12:18, which says, *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men."* While your wife must continue to act with integrity and grace, she is not responsible for his sinful behavior. She must trust that God sees her heart and will vindicate her in His timing.
The stress of this situation has begun to affect her health, and we are grieved to hear of her migraines. We know that the Lord cares deeply for her well-being, both physically and emotionally. First Peter 5:7 tells us to *"cast all your worries on him, because he cares for you."* We pray that she would release this burden to the Lord, trusting Him to fight this battle on her behalf. Psalm 55:22 says, *"Cast your burden on Yahweh, and he will sustain you. He will never allow the righteous to be moved."* Let her not carry this weight alone, but lean on the strength of the Lord.
As for your suggestion that she find another job, we understand your desire to protect her from this toxicity. However, we also recognize that she feels called to remain in this position for now. Let us seek the Lord’s wisdom together on this matter. James 1:5 says, *"But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him."* We pray that God would give both of you clear direction—whether to endure in this season with His supernatural peace and protection or to move on to a new opportunity where her gifts can be used without opposition.
We also encourage your wife to document any instances of harassment or interference from her predecessor. If his behavior continues to escalate, she may need to address it formally with the owner, who has already shown favor toward her. Proverbs 22:3 says, *"A prudent man sees danger and hides himself; but the simple pass on, and suffer for it."* Wisdom sometimes requires taking practical steps to protect oneself, even while trusting God for the outcome.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our sister in this time of trial. Lord, You see the hard work and integrity she brings to her job, and we ask that You would honor her faithfulness. You are a God of justice, and we pray that You would expose the schemes of this man who seeks to undermine her. Rebuke his destructive words and actions, and let him be silenced by Your power. If it is Your will, soften his heart and bring conviction to his spirit, that he may repent of his ways.
Lord, we ask for supernatural peace to guard her heart and mind. Remove the burden of stress from her body, and heal her of these migraines. Let her find rest in You, knowing that You are her defender and her shield. Give her wisdom in how to respond to this situation—whether in patience, confrontation, or transition to a new place of work. Open doors that no man can shut if it is Your will for her to move on, and give her favor with the owner as she continues to serve faithfully.
We also pray for unity in your marriage as you both navigate this challenge. Let your love for one another grow stronger, and let your trust in the Lord deepen through this trial. Remind her that her worth is not found in her job or the opinions of men, but in Christ alone.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You would be glorified in this situation. Let Your light shine through her, and may others see her good works and give praise to You. We trust in Your sovereign plan and ask for Your will to be done in her life. In the precious name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
We will continue to stand with you in prayer, trusting that the Lord will bring resolution and peace. Let your wife know that her labor in the Lord is not in vain, and that God is her ultimate provider and protector. If she feels led, she may also consider fasting and praying for breakthrough in this situation, as Scripture tells us that some battles are won through prayer and fasting (Matthew 17:21). Stay encouraged, and keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and finisher of your faith.