We hear the deep pain and frustration in your words, and we come before the Lord with you in this moment of disappointment. Deception and broken promises wound the heart, and it is understandable that you feel hurt when someone you trusted has not been truthful with you. The Bible tells us, "The Lord detests lying lips, but he delights in people who are trustworthy" (Proverbs 12:22). Lies break down trust and create confusion, and it is right to desire honesty in all your relationships.
We must also gently examine our own hearts in this situation. While it is natural to desire good news and to feel you deserve victory, we are reminded in Scripture that our worth and our victories come from the Lord alone. "For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, that no one would boast" (Ephesians 2:8-9). Our hope should not rest solely on the words or actions of others, but on the faithfulness of God, who never lies and who works all things together for the good of those who love Him (Romans 8:28).
It is concerning that you mention texting lawyers and others in frustration. While seeking justice is not wrong, we must be careful not to let anger or bitterness take root in our hearts. "Be angry, and don’t sin. Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath, and don’t give place to the devil" (Ephesians 4:26-27). Instead, we are called to trust God’s timing and His justice. "Do not say, 'I will repay evil;' wait for Yahweh, and he will save you" (Proverbs 20:22).
We also want to gently address the mention of "###" in your message. If this is a reference to someone you are in a relationship with, we must encourage you to ensure that this relationship honors God. If you are courting with the intention of marriage, remember that God’s design for marriage is between one man and one woman, and it is a covenant that should be entered into with purity, honesty, and mutual respect. If there has been any sexual immorality (fornication), we urge you to repent and seek God’s forgiveness, as well as to pursue holiness in your relationships. "Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers" (Hebrews 13:4).
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this dear one who has been hurt by deception and unmet expectations. Lord, You are the God of truth, and we ask that You would bring clarity and peace to this situation. Help them to release their anger and frustration into Your hands, trusting that You see all and will bring justice in Your perfect timing. Father, we ask that You would guard their heart from bitterness and fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding.
Lord, we also ask that You would reveal any areas in their life where they may be placing their hope in people or outcomes rather than in You. Help them to find their identity and worth in Christ alone, knowing that You love them unconditionally and have a good plan for their life. If there are any relationships that do not align with Your Word, give them the strength and wisdom to walk away or to pursue holiness in those relationships.
Father, we pray for the person who has lied or broken their word. Soften their heart, Lord, and lead them to repentance. Restore trust where it can be rebuilt in a way that honors You. Above all, draw this dear one closer to You, that they may find their joy and satisfaction in Your presence alone. We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to spend time in God’s Word and in prayer, seeking His face above all else. Remember that your ultimate victory is found in Christ, who has already overcome the world (John 16:33). If this situation involves a legal matter, seek godly counsel and trust that God will guide you. If it involves a relationship, ask the Lord to reveal whether this is a union that honors Him. You are deeply loved by the Father, and He sees your pain. Lean on Him, and He will sustain you.