🙏 What to Say AND How to Say It, Jn 12:49; Grace to Fast, Isa 58:6-14; Gracious, Comforting Words, Zech 1:13, Comfort, Isa 40:1-2; Tenderly, Hos 2:14

[Nochaeld]

What to Say and How to Say It, Jn 12:49; Grace to Fast, Isa 58:6-14; Gracious Words, Comforting Words, Zech 1:13, Comfort My People, Speak tenderly to Jerusalem, Isa 40:1-2; Speak to Her Heart in The Wilderness, Hosea 2:14...

Father, I'd like what Jesus said to be my prayer, "I don’t speak on My own authority. The Father who sent Me commands me what to say and how to say it," John 12:49 [1]. May I speak truth the right way (in love, humility and kindness) at the right time (when one isn't tired or in the right place to receive it), Prov 25:11, Thank You and you all in Jesus' Name.

I need to know what to say and how to say it, John 12:49. Like apples of gold in settings of silver, so is the right word at the right time, Prov 25:11 I know You will not give up on my wife -- Don’t allow me to give up on the one I love and am ready and willing to forgive... But without confession we can only go so far -- even YOU don't forgive people who don't confess, 1 Jn 1:9, and Your instruction to Peter in Luke is based on someone who CAME to HIM and SAYS, I REPENT -- Luke 17:3-4. So help us live in an understanding way with her, and let her see to it she respects me, but as it's evident there is no fruit for You, let me speak timely words and serve her tenderly, yet not be taken advantage of, but quietly win her over as if I were a woman with an unsaved husband, 1 Peter 3:1-2, 3-4, 5-6, 7-8, 9.

It was while they were ministering to the Lord and fasting -- please help me hunger and thirst for righteousness in these situation, and help others share this burden with me for her, me, our child, the entire situation and all that’s transpired, good, bad and ugly, to be turned for glory, praise and honor, Isa 58:6-7, 8-9, 10-11, 11-12, 13-14.

As the early church said, "fasting and giving lends wings to our prayers." The Truth is the same yesterday, but today and forever, Heb 13:8. Please grant powerful grace and strength within me, grant grace to humble my soul with fasting, to CONTROL THE TONGUE with SAYING TRUTH, sanctifying residual pockets of darkness with light, helping the word become flesh, as John says, John 1:14, to love You AND my NEIGHBOR (how much more my wife and children) with ALL my heart, soul, mind, will, emotions, physical strength and finances -- my thoughts, words, deeds, actions and especially my reactions -- let the word be engrafted as explained by James 1:22-23.

I've been sinned against A LOT by her and her family -- remove any and ALL unforgiveness and forgive me for harboring any -- again I'm still being lied to and nothing's been confessed and repented of... Salvation is still needed, 2 Tim 2:4, repentance isn't optional, 2 Pet 3:9 -- but please help me say TRUTH in LOVE, Eph 4:15, "filled with GRACE and truth, John 1:14.

Place and use the love of Jesus in me to publicly demonstrate true love of the gospel, Gal 3:1. Let me model it and teach it to myself, her, every family member, those near and dear and those far off and beyond to extended family, friends especially any who might consider me an enemy -- let me be a living ambassador Your love to be known and read by all people groups, everywhere, 2 Cor 3:2, “What to say and how to say it,” John 12:49 [1].

Do not take us out of the world, but keep us from the evil one, John 17:15. Sanctify us by the truth; Your Word is truth, John 17:17. Because I LOVE her, let me wash her with the water of the word to be a bride ready for her husband, Eph 5:25-26, 27 -- and if she could help out by reading the word and preparing herself also, Rev 19:7-8, it would be both helpful and fitting (wholly within bounds of Scripture). I'd also like to have a little respect since it's a picture of Christ and the Church Eph 5:32:33 -- hopefully we don't sit around all day, expect Christ to die for us over and over, Heb 10:26, and disrespect him and do the opposite of what he asks us, Matt 7:21, -- hopefully we don't expect him to say "how high" and don't expect to command Him to jump... We are not stronger than He, correct? 1 Cor 10:22.

Keep her, them and us from evil people, 2 Thes 3:2, temptation, Matt 6:13, sin Zeph 3:13 and the evil one, Matt 6:13. Thank you for the angels in advance -- they're real and really do get sent ahead, Heb 13, and thank You in advance for the fact "You like to make their faces change," in Jesus' Name.

 

[Articles]

We hear your heart’s cry, brother, and we stand with you in prayer, lifting up your marriage, your wife, and your family before the throne of grace. Your desire to speak truth in love, to walk in wisdom, and to reflect Christ in every word and action is deeply commendable. You are not alone in this battle—we join you in seeking the Lord’s guidance, strength, and healing for your home.

First, we must acknowledge the weight of your words: *"I don’t speak on My own authority. The Father who sent Me commands me what to say and how to say it"* (John 12:49). This is our standard as well. Every word we speak must be rooted in God’s Word, spoken in His timing, and seasoned with grace. Proverbs 25:11 reminds us, *"A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver."* But how do we know when and how to speak? The Holy Spirit must guide us, for even the right word spoken in the wrong spirit or at the wrong time can do more harm than good. We pray that the Lord would give you supernatural discernment to know when to speak, when to listen, and when to remain silent, trusting Him to work in ways you cannot see.

Your longing for your wife’s repentance and restoration is godly, but we must also address the tension in your request. You rightly note that *"if we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness"* (1 John 1:9). Yet you also express frustration that there has been no confession, no repentance. This is a painful reality many believers face, and we must guard our hearts against bitterness or despair. Forgiveness is not contingent on the other person’s repentance—Christ forgave us while we were still sinners (Romans 5:8). However, reconciliation *is* contingent on repentance. You can forgive her in your heart, but true restoration of the marriage requires her to turn from sin and seek the Lord. We rebuke the enemy’s lies that would tell you to give up or that your prayers are in vain. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted, and He hears the cries of His children (Psalm 34:18).

We also must gently but firmly address the imbalance in your expectations. You speak of loving your wife as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25), which is right and good. But you also express frustration that she does not respect you as Scripture commands (Ephesians 5:33). While it is true that wives are called to respect their husbands, we must remember that our primary responsibility is to *love* as Christ loved—sacrificially, patiently, and without condition. Christ did not wait for the church to "earn" His love before He laid down His life for her. We are called to do the same. This does not mean enabling sin or tolerating abuse, but it does mean extending grace even when it is not reciprocated. We pray that the Lord would soften your wife’s heart and that He would give you the strength to love her as He does, even in this difficult season.

Your desire to fast and seek the Lord is powerful. Isaiah 58:6-9 declares that true fasting loosens the bonds of wickedness, undoes heavy burdens, and lets the oppressed go free. Fasting is not about manipulating God but about humbling ourselves before Him, aligning our hearts with His, and seeking His intervention. We join you in fasting and prayer for your wife’s salvation, for your marriage’s restoration, and for the Lord to turn every trial into a testimony of His glory. May the Lord grant you and those who stand with you a hunger for righteousness that surpasses all else (Matthew 5:6).

We must also address the pain of being sinned against. You have carried the weight of lies, betrayal, and unrepentance, and it is right to bring these wounds before the Lord. But we rebuke the spirit of unforgiveness in Jesus’ name. Holding onto bitterness will only poison your own soul. Colossians 3:13 commands us, *"Bear with one another, and forgive each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do."* This does not mean pretending the sin did not happen, but it does mean releasing the offender to God’s justice and choosing to walk in freedom. We pray that the Lord would heal your heart and replace every bitter root with His peace.

Your reference to 1 Peter 3:1-2 is wise. You are called to live in such a way that your wife may be won over *"without a word, by the behavior of their wives, seeing your pure behavior in fear."* This does not mean you should never speak truth, but it does mean that your actions must back up your words. Your life should be a living testimony of Christ’s love, patience, and holiness. We pray that the Lord would help you to walk in integrity, humility, and grace, even when it is not reciprocated.

Finally, we must address the foundation of our faith. You have prayed in Jesus’ name, and we rejoice in that, for there is no other name by which we can approach the Father (John 14:6). But we must also remind you—and ourselves—that salvation comes through faith in Jesus Christ alone. Your wife’s need is not just for repentance from specific sins but for a saving relationship with Christ. We pray that the Lord would draw her to Himself, that she would see her need for a Savior, and that she would turn to Him with all her heart. Until then, we trust in His timing and His perfect will.

Let us pray:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this brother, his wife, and their marriage. Lord, You see the pain, the frustration, and the longing for restoration. We ask that You would give him the words to speak and the wisdom to know when to speak them, just as You commanded Your Son. Let every word he utters be seasoned with grace and truth, spoken in love and humility.

Father, we pray for his wife. Soften her heart, Lord. Break through the hardness, the lies, and the deception that have taken root. Draw her to Yourself, that she may know You as Savior and Lord. If there is sin in her life, convict her by Your Holy Spirit, and lead her to repentance. Restore her to a right relationship with You and with her husband.

We rebuke the enemy’s schemes to destroy this marriage. We declare that no weapon formed against it shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Lord, heal the wounds, mend the brokenness, and turn every trial into a testimony of Your faithfulness. Give this brother the strength to love as Christ loved, to forgive as he has been forgiven, and to walk in purity and holiness.

We pray for their child, that You would surround this little one with Your peace and protection. May this child see Christ in both parents and grow to know and love You.

Lord, we join this brother in fasting and prayer. Stir in us a hunger for righteousness, a passion for Your Word, and a dependence on Your Spirit. Let our prayers and our lives be a fragrant offering to You.

We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, for there is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved. May Your will be done in this marriage, in this family, and in every life touched by this trial. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We stand with you, dear friend, in the midst of this trial. We've been reflecting on your situation and feel led to share a few more thoughts with you.

Firstly, we're reminded of the apostle Paul's words in Philippians 4:7, "And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." Trust that even in the midst of this storm, God's peace is with you and your family. Cling to this promise, and let it guide your steps.

Secondly, we're struck by the power of humility. You've expressed a desire to speak truth in love, and we commend you for this. However, we're also reminded of the importance of humility in our speech. James 1:19-20 tells us, "Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to anger; for your anger does not produce God’s righteousness." Let us strive to listen more than we speak, to understand before we seek to be understood.

Thirdly, we're encouraged by the story of Esther. In the face of great adversity, she found favor not just because of her beauty, but because of her courage and wisdom. She knew when to speak and when to remain silent. She trusted in God's timing and His will. Let us, too, trust in God's perfect plan for your marriage and your family.

Lastly, we're reminded of the power of prayer. In Matthew 7:7-8, Jesus tells us, "Ask, and it will be given you; search, and you will find; knock, and the door will be opened for you. For everyone who asks receives, and everyone who searches finds, and for everyone who knocks, the door will be opened." Keep knocking, dear friend. Keep asking. Keep searching. God hears your cries, and He will answer.

We continue to lift you and your family up in prayer. We ask that God would give you the words to speak, the wisdom to know when to speak them, and the humility to listen when it's time to be silent. We ask that He would soften your wife's heart, that He would draw her to Himself, and that He would restore your marriage according to His will. We ask all these things in Jesus' name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Sparklee]

Father, please meet deepest spiritual, physical, emotional, financial needs according to Your Will and timing in Jesus Name Amen
"May the Lord bless you and protect you. May the Lord smile on you and be gracious to you. May the Lord show you his favor and give you his peace." Numbers 6:24-26

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body​

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

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[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Finding Life and Salvation in Christ: A Roadmap

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.