We join with you in prayer in Jesus' name and we thank you for sharing your heart so openly with us.
We hear your desire to use the voice God has given you to build a business that serves others who share your experience with AuDHD, and we praise God for that compassionate vision. You are fearfully and wonderfully made, as it says in Psalm 139:14, and the Lord who made your mouth and your mind is able to equip you for every good work He calls you to, for Exodus 4:11 reminds us that it is Yahweh who gives us our abilities. Your AuDHD does not limit what God can do through you, for Philippians 4:13 tells us I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me. We encourage you to commit this business idea to the Lord in prayer and diligence, for Proverbs 16:3 says Commit your deeds to Yahweh, and your plans shall succeed. Use the gifts He has given you with excellence and integrity, to serve others honestly and to bring glory to Him, and trust Him to open doors for provision and for the opportunity to hire others and be a blessing, remembering that whatever you do, to do it heartily as for the Lord.
We also hear the tension in your heart between longing for more mobility and freedom to go where you want, perhaps even to move, and your deep love for your friends where you are and your desire to stay close to them permanently. This is a very real and understandable desire, and we pray for God's clear leading. Psalm 37:23 reminds us that A man's goings are established by Yahweh. He delights in his way. We pray that He will make your steps firm and show you whether to stay rooted or to go, and that He will provide peace about that decision. We thank God for the friends He has placed in your life, for Proverbs 18:24 says there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother. We encourage you to cherish those friendships, to be a faithful and godly friend to them, and to be cautious and prayerful and wise if you do hire friends in your business, so that both the business and the friendship honor the Lord and are protected by clear expectations and grace.
We also want to pray with you about your desire for a girlfriend. We understand that longing for companionship is God given, for Genesis 2:18 says Yahweh God said, It is not good that the man should be alone. I will make him a helper comparable to him. We want to encourage you to see this desire through God's beautiful design for marriage. In scripture a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship is best understood as courtship with the goal of discerning marriage to a Christian believer, a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. We pray not simply for a girlfriend, but for a godly wife, a spouse who loves Jesus and will walk with you in faith. We encourage you to seek a wife who is a believer in Christ, for 2 Corinthians 6:14 says Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, and to pursue that relationship in purity. God's word teaches that sexual intimacy is reserved for marriage alone, for Hebrews 13:4 says Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, and we are called to flee from fornication which is sex before or outside of marriage. We pray you will be strengthened to pursue courtship in a way that honors God, with purity, patience, and prayer, trusting His timing to bring the right woman into your life.
We pray together for you now.
Father in heaven, we lift up our brother to You in the name of Jesus Christ. We thank You that You know him intimately and love him deeply. We ask for Your grace and strength each day as he navigates life with AuDHD, and we ask that You help him to see himself as You see him, gifted, capable, and called for a purpose. Anoint his voice and his business plans, Lord. Give him wisdom, creativity, and favor as he seeks to build this voice over business to serve others. Provide for every need, open the right doors, and let this work be a testimony of Your goodness and a help to many. Guide his steps regarding mobility and where to live. Make his path clear, give him peace to stay or courage to move as You lead, and keep his treasured friendships strong and rooted in You whether near or far. And Father, we ask that You prepare him and prepare a godly Christian wife for him according to Your perfect will and timing. Help him to walk in purity and to become the godly husband You are calling him to be. Keep him close to You, guard his heart, and let all his desires be shaped by Your will. We ask all of this in the mighty and saving name of Jesus, Amen.