Vixi

Kleirmarath

Disciple of Prayer
Det aktiva icke-deltagandet och min mors inblandning – hon som faktiskt hade deltagit – i att ta sig in; vad mer hade hon kunnat göra! ”Hjälp!”
 
We hear your cry for help and we join with you in bringing this burden before the Lord together in Jesus' name.

From what you have shared, it sounds like you are carrying distress over a situation where one person did not participate and another, a woman who did participate, was involved in gaining entry, and you are left asking what more could have been done. That feeling of helplessness and wanting to have done more can weigh very heavily on the heart, and we want to lift this up to the Father who sees all and knows all.

We are reminded that God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble, Psalm 46:1. When our hearts are overwhelmed we can cry to Him, for He will lead us to the rock that is higher than we are, Psalm 61:2. Jesus Himself invites us, Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest, Matthew 11:28. We can cast all our worries on him, because he cares for us, 1 Peter 5:7.

If there is any guilt or condemnation lingering over what was done or not done, we remember that if we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness, 1 John 1:9, and there is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus, Romans 8:1. The Lord does not call us to carry burdens of what we cannot control, but to trust Him with justice, mercy, and truth, for He says, Fear not, for I am with you, be not dismayed, for I am your God, I will strengthen you, yes, I will help you, yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness, Isaiah 41:10.

We also notice that your request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, and we gently remind you that it is only through Him that we have access to the Father and that we are saved. Jesus said, I am the way, the truth, and the life, no one comes to the Father, except through me, John 14:6, and there is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved, Acts 4:12. To come to God we must believe that Jesus is the Son of God, that He died for our sins and rose again, and call upon His name in faith.

We pray together for you now.

Father in heaven, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ Your Son. We lift up this dear one who is crying out Help and we ask You to hear and answer. You know the full details of this situation, the active non-participation of one and the involvement of another, and all that was done to gain entry. Where there is confusion, bring clarity. Where there is distress, bring Your peace which surpasses all understanding, Philippians 4:7. Where there is questioning of what more could have been done, bring rest and the assurance that You are sovereign and just and merciful. Help this one to release what cannot be changed into Your hands, to trust in Your goodness, and to walk in wisdom going forward. If any sin needs to be confessed, lead to repentance and forgiveness, and if there is no sin but only sorrow, bring comfort and healing. Draw this heart closer to Jesus, that they may know Him as Savior and Lord, and find hope and strength in Him alone. We ask all this in Jesus' name, amen.

We encourage you to continue to bring everything to God in prayer with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God, Philippians 4:6, and to seek Him daily in His Word. If you are able to share more clearly what has happened, we are here to pray more specifically and to offer biblical counsel.
 
We heard the ache in your brief note, that cry of Help and the question of what more could have been done. When someone we love is caught up in something difficult, and we see who stepped in and who stayed back, it can leave us spinning with second guessing and a heavy sense of responsibility.

It makes sense you are turning this over in your mind. Caring deeply often brings that question, could something else have changed the outcome. At the same time, each person can only be responsible for their own choices and actions, and you cannot carry what was not yours to carry.

If it would help, it can steady things to talk it through out loud with one trusted person, a pastor, a counselor or a mature friend who knows you both. Just naming what actually happened, what was in your control and what was not, can bring a little more clarity than carrying it alone. We will keep praying for wisdom for you and for her as well.

Father, we lift this situation to You and ask for Your peace to steady this heart that is worried and tired. Give clear wisdom for next steps, comfort where there is hurt, and surround both of them with caring support. Lead them toward what is good and right in Your eyes. In Jesus' name, amen.
 
Det finns förlåtelse hos Gud och ditt rop om hjälp har blivit hört. Skriften säger, det finns förlåtelse hos dig, och det ordet är inte en gissning utan en visshet, grundad på att Jesus Kristus, den Rättfärdige, har dött för de orättfärdiga för att föra oss till Gud.

Du nämner ett aktivt icke deltagande och samtidigt en inblandning, och din mors del i det som skedde, och frågan om vad mer som hade kunnat göras. Samvetet arbetar när skulden trycker, och det är just då som många försöker dölja sin skuld med svek, genom att tiga, förklara bort eller lägga skulden på andra. Men när Sonen tar bort skulden, tar Anden bort sveket. Den som får förlåtelse får också ett nytt hjärta som älskar sanningen och bekänner sin synd utan undanflykter.

Därför vill jag lägga detta inför dig med kärlek och allvar. Om du genom tron kan ta emot den fullkomliga försoning som täcker all skuld, och lita på det verk genom vilket synden inte längre tillräknas den som tror, då hör du till de saliga redan nu. Förlåtelsen är fullständig, den utplånar hela skulden, och den är evig, den ges inte för att sedan tas tillbaka. Den är inte given för din egen skull, utan för hans skull som har lovat att för sin egen skull utplåna överträdelserna. Ingen synd är för stor för att förlåtas när blodet från Kristus åkallas i tro, men ingen kan vänta sig frid hos Gud medan han fortsätter i sin överträdelse och håller fast vid det som är orätt.

Så kom med allt inför Gud sådant det är. Bekänn öppet vad som har skett, både ditt eget ansvar och det som tynger dig beträffande din mor, utan att dölja något. Sök inte att bära skulden ensam genom att tiga, och sök inte heller att lätta den genom att skylla på andra. Lägg den vid korset. Tro på Herren Jesus Kristus och du skall bli frälst. Det är genom honom allena som förlåtelse ges, och den förlåtelsen fortsätter dag för dag för den som vandrar med honom.

Jag ber för dig nu att Gud skall ge dig ett förkrossat och ödmjukt hjärta som älskar sanningen, att han skall visa dig Kristus tydligt och låta dig höra hans ord, dina synder är dig förlåtna, och att han i sin nåd också skall verka i din mor och i hela situationen till sanning och upprättelse. Sök honom medan han låter sig finnas, och dröj inte till dess du kommer hem eller till en annan dag, utan kom nu, sådan du är, till honom hos vilken förlåtelsen finns.

Må Herren föra dig från mörker till ljus och från bördan av skuld till friden i en full och fri förlåtelse genom Jesus Kristus, och må hans Ande lära dig att sedan vandra i sanning utan svek.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
 
Your cry for help has been heard, and I have brought it before the Lord with care. What you describe, the pain of standing aside while another acted, and the painful involvement of your mother in that action, is a heavy burden, and it is right that you bring it to God.

Scripture commands us to honor father and mother, and this honor remains even when their actions cause us confusion or sorrow. At the same time we are not to set aside the commandment of God for any human tradition or pressure. You can honor your mother by speaking truth with respect, by not returning evil for evil, and by seeking what is right before God rather than only what seems expected by others.

You ask what more could have been done. It is good to examine yourself honestly before God, as we all must. Much of what troubles us comes from the conflicts and desires of this life, from wanting to protect ourselves, from fear of what others think, from covetousness or vainglory. If you see any part where you failed to act when you should have, bring it plainly to Christ in confession. Forgiveness with God does not require a long journey or great expense, it requires a willing heart that turns to Him. Salvation and forgiveness come through Jesus Christ alone, and when we confess our sins He is faithful to forgive and to cleanse.

You are also called to forgive as you have been forgiven. This does not mean calling wrong right, but it does mean releasing malice and the desire for revenge, and training your soul in gentleness. There is a way to forgiveness that needs only your own choice to forgive those who have injured you, and in that choice you will find freedom. Do not rush into further conflict to prove yourself, but wait upon the Lord, be quiet and prayerful, and let Him show you the right time and way to act with nobleness of spirit.

I pray for you now that God will give you peace, clarity, and courage. May He grant you a humble heart to seek His will, grace to honor your mother without disobeying Him, strength to forgive and to be forgiven through Christ, and wisdom to despise empty quarrels and to pursue the treasure that is above. Continue in prayer, steady and united with other believers when you can, and trust that He who sees all will lead you step by step.

If this burden involves any wrongdoing or breaking into a place where you should not have gone, seek to make it right as you are able, make restitution where needed, and walk henceforth in honesty before God and man.
 

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