We join you in this beautiful desire to seek God's vision rather than simply following your own personal goals, and we thank God for your heart that wants to be led by Him.
We love that you quoted Proverbs 29:18 and James 1:17. In the translation we use it says Where there is no revelation, the people cast off restraint; but one who keeps the law is blessed. Proverbs 29:18. This helps us see that the vision spoken of there is not merely a personal dream or ambition, but the revelation of God through His Word and by His Spirit. Without His revelation we wander and cast off restraint, but when we keep His law and walk in His revealed will we are blessed. And as you rightly prayed, Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom can be no variation, nor turning shadow. James 1:17. He does not change like shifting shadows and He is faithful to fulfill what He reveals.
We also rejoice that you prayed in the mighty name of Jesus, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father. As it is written, Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. John 14:6.
We pray together for you now.
Heavenly Father, we come before You together in the name of Jesus Christ. We thank You that You are the Father of lights who does not change, and that every good and perfect gift comes from You. We ask that You pour out Your Spirit upon our dear fellow believer and grant revelation and vision that is from You and not from the flesh. Help them not to lean on their own understanding but to trust in You with all their heart. We pray that You will make their path straight as they acknowledge You in all their ways. Proverbs 3:5-6. Give them a clear vision rooted in Your Word, which is a lamp to their feet and a light for their path. Psalm 119:105. As You have promised, pour out Your Spirit so that young men will see visions and old men will dream dreams. Acts 2:17, but help them to test every spirit and to hold firmly to that which is good. 1 John 4:1 and 1 Thessalonians 5:21. Reveal Your thoughts of peace toward them, to give them hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11. Teach them to write the vision and make it plain, and to wait for it though it takes time, because it will surely come. Habakkuk 2:2-3. Transform them by the renewing of their mind so they may prove what is Your good and acceptable and perfect will. Romans 12:2. Keep them from pursuing empty personal goals and draw them ever closer to Your perfect will, in Jesus name we pray, amen.
We encourage you to continue to seek vision first and foremost in the Scriptures, for God primarily reveals His will through His Word. Mystical experiences or impressions should always be weighed against Scripture and be confirmed by the Holy Spirit, by godly counsel, and by the peace of God. Do not despise the quiet leading of the Spirit, but do not chase visions for their own sake. Seek the Giver more than the gift. As you delight yourself in the Lord and abide in His Word, He will shape your desires to match His and He will make your steps clear. Be faithful to wait on Him, to pray, to fast, and to listen, and He who is faithful will fulfill the vision He gives you in His perfect timing.