🕊️Video Time w/Descendent, Holy Spirit Convicts, Jn 16:18, Matrimonial Repents 2 Pet 3:9 🙏Godly Sorrow—>Repentance unto Life w/o Regret 2 Cor 7:1

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Video Time w/Descendent, Holy Spirit Convicts, Jn 16:18, Matrimonial Repents 2 Pet 3:9 Godly Sorrow —> Repentance unto Life w/o Regret 2 Cor 7:10... Father, thank you that as much in us is able, we forgive her for keeping my son from videoing with me then (months of his life I barely got to see him during that time -- I'll never get that back -- but the real pain is it's been ongoing -- only 2X in 3 weeks then only one time at church on EASTER SUNDAY for 1 minute where he was happy to see me — showing me drums, instruments… Then only 7 minutes for an obligatory video with him while at my elderly parents -- so 8 minutes in 2 months -- Father I want time with my young descendent...

Another cross to bear is other "passive aggressiveness," "silence" and "pictures" sent to others and taken with others, "suggestive online profile"-- We had trained counsellors who wanted us to come aside and give us guidance and accountability… I really loved her and really love my son, and this was CLEARLY God's will... In the presence of two or three witnesses let every fact be confirmed, 2 Cor 13:1, we were married in front of many... "But the Pharisees and the lawyers rejected the purpose of God, not being baptized by John themselves," Luke 7:30.

Please Lord, SAVE HER so we can be EQUALLY YOKED for Your Kingdom, Matt 6:33, RAISE OUR SON with RESPECT for YOU, Eph 6:4, Your WAYS and for The Marriage Covenant (Christ and The Church, Eph 5:32-33), and BIBLICAL ORDER, 1 Cor 11:3, 1 Pet 3:1-7; Gen 2:18… "Nevertheless, not my will but yours be done," Luke 22:42.

IN UNITY We submit to YOU as the CHURCH that You have BUILT that the GATES of HELL CANNOT WITHSTAND, Matt 16:16-17, and RESIST the DEVIL, James 4:7… FLEE from her, me, him, us!!! -- In JESUS’ NAME…

Take away “false security” of eternal life — Allow it to become REAL, EVERLASTING CHANGE, Repentance unto life, saving grace, and renewing of the mind, proving what the will of God really is, Rom 12:2-3. Let her change, humble her, let things crash down if need be all around her as the earthquakes and typhoons shook her up back in October and November… But we learn from Elijah sometimes "Power Encounters" are short lived, and RELATIONSHIP with the "Still, small voice" of the Holy Spirit that gave him grace to obey the LORD and come out of the cave to speak with God, see 1 Kings 19:1-19, especially 1 Kings 19:11-12, 13 for the "gentle blowing of the still, small voice" eliciting Elijah to stop running and obey the Lord...

And let me continue to pray fervently and fast diligently — and LOVE HER and speak tenderly (to her heart) -- Hos 2:14 -- she will "perish" without repentance, but that's not YOUR will, LORD, and DEFINITELY not mine — “God is not slow toward us, but patient, not willing any should PERISH, but all come to REPENTANCE — 2 Peter 3:9 (metanoia — intense change of mind about sin — independence, lying, stealing, cheating are NOT "cool")... Also, statistically will have a better chance of being saved with having his real Dad raise him in the training and instruction of the Lord, Eph 6:4. It should be that “from infancy he knows the Holy Scriptures which are able to give us the wisdom needed for salvation, since all Scripture is inspired by God, 2 Tim 3:15-16. Thank You for hearing this prayer that’s in accordance with Your Will, 1 Jn 5:14-15, for it’s Your desire All are saved and come to the knowledge of The Truth, 1 Tim 2:4 — and for Your glory and a testimony of Your mercy we agree in Jesus’ Name…

 

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We hear the deep anguish in your heart, dear brother, as you pour out your pain over the separation from your son and the brokenness in your marriage. Your love for them both is evident, as is your longing for restoration that aligns with God’s will. We stand with you in this burden, lifting it before the throne of grace, where mercy and help are found in time of need.

First, we must address the foundation of all our prayers and hopes—Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to the Father, and there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). Your prayer acknowledges this, and we affirm that all our intercession is rooted in His finished work on the cross. If your wife has not yet surrendered her life to Christ, we pray fervently that the Holy Spirit would convict her of sin, righteousness, and judgment (John 16:8), just as you have asked. The Lord is patient, not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9). We join you in praying that she would experience godly sorrow that leads to repentance without regret (2 Corinthians 7:10), turning fully to Christ and embracing the transformation only He can bring.

The pain of being kept from your son is profound, and we grieve with you over the time lost that can never be reclaimed. Yet we are reminded that God works all things together for good for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose (Romans 8:28). Even in this hardship, He is at work. We pray that the Lord would soften her heart and open doors for you to have meaningful time with your son, not just in fleeting moments but in ways that allow you to disciple him in the truth of God’s Word. Fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4). This is your God-given responsibility, and we stand with you in claiming it.

The concerns you raise about her behavior—passive-aggressiveness, silence, suggestive online activity—are serious matters that do not reflect the holiness and commitment of a godly marriage. Marriage is a covenant, a sacred bond between one man and one woman, reflecting Christ’s relationship with the Church (Ephesians 5:31-33). When one partner strays from this covenant, it brings deep pain and dishonor to God’s design. We rebuke in Jesus’ name any spirit of rebellion, deception, or unfaithfulness that may be at work in her life. The Lord hates divorce (Malachi 2:16), but He also hates sin that defiles the marriage bed. We pray that she would be convicted by the Holy Spirit, as you’ve asked, and that she would turn from any behavior that dishonors God and your marriage.

You have rightly sought counsel and accountability, and we commend you for this. Where two or three are gathered in His name, He is there in the midst (Matthew 18:20). We encourage you to continue in this, leaning on godly wisdom and not your own understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6). The Lord sees your obedience and your heart to walk in His ways, even when it is costly.

We also lift up your son, who is caught in the middle of this brokenness. Children are a heritage from the Lord (Psalm 127:3), and it is our prayer that he would come to know the Lord deeply and walk in His truth. From infancy, you have the opportunity to teach him the Scriptures, which are able to make him wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus (2 Timothy 3:15). We pray that the Lord would protect his heart and mind, shielding him from confusion and drawing him to Himself. May he grow in respect for God, for you, and for the sanctity of marriage as he sees it lived out in truth.

You have asked the Lord to humble her, even if it means allowing circumstances to shake her. We echo this prayer, trusting that the Lord disciplines those He loves (Hebrews 12:6). Sometimes the still, small voice of the Holy Spirit (1 Kings 19:12) is what breaks through the hardness of heart, and we pray that she would hear it clearly. Let her be drawn back to the Lord, not by force or manipulation, but by the gentle leading of the Spirit.

We also lift you up, dear brother. The pain you carry is heavy, and we pray that the Lord would sustain you, giving you strength for each day. Your love for your wife, though tested, is a testimony to Christ’s love for the Church—a love that is patient, kind, and hopes all things (1 Corinthians 13:7). We encourage you to continue speaking tenderly to her heart (Hosea 2:14), even as you stand firm in truth. Your prayers and fasting are powerful and effective (James 5:16), and we believe the Lord is moving even now.

Finally, we pray for unity in the body of Christ. The gates of hell shall not prevail against the Church (Matthew 16:18), and we stand together in resisting the enemy’s schemes. We rebuke any spirit of division, bitterness, or unforgiveness that may seek to take root in your heart. Forgive as the Lord has forgiven you (Colossians 3:13), and trust Him to bring justice and restoration in His perfect timing.

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this brother, his wife, and their son. Lord, You see the pain, the brokenness, and the longing for restoration. We ask that You would move mightily in this situation, convicting hearts of sin and drawing them back to You. Father, we pray for this wife, that she would experience godly sorrow leading to repentance, turning fully to Christ and embracing the life You have for her. Soften her heart, Lord, and let her hear Your still, small voice calling her home.

For this son, we pray that You would guard his heart and mind, drawing him to You from his earliest days. May he grow in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man (Luke 2:52). Give this father the opportunity to disciple him in Your truth, that he may know the Scriptures and walk in Your ways.

Lord, we ask for restoration in this marriage, not just for their sake, but for Your glory. Let this family be a testimony of Your mercy, grace, and power to redeem. Where there has been sin, bring repentance. Where there has been division, bring unity. Where there has been pain, bring healing. And where there has been distance, bring closeness—both with You and with one another.

Strengthen this brother, Lord. Sustain him in his prayers, his fasting, and his love for his family. Let him not grow weary in doing good, for in due season he will reap if he does not faint (Galatians 6:9). Fill him with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7), and let him rest in the knowledge that You are working all things together for good.

We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name, the only name by which we are saved. May Your will be done in this family, and may Your name be glorified. Amen.

 

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Dear brother, we feel your pain and the longing for restoration in your marriage and relationship with your son. We stand with you in prayer, lifting up your situation to the Lord.

We agree with you that the foundation of all our prayers and hopes is Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to the Father, and there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). We join you in asking the Lord to save your wife, if she has not yet surrendered her life to Christ, and to convict her of sin, righteousness, and judgment (John 16:8).

The pain of being kept from your son is indeed profound, and we grieve with you over the time lost that can never be reclaimed. Yet, we are reminded that God works all things together for good for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose (Romans 8:28). Even in this hardship, He is at work. We pray that the Lord would soften her heart and open doors for you to have meaningful time with your son, not just in fleeting moments, but in ways that allow you to disciple him in the truth of God's Word. Fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4). This is your God-given responsibility, and we stand with you in claiming it.

The concerns you raise about her behavior - passive-aggressiveness, silence, suggestive online activity - are serious matters that do not reflect the holiness and commitment of a godly marriage. Marriage is a covenant, a sacred bond between one man and one woman, reflecting Christ's relationship with the Church (Ephesians 5:31-33). When one partner strays from this covenant, it brings deep pain and dishonor to God's design. We rebuke, in Jesus' name, any spirit of rebellion, deception, or unfaithfulness that may be at work in her life. The Lord hates divorce (Malachi 2:16), but He also hates sin that defiles the marriage bed. We pray that she would be convicted by the Holy Spirit, as you've asked, and that she would turn from any behavior that dishonors God and your marriage.

You have rightly sought counsel and accountability, and we commend you for this. Where two or three are gathered in His name, He is there in the midst (Matthew 18:20). We encourage you to continue in this, leaning on godly wisdom and not your own understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6). The Lord sees your obedience and your heart to walk in His ways, even when it is costly.

We also lift up your son, who is caught in the middle of this brokenness. Children are a heritage from the Lord (Psalm 127:3), and it is our prayer that he would come to know the Lord deeply and walk in His truth. From infancy, you have the opportunity to teach him the Scriptures, which are able to make him wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus (2 Timothy 3:15). We pray that the Lord would protect his heart and mind, shielding him from confusion and drawing him to Himself. May he grow in respect for God, for you, and for the sanctity of marriage as he sees it lived out in truth.

You have asked the Lord to humble her, even if it means allowing circumstances to shake her. We echo this prayer, trusting that the Lord disciplines those He loves (Hebrews 12:6). Sometimes, the still, small voice of the Holy Spirit (1 Kings 19:12) is what breaks through the hardness of heart, and we pray that she would hear it clearly. Let her be drawn back to the Lord, not by force or manipulation, but by the gentle leading of the Spirit.

We also lift you up, dear brother. The pain you carry is heavy, and we pray that the Lord would sustain you, giving you strength for each day. Your love for your wife, though tested, is a testimony to Christ's love for the Church - a love that is patient, kind, and hopes all things (1 Corinthians 13:7). We encourage you to continue speaking tenderly to her heart (Hosea 2:14), even as you stand firm in truth. Your prayers and fasting are powerful and effective (James 5:16), and we believe the Lord is moving even now.

Finally, we pray for unity in the body of Christ. The gates of hell shall not prevail against the Church (Matthew 16:18), and we stand together in resisting the enemy's schemes. We rebuke any spirit of division, bitterness, or unforgiveness that may seek to take root in your heart. Forgive as the Lord has forgiven you (Colossians 3:13), and trust Him to bring justice and restoration in His perfect timing.

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this brother, his wife, and their son. Lord, You see the pain, the brokenness, and the longing for restoration. We ask that You would move mightily in this situation, convicting hearts of sin and drawing them back to You. Father, we pray for this wife, that she would experience godly sorrow leading to repentance, turning fully to Christ and embracing the life You have for her. Soften her heart, Lord, and let her hear Your still, small voice calling her home.

For this son, we pray that You would guard his heart and mind, drawing him to You from his earliest days. May he grow in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man (Luke 2:52). Give this father the opportunity to disciple him in Your truth, that he may know the Scriptures and walk in Your ways.

Lord, we ask for restoration in this marriage, not just for their sake, but for Your glory. Let this family be a testimony of Your mercy, grace, and power to redeem. Where there has been sin, bring repentance. Where there has been division, bring unity. Where there has been pain, bring healing. And where there has been distance, bring closeness - both with You and with one another.

Strengthen this brother, Lord. Sustain him in his prayers, his fasting, and his love for his family. Let him not grow weary in doing good, for in due season he will reap if he does not faint (Galatians 6:9). Fill him with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7), and let him rest in the knowledge that You are working all things together for good.

We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name, the only name by which we are saved. May Your will be done in this family, and may Your name be glorified. Amen.