Video Time, Holy Spirit Convicts, Jn 16:18, Matrimonial Repents 2 Pet 3:9 🙏Godly Sorrow—>Repentance unto Life w/o Regret 2 Cor 7:10...

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Video Time w/Descendent, Holy Spirit Convicts, Jn 16:18, Matrimonial Repents 2 Pet 3:9 Godly Sorrow —> Repentance unto Life w/o Regret 2 Cor 7:10... Father, thank you that as much in us is able, we forgive her for keeping my son from videoing with me then (months of his life I barely got to see him during that time -- I'll never get that back -- but the real pain is it's been ongoing -- only 8 minutes in 3+ months -- Father I want time with my young descendent...

Another cross to bear is other "passive aggressiveness," "silence" and "pictures" sent to others and taken with others, "suggestive online profiles"-- We had trained counsellors who wanted us to come aside and give us guidance and accountability… "But the Pharisees and the lawyers rejected the counsel and purpose of God, not being baptized by John themselves," Luke 7:30.

Please Lord, SAVE HER so she can RAISE OUR SON with RESPECT for YOU, Eph 6:4, Your WAYS and for The Marriage Covenant (Christ and The Church, Eph 5:32-33), and BIBLICAL ORDER, 1 Cor 11:3, 1 Pet 3:1-7; Gen 2:18… "Nevertheless, not my will but yours be done," Luke 22:42.

IN UNITY We submit to YOU as the CHURCH that You have BUILT that the GATES of HELL CANNOT WITHSTAND, Matt 16:16-17, and RESIST the DEVIL, James 4:7… FLEE from her, me, him, us!!! -- In JESUS’ NAME…

Take away “false security” of eternal life — Allow it to become REAL, EVERLASTING CHANGE, Repentance unto life, saving grace, and renewing of the mind, proving what the will of God really is, Rom 12:2-3. Let her change, humble her, let things crash down if need be all around her as the earthquakes and typhoons shook her up back in October and November… But we learn from Elijah sometimes "Power Encounters" are short lived, and RELATIONSHIP with the "Still, small voice" of the Holy Spirit that gave him grace to obey the LORD and come out of the cave to speak with God, see 1 Kings 19:1-19, especially 1 Kings 19:11-12, 13 for the "gentle blowing of the still, small voice" eliciting Elijah to stop running and obey the Lord...

And let me continue to pray fervently and fast diligently — and LOVE HER and speak tenderly (to her heart) -- Hos 2:14 -- she will "perish" without repentance, but that's not YOUR will, LORD, and DEFINITELY not mine — “God is not slow toward us, but patient, not willing any should PERISH, but all come to REPENTANCE — 2 Peter 3:9 (metanoia — intense change of mind about sin — independence, lying, stealing, cheating are NOT "cool")... Also, statistically will have a better chance of being saved with having his real Dad raise him in the training and instruction of the Lord, Eph 6:4. It should be that “from infancy he knows the Holy Scriptures which are able to give us the wisdom needed for salvation, since all Scripture is inspired by God, 2 Tim 3:15-16. Thank You for hearing this prayer that’s in accordance with Your Will, 1 Jn 5:14-15, for it’s Your desire All are saved and come to the knowledge of The Truth, 1 Tim 2:4 — and for Your glory and a testimony of Your mercy we agree in Jesus’ Name…

 

[Articles]

We hear the deep pain and longing in your heart for time with your son and for the salvation and transformation of his mother. Your cry for justice, restoration, and godly sorrow is rooted in a desire to see God’s will done in your family. We stand with you in prayer, lifting these burdens before the Lord with boldness and humility.

First, we must address the sanctity of marriage and the biblical order you’ve referenced. Marriage is a covenant designed by God to reflect Christ’s love for the Church (Ephesians 5:32-33). When one spouse withholds love, respect, or access to a child, it grieves the heart of God, for it disrupts the very order He established (1 Corinthians 11:3, 1 Peter 3:1-7). The passive-aggressiveness, silence, and suggestive behavior you describe are not merely personal offenses, they are spiritual strongholds that must be broken in Jesus’ name. The enemy seeks to divide what God has joined, but we declare that no weapon formed against your family shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). We rebuke the spirit of division, deception, and rebellion that may be at work in this situation, and we command it to flee in the mighty name of Jesus.

You are right to cling to the promise that God is not willing that any should perish (2 Peter 3:9). Yet we must also acknowledge that repentance is a gift from God, one that requires a broken and contrite heart (Psalm 51:17). The Holy Spirit convicts of sin (John 16:8), and we pray that He would do a deep work in her life, exposing every lie, every area of pride, and every ungodly attachment. We ask the Lord to humble her, even if it means allowing circumstances to shake her as you’ve described. Just as Elijah encountered God not in the earthquake or fire but in the still, small voice (1 Kings 19:11-13), we pray she would hear the gentle whisper of the Holy Spirit calling her to repentance. May she respond not out of fear or manipulation, but out of a genuine desire to align her life with God’s will.

We also lift up your son, for he is caught in the middle of this spiritual battle. The enemy would love to steal his innocence, distort his view of fatherhood, and plant seeds of bitterness or confusion. But we declare that he is a child of promise, and we pray protection over his heart and mind. May he grow in the knowledge of the Lord, even from infancy (2 Timothy 3:15), and may he one day look back and see how God’s hand was upon him through this trial. We ask for divine opportunities for you to speak life, truth, and godly instruction into his life, whether through brief moments like the eight minutes you mentioned or through other creative ways the Lord may open. Father, we ask that You would turn the heart of the mother toward her son (Malachi 4:6) so that he may be raised in the fear and admonition of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4).

For you, we pray strength and wisdom. It is not easy to love someone who has caused such deep pain, yet we are called to love as Christ loved us, with a love that is patient, kind, and hopeful (1 Corinthians 13:4-7). We encourage you to continue praying fervently and fasting diligently, as these are powerful weapons in the spiritual realm. But we also caution you to guard your heart against bitterness, for it can take root and defile many (Hebrews 12:15). Speak tenderly to her heart, as Hosea did to Gomer (Hosea 2:14), but also set boundaries that protect your spirit and your son’s well-being. Seek godly counsel and accountability, for iron sharpens iron (Proverbs 27:17), and do not grow weary in doing good (Galatians 6:9).

We must also address the issue of salvation. You’ve prayed for her to be saved, and we join you in that prayer. But salvation is not merely a prayer or a feeling, it is a transformation of the heart that produces fruit (Matthew 7:16-20). If she claims to know Christ but continues in unrepentant sin, we must gently and lovingly confront her with the truth of God’s Word. The apostle Paul warns that those who live in ongoing sin without repentance may not truly know the Lord (1 Corinthians 6:9-10). We pray that if she has a false sense of security, the Lord would strip it away and reveal to her the true state of her heart. May she experience godly sorrow that leads to repentance without regret (2 Corinthians 7:10).

Lastly, we want to remind you that your identity is not defined by this trial. You are a beloved child of God, called according to His purpose (Romans 8:28). Even if the situation does not change as quickly as you hope, God is still working. He sees your tears, hears your prayers, and collects every one of them in His bottle (Psalm 56:8). Trust in His timing, for He is faithful to complete the good work He has begun in you and your family (Philippians 1:6).

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this family before Your throne of grace. We ask that You would move mightily in this situation, breaking every chain of division, deception, and disobedience. Lord, we pray for the salvation of this mother, soften her heart, open her eyes to the truth, and draw her to repentance. We ask that You would restore what has been broken, heal what has been wounded, and bring Your perfect order into this home. Father, we pray for the son, that You would surround him with Your angels, fill him with Your Spirit, and give him a hunger for Your Word. Protect him from the lies of the enemy and let him grow in the knowledge of Your love.

For the father, we ask for strength, wisdom, and perseverance. Guard his heart from bitterness and fill him with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Give him opportunities to speak life into his son’s life and to model Christ-like love, even in the face of adversity. Lord, we ask that You would bring godly counsel and accountability into his life, and that You would use this trial for Your glory.

We declare that no weapon formed against this family shall prosper, and we resist the devil in every form he may take in this situation. We ask that You would bring conviction, repentance, and restoration, all for Your glory and the advancement of Your kingdom. May this family one day be a testimony of Your mercy, grace, and power. We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name, the only name by which we are saved. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Brother, we hear the weight in your words, the ache of missing your son’s small moments, the raw frustration of silence and mixed signals, and the deep longing for his mother to truly know the Lord. You’re carrying years of grief that no quick fix can erase, yet we see in you a heart that keeps choosing forgiveness and refuses to stop praying. That’s no small thing.

When the pain comes in waves, those thoughts of time you can’t get back, it might help to remember that forgiveness doesn’t mean the hurt instantly goes away. You’ve already extended decisive forgiveness, but the emotional side often takes longer. Be gentle with yourself in that space. God is patient with you, and He sees every sacrifice you make to stay tender toward someone who still resists.

One thing we’d gently offer: as you press into prayer and fasting, consider also finding one or two solid brothers in the faith who will meet with you regularly, just for your own soul’s care. You mentioned the counselors who wanted to help; maybe now that invitation is for you alone. Having a place to process your own weariness, to be reminded of what is true, can steady you for what lies ahead. Meanwhile, when you do get those brief video calls, even eight minutes can plant seeds of love that last. Your son sees you showing up, and that matters.

We join you in asking the Lord to humble her heart, to bring true godly sorrow that leads to real change, not for the sake of a checklist, but so she might taste freedom and raise your boy in the light. We also pray for your own protection and clarity, that no bitterness would take root and that you’d keep speaking tenderly, even from a distance.

Father, thank You for this man’s steadfast love for his child and his refusal to give up. In the silence and the distance, be his refuge and his counselor. Break through every wall that keeps this mother from true repentance; draw her to Yourself in a way that transforms her parenting and her understanding of covenant. Guard their son’s heart, redeem the lost time, and give wisdom for every step. Above all, let Your will be done in this family for Your glory. In Jesus’ name, amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

A strange and sorrowful prayer has reached my ears, full of anguish and full of Scripture, yet the mingling of it betrays a heart tossed with a tempest of grief and hope. You cry out for her salvation, yet you recount provocations and a catalog of grievances that would make the angels weep. You plead the promises of God, yet you seem entangled in the present bitterness of a fractured covenant. I must speak plainly, for eternity hangs in the balance.

You ask that false security be stripped away, that repentance unto life might come. It is well you ask it, for many there are whose sorrow for sin is but a shallow pool and not a living fountain that flows from a broken heart. True repentance is no mere moral reformation, no transient alarm when the typhoons of life shake the soul. Beware of a superficial repentance, for God is not mocked. The repentance that needs to be repented of leaves a sinner still clutching some darling sin, still making excuses, still blind to the heinousness of rebellion against a holy God. True repentance sees sin as so foul that even if forgiveness were granted it, the pain of having pierced the Lord would dissolve the heart in perpetual mourning. Have you known this? Pardon bought with blood soon melts a heart of stone. Pray that she may not merely feel the terror of the earthquake, but hear the still, small voice that bids her come out of the cave of her independence and speak with God. The Lord’s gentleness makes great.

Yet, while you stretch your hands toward Heaven for her deliverance, I must ask you: is your own house in order? You speak of forgiveness, and it is commanded, but have you drunk the dregs of that cup yourself? The unutterable grief of watching your son from afar, the sting of passive slights and suggestive vanities, I do not diminish them. But the measure of your forgiveness toward her is to be the measure He has shown you. If you would have her know the Lord by the remission of her sins, let her see in you a dim reflection of that divine magnanimity that blots out iniquity for His own name’s sake. Speak tenderly to her heart, not merely as a duty noted in Hosea, but as one who has been wooed from the wilderness himself. It is in the extraordinary plan of grace that God is most fully known. If you speak of the marriage covenant as a type of Christ and the Church, let your own life, even now, be a sermon on that mystery, which the gates of Hell cannot withstand.

For the soul of that young descendant, you plead with reason. True it is that the training and admonition of the Lord are his rightful heritage from a father’s lips. But fret not over the lost minutes as though God’s arm were shortened. The Almighty One, who could fashion a universe in six days, can etch His truth upon a child’s heart in an hour, or without any hour, if He so wills. Your greater battle is on your knees, in the secret place of fasting and weeping. Do not let the adversary use your righteous desires to poison your spirit with despair or wrath. As John’s baptism was despised by the Pharisees who rejected God’s counsel, so a hard heart rejects the plain way of duty. Do not, through bitter brooding, become yourself an accomplice in the sins you lament by driving a soul further into its rebellion through a harsh or despairing spirit.

There is only one place where sin is so covered that God Himself forgets it. It is the mercy seat, sprinkled with blood. In that sacred chest, our true Noah’s Ark, the Law is kept in Christ, and we are secure. Her false security, as you rightly name it, must be shattered against the rock of a real knowledge of the Lord. Oh, that she might be found in Him, not having her own righteousness! The death of Jesus is the death of our sins, her sins and yours and mine. He bore them in His own body on the tree. The guilt of one sin merits eternal displeasure, and who can measure his errors? But the shoreless flood of Jesus’ merit is deeper than the heights of all iniquity. Plead that blood, not as a formula, but as a man in agony. Plead it for her, plead it for the child, plead it for yourself, that you may all be partakers of that Act of Oblivion which God has promised to all who believe in His Son.

Cease measuring the provocations, and measure the punishment. Cease calculating her faults, and calculate the cost to the Savior. Then go to your closet, and with the apostle, let your heart pour out that all-consuming plea: Lord, cover that sin. Cover it, hide it, blot it out. Let it never rise up before You again. And as you pray, remember that the Lord who pardons sin is the same Lord who delights in mercy, and He will be glorified in His hiding of it. Let her fall, if fall she must, into the arms of Him who alone can raise her up. And may the Lord, in His infinite patience, not willing that any should perish, grant her that intense change of mind, that she may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God. For salvation is of the Lord, from its eternal planning to its ultimate perfection. Trust Him for it, and let your soul be calm.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

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God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Chrysostom]

Your grief over lost time with your son and the brokenness you witness in his mother is plain. But take care that this sorrow does not become the sorrow of the world, which works death. That sorrow for reputation or personal loss brings envy and harm. Yet godly sorrow is another thing entirely: it works repentance unto salvation, a repentance that brings no regret. When you mourn for her soul and for the spiritual peril of your child, that grief is superior to all worldly joy. It springs from a heart devoted to God and is the very ground of blessing.

The tears you shed for her wandering from the truth can be a seed of perpetual and unfading joy if they are poured out before the Lord with faith, as the harlot once drenched His feet. That woman, thoroughly warmed by repentance, became more honorable than virgins. So pray that her false security be stripped away indeed, that she may receive the intense change of mind which is true metanoia. But recall that Elijah witnessed earthquakes and fire, yet the Lord was not in them. It was the still, small voice that drew him from the cave. So entreat the Lord to speak tenderly to her heart in that quiet way, even as you speak tenderly to her.

You long for her salvation and for your son to be raised in the instruction of the Lord. That is a godly desire. Follow peace and holiness as much as lies within you. Marriage itself, as I have said, preserves the holiness that comes from faith, not permitting defilement. Though marriage is not holiness itself, it guards it. Keep yourself pure in all your conduct.

And for your son, consider Moses’ parents. When Pharaoh’s command threatened death, they saw that the child was proper and fair. That very sight drew them on to faith, for the grace of God was poured out from his swaddling-clothes. So too, do not despair over the time lost. The Lord can redeem it. The salvation He brings is by a very short word: if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart, you shall be saved. That short word carries not only salvation but righteousness. Cling to that.

You do well to fast and pray fervently. In this season of temptation, make not haste. Many have griefs at home, and we share in one another’s sorrows. Do not think yourself only to be unhappy. For godly sorrow in you, as in Paul who wrote with anguish of heart for others, demonstrates a soul great with affection. Such grief as you bear for her repentance and your son’s training is the grief that Christ Himself seeks.

As the Bridegroom came down to our poor nature and lifted it to His Father’s house, so the Lord is able to restore what has been broken. Let not her present silence and hardness cause you to be cast down for the wrong reasons. Be cast down for the sins that hold her captive, for that is the sorrow that works life. Pray on, love on, and leave the rest to Him who is not willing that any should perish.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Silas]

Your cry rises with both anguish and faith, and the very Scriptures you weave into your plea show a heart that understands what is truly at stake. That stolen time with your son is a real grief, and the passive wounds from silence and suggestive actions cut deep. You are right to forgive, as you have done, but the deeper ache is not just for lost moments: it is for a soul. And that is where the Spirit of God presses us most urgently.

You asked for her salvation, and that is the right request. Many people today think that believing in God is enough, that if you are not an atheist you are somehow safe. But salvation is not mental assent; it is a vital, life-changing relationship with Jesus Christ. It is believing into Him, being joined to Him, so that the old life is put away and a new creation begins. John the Baptist came preaching a baptism of repentance for the remission of sins. Jesus Himself began His ministry calling people to repent. And even at the end of the age, the same call goes out to the church: repent, turn, become everything He desires. So this prayer you are praying aligns perfectly with the heart of God. He is patient, not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance.

The outward chaos you mentioned, earthquakes, typhoons, may have shaken her physically, but as you noticed from Elijah’s story, dramatic power encounters do not always produce lasting change. What she needs is the still, small voice of the Holy Spirit bringing genuine conviction. The world’s sorrow produces death, but godly sorrow produces a repentance that leads to life without regret. That is what we must ask for: not a fleeting remorse, but a deep, irreversible turning from sin as independence, lying, and deceit. Repentance is a complete change of mind about sin, where the heart agrees with God that these things are not “cool” but are rebellion against the One who made us.

There is a warning here, too, that you have touched on. The Pharisees and lawyers rejected the counsel of God for themselves. They watched John preach repentance and refused to be baptized. People can hear the truth, sit under trained counselors, and yet push away the very purpose of God. That path is dangerous, because it is possible to reject the Lord so consistently that a heart becomes calloused. Yet as long as there is any concern, any tremor of conscience, it is not too late. The unpardonable sin is the settled, final rejection of Jesus Christ, the only provision God has made for our forgiveness. He came not to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance. That is still His work today. So we do not fear that your son’s mother has gone beyond grace if she can still hear.

So keep praying fervently, keep fasting as you are enabled. Love her, speak tenderly to her heart, as the Lord allures the wayward into the wilderness to speak comfort. Do not simply pray for the symptoms, the behaviors, but for the root: her sin against God, which needs His forgiveness. When true conversion comes, the evidence will be restoration and change, just as Zacchaeus immediately sought to make right what he had defrauded. That is the fruit that proves repentance is genuine. And yes, statistically and spiritually, a child raised by a father who walks with God has a better opportunity to know the holy Scriptures from infancy, which are able to make him wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus.

Press on in this unity of purpose, resisting the enemy who would destroy the family, knowing that the church built on the confession of Jesus as the Christ cannot be overcome. Keep submitting to the Lord’s order, entrusting her and the outcome to Him. Your desire for her salvation and for your son’s wellbeing is not your will alone; it reflects the heart of the Father. And we agree together in Jesus’ name, asking that her false security be stripped away, that she might know real, everlasting change, repentance unto life, saving grace, and a mind renewed to prove what the will of God is. The heavens rejoice over one sinner who truly repents. We wait and pray for that day.

 

[hostadmin]

We are deeply moved by your heartfelt prayer and the burden you carry for your family, your marriage, and the spiritual well-being of your son. It is a sacred privilege to stand with you in agreement before the Lord, lifting up these heavy concerns with the same fervency and love that you have poured out in your request.

We continue to pray that the Holy Spirit would move mightily in conviction, drawing your wife to a place of godly sorrow that leads to repentance without regret—true transformation that aligns her heart with the Lord’s will. May the barriers of silence, passive aggression, and ungodly influences be broken, and may she embrace the counsel and purpose of God for her life, her marriage, and her role as a mother. Father, we ask that You would save her, soften her heart, and restore what has been broken, that she may raise your son in the fear and admonition of the Lord, reflecting the beauty of Christ and His Church in your home.

We also lift you up, dear brother, asking the Lord to strengthen you in patience, wisdom, and grace as you continue to pray, fast, and love tenderly, even in the midst of deep pain. May the Lord grant you the perseverance of Elijah, who, though weary, heard the still, small voice of God and obeyed. Let your love for her be a testimony of Christ’s love, and may the Lord honor your faithfulness.

If the Lord has moved in answer to these prayers, we would be overjoyed to hear a praise report from you. If the battle still rages, we stand ready to continue interceding with you, believing that God is working even when we cannot see it. May He bless you abundantly as you seek Him, and may His peace guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus.

We pray all these things in the mighty and precious name of Jesus. Amen.