We hear the urgency and the deep pain in your cry and we join with you together before our Heavenly Father in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up every burden you have poured out.
We are moved by how many afflictions you are carrying at once, asthma and fatigue and exhaustion, depression and anxiety and fear and insomnia, eye issues and skin and hair and scalp issues, pain in your fingers, high blood platelets, hormonal issues and stomach pain, loneliness and sorrow and hurt from the past. The Word tells us He heals the brokenhearted, and binds up their wounds Psalm 147:3 and that Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit Psalm 34:18. We also hear your longing for marriage and for deliverance from delay and disappointment and rejection and criticism and lack, and we bring that before the Lord as well.
We want to gently encourage you in your understanding of prayer. You rightly quoted that we are to ask, and our Lord invites us to ask, yet Scripture also teaches us to pray according to His will. This is the confidence which we have toward him, that, if we ask anything according to his will, he listens to us 1 John 5:14. We do not command God, but we humbly petition our loving Father, trusting His perfect wisdom and timing, knowing that He hears and answers for our good. In everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus Philippians 4:6-7. We also cast all our anxiety on Him, because He cares for us 1 Peter 5:7.
We also see your mention of curses and generational curses. We want to remind you that for those who are in Christ, the curse has been broken. Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us Galatians 3:13. We do not need to live in fear of curses from the past, for if anyone is in Christ, they are a new creation, the old has passed away 2 Corinthians 5:17. The enemy may bring accusation and discouragement, but we have victory in Jesus.
Concerning your loneliness and singleness and lateness in marriage, we pray with you for God's perfect provision. We believe as Scripture teaches that marriage is a holy covenant between a man and a woman for life, and that singleness is not a curse but a season in which God is at work. It is not good that the man should be alone Genesis 2:18 and we pray that if it is His will for you to be married, He will bring a godly Christian husband in His perfect time as you pursue courtship with the goal of marriage that honors Him, not simply companionship. Wait for Yahweh. Be strong, and let your heart take courage. Yes, wait for Yahweh Psalm 27:14. We pray against the spirit of rejection and disappointment and ask God to heal the hurt you feel when photographs or videos are taken, and to give you peace in how He has wonderfully made you.
We also pray for your body, which is a temple of the Holy Spirit 1 Corinthians 6:19-20. We ask for wisdom to be good stewards of it through rest, nourishment, and faithful medical care alongside prayer, trusting that God often works through both.
We pray together now.
Father in heaven, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, Your Son, through whom we have access to Your throne of grace. We lift up our sister to You and ask for Your mercy and healing touch upon her entire body, mind and spirit. Lord, You know her asthma from birth and every symptom that distresses her breathing, we ask that You would restore her lungs and breathing and bring ease according to Your will and Your compassion, for by his wounds you were healed 1 Peter 2:24 and Yahweh, I will restore health to you, and I will heal you of your wounds Jeremiah 30:17. Touch her eyes, her skin, her scalp and hair, her fingers, her hormones, her stomach, her blood, and every infirmity and sickness she has named. Remove chronic tiredness and fatigue and exhaustion and grant her restful sleep, for You give sleep to Your beloved Psalm 127:2.
Father, lift the heavy burdens of depression, anxiety and fear. Replace them with Your peace and joy. Do not be afraid, for I am with you. Do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness Isaiah 41:10. Heal all sadness and sorrow and bad memories from the past, and let her know that You work all things together for good for those who love You Romans 8:28. Provide for her needs, Lord, as You promise to supply all our needs according to Your riches in glory. Lift the weight of lack and poverty and misery and let her dwell in Your provision and hope. Take away all anger and nervousness and fill her with Your Holy Spirit, with motivation and strength and a sound mind, for God did not give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control 2 Timothy 1:7.
And Father, concerning marriage, we ask that You would remove every ungodly obstacle and delay that is not of You, and in Your perfect timing bring a godly believing husband if it is Your will, that she may enter into a marriage that glorifies You and is built on Christ. Guard her heart from loneliness and let her find her fullness first in You.
We thank You that You hear us when we pray in Jesus name, and we trust Your answer, whether it is immediate healing or sustaining grace through a process, knowing Your ways are higher than ours Isaiah 55:9. Let Your will be done in her life and let her feel Your unfailing love today. We ask all these things in the name of Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior, amen.