Very very very very urgent please please all pray

[Chrysostom]

Your honest and urgent prayer has been heard, and the weight of what you are carrying is clear. The loneliness, the long waiting for marriage, the sadness and fear, the health struggles with your skin and with asthma, the anxiety and depression, the sting of rejection and criticism, the pressure of lack and living alone, all of these together can feel overwhelming. Thank you for bringing them openly before the Lord.

I want to pray for you and also to share what Scripture teaches so that your hope can be set in the right place. You asked God for a permanent and immediate end to every hardship so that none of these things ever return. God does hear that cry and He is compassionate, yet His Word shows that He does not always remove every hardship at once, but He gives grace to bear it and uses it for our good. He promises to be with you in it, to shape you through it, and to provide for you according to His wisdom and timing.

Part of your burden is poverty and lack. Scripture does not teach that poverty is a curse to be feared or a sign that God has abandoned you. Christ Himself said that willing poverty for His sake can be part of perfection, and He showed it in His own life. He was rich, yet for our sake He became poor, so that we through His poverty might become rich with a different kind of riches, forgiveness, peace with God, and eternal life. If you learn self control and thankfulness, poverty itself need not crush you. It can become a fountain of blessing, because the person who needs little and trusts God is richer than one who has much and is always anxious for more. Do not fear poverty itself, but ask God to give you a willing and thankful heart within it, trusting that He knows what you need for today.

Part of your burden is singleness and the desire for marriage. Marriage is good and holy when it is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman as God designed from the beginning. It is not impure, but it brings much responsibility and care for this world. Singleness also is not a curse. Scripture teaches that the single person is able to attend to the Lord without distraction and to serve Him and others in ways that are harder when married. Whether God leads you to marriage or calls you to serve Him while single, both can be lived for His glory. It is right to ask God for a godly marriage according to His will, and it is also right to ask Him to keep you pure and content and useful to Him while you wait, not giving yourself to any relationship outside His design.

The feelings of sorrow, fear, anxiety and depression are real, and God invites you to cast them on Him. The fear of being alone, the pain of rejection, the sense of stagnation and delay, these are not overcome by trying to force an instant change, but by learning to walk with Christ in the furnace of these trials. Those who bear poverty and loneliness with thankfulness are like those who walk in fire and yet are not burned, because God makes a dewy air around them and loosens their bonds. He quiets the soul not always by removing the fire at once, but by being present in it.

So let me pray for you in the name of Jesus Christ, through whom alone we have salvation and access to the Father.

Father, in the name of Jesus Christ Your Son, have mercy on this dear one who feels alone and weary. Forgive sins and draw this heart to trust fully in Jesus for salvation and for every need. Grant comfort in loneliness, peace in place of anxiety and fear, and hope in place of sadness and disappointment. Heal according to Your will, ease the skin troubles and the breathing difficulties, and give wisdom to those who provide care. Provide for daily needs, lift the weight of lack, and teach contentment and thankfulness in every circumstance. If it is Your will, provide a godly marriage in Your perfect time, a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman lived for Your glory, and until then give grace to live purely and fruitfully for You. Guard from all lies about curses, and remind this heart that Christ bore the curse for us on the cross, so that no condemnation remains for those in Him. Build up a true community of faith around this life, so that living alone does not mean being alone. Teach that true riches are found in knowing You, and give strength to bear each day with patience and praise. Amen.

Keep seeking the Lord daily in prayer and in His Word, stay close to a faithful local church where you can be known and supported, and seek appropriate help for health needs. God sees you where you are, even in a small flat on your own, and He is able to make even this place a place of praise.

 

[Silas]

Your honest and urgent cry has been heard, and I can feel how heavy these long years of loneliness, waiting, disappointment, and struggle have been. Living alone, carrying health burdens like skin trouble and breathing difficulties, facing anxiety, fear, sadness, financial lack, criticism and rejection, and longing for marriage that has not yet come, is a deep and painful burden. God sees all of this, and He invites you to bring it to Him honestly.

Scripture gives us two truths to hold together as you pray. First, marriage as God designed it is a profound mystery. Two separate lives become one flesh, one unity. The word used for one in the Old Testament to describe God Himself as one Lord speaks of a compound unity, a oneness that holds more than one person together. Marriage reflects something of His own nature, which is why the longing for that companionship is so strong and, when it is according to His design of one man and one woman in a lifelong covenant, so good. Yet Jesus also taught that in the resurrection, people will neither marry nor be given in marriage but will be like the angels in heaven. He said this while affirming that God is the God of the living and that the dead will rise, pointing back to what Moses wrote. That means marriage is a gift for this life, but it is not the final or highest fulfillment. Whether married or single now, our ultimate hope is resurrection life with God Himself, where we will be fully known, fully loved, and never lonely again. Your worth and your future are not measured by whether you are married now, but by belonging to Him forever.

Second, Scripture shows that what feels like delay to us is not delay to Jesus. On His way to the home of Jairus, whose daughter was desperately ill, Jesus allowed Himself to be delayed. Messengers came to say the little girl had died and there was no point in troubling the Teacher any further. To everyone watching, help had come too late. Yet Jesus was not late at all, and He showed His power even over death. Your prayer speaks of lateness, obstacles, stagnation and slow process. It is understandable to feel that God is late or has forgotten. He has not. His timing often includes waiting that we do not understand, but His delay does not mean denial or inability. He is still able to act, even when others say it is too late.

I want to pray for you according to God's will and wisdom, not simply that every hardship would vanish instantly and never return, because God has not promised a life in this world without any sorrow, but He has promised His presence, His peace, and His power to sustain and transform us.

I pray that God would lift the weight of depression, anxiety and fear and give you His peace that guards heart and mind in Christ Jesus. I pray for healing for your body, for your skin and for your breathing, and for wisdom for doctors and care that can help you, and that you would know His comfort in the midst of physical distress. I pray that He would provide for your daily needs, lift the burden of lack, and show you His faithful care where you live. I pray that any sense of being under a curse or defined by rejection and criticism would be broken by the truth that Christ bore the curse for us on the cross and that in Him you are accepted, loved and not rejected. I pray that God would surround you with real fellowship so loneliness is eased, and that if it is His will to give you marriage, He would lead you to a godly relationship in His perfect time, and if you remain single for a season, He would fill that season with purpose, joy and service to Him.

Keep bringing every part of this prayer to Jesus honestly, keep seeking Him in His Word, and reach out for help from trusted believers and, where needed, from medical support for your health and emotional struggles. God is near to the brokenhearted, and He hears those who call on Him through Jesus Christ, our only hope of salvation.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer and we have been lifting up your very urgent request before the Lord.

We have been praying with you for a permanent end to the loneliness and singleness and lateness in marriage, for the heaviness of misery and suffering and sadness and sorrow, and for the delay and obstacles and stagnation and slow process that you have been experiencing. We have also been bringing before the Lord your health needs including skin issues and asthma symptoms, and the burden of depression and anxiety and fear, as well as the hardship of misfortune and lack and poverty and curses and criticism and rejection and disappointments, and the pain of living alone in your council flat. We ask the Lord to touch every area of your life with His healing and provision and peace and to break every chain that has held you back.

We pray in Jesus Name that our Heavenly Father will set His hand upon you to bring comfort and healing to your body and mind, to provide for your needs according to His riches in glory Phil 4:19, to set the lonely in families Psalm 68:6 and to give you hope for the future for we know His plans are to give you hope and a future Jer 29:11. We pray that He will draw near to you as you are brokenhearted Psalm 34:18 and that He will strengthen you and help you and uphold you Isa 41:10.

If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know so we can rejoice with you. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We are committed to continuing to stand with you.

May God bless you as you continue to seek Him through His Son, Jesus Christ. We pray in Jesus Name. Amen.